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Amaros -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/5/2009 8:36:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail


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ORIGINAL: DemonKia
Les-Fest 2010?
The Bitch Pile is on!!??
Is that being held at the Hadron Super-Collider?


We will finally be able to explore what women do when they go to the bathroom together, with this thing.

Ron
I can't see any problem with it from a Christian D/s standpoint - the big bugaboo is Onanism, the Bible makes no mention of squirting.




MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/5/2009 1:29:03 PM)

Ahhh... and you're apparently one of those who has a knee-jerk reaction to the word "true".  Any person who TRULY LOVES the one their with would give their own life to save the one they love. Period.  This ain't nothin' new.  Too many toss about the word "love" like M&Ms, but when push comes to shove, they don't TRULY love the person they allege to love, because they're willing to sacrifice nothing.  So the word "true" means exactly what I "think" it means.  Consult a dictionary if you'd like a further explanation of what "true" means.  Bottom line is, some ALLEGE to love another, where some TRULY love them... in action, not just words.



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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Ahhh you are one of those 'twue' types, where instead of four different types of love, as described in greek, there is only one type of love, called 'twue' love. I don't think that words means what you think it does.


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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

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ORIGINAL: Viridana

Dying for everybody else's sins. Isn't that the ultimate act of service.... and submission? just askin.....


No. For those who TRULY LOVE their sub/slave, as ANY man loves a woman, or as ANY woman loves a man -- if given the choice to SAVE the one you love (which is why Christ is called THE SAVIOR) -- any Top/Dom/Domme or whatever who TRULY LOVED their sub/slave would do the same.  Those who disagree with this do not TRULY LOVE the person they're with.  Period.  No different from a parent giving their life for their child.  That's not submissive in the least.







secretmaster22 -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/5/2009 7:06:59 PM)

I think it depends a lot on your beliefs as a Christian.  I have heard people mention things like sodomy and same sex stuff.  Personally I believe that the scripture which speaks to these things also say things like eating pork being an abomination.  They are called the cleanliness laws by some.  For instance they also say tattoos are a sin too.  I find it funny how as Christians people will eat Pork and get a tattoo of a cross and then tell Homosexuals that they are sinners, as if you can pick and choose what you should and shouldn't follow based on what you personally find offensive.  You can look at arguments about poly relationships and such too. 

When it comes down to it, I believe Christ's message on sin was wrapped up when he was asked what the greatest commandments were and he surprisingly answered, "Love the lord your God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength.  and the second is like it.  Love your neighbor as yourself.  All other laws were made for such reason."  I'm paraphrasing, but that is the jest.  i find it hard to figure how a consenting BDSM relationship goes against either of those commandments?  I find it hard to believe that poly relationships, or "swinging" type of fun would be not loving to God or your neighbor?  Besides, my fall back is "He who is forgiven much, loves much."  LOL   




looking4princess -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/5/2009 9:53:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

FR..kind of off-topic ...but are there many reverends that indulge in bdsm?



Jeez, sb, you never know what goes on behind bedroom doors in the Rev's house. Need a survey from the wives. Maybe not in the Rev's house. But, why would it surprise us. Think Ted Haggard and Jimmie Swaggert....names in the news. Victims of human frailties.




Amaros -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/5/2009 11:04:15 PM)

The Quiverfull's have a serious impregnation fetish, and a lot of sects apparently practice orgasm denial, if their stress levels are any indication.




looking4princess -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/7/2009 8:07:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Amaros

The Quiverfull's have a serious impregnation fetish, and a lot of sects apparently practice orgasm denial, if their stress levels are any indication.



Admittedly, I had to look it up. I thought the Quiverfulls were a new family that just moved into the neighborhood *kidding*
And I presume you are kidding when you refer to their orthodoxy as an impregnation fetish

There is of course a rather sizable sect headquartered in Rome that does in fact practice orgasm denial. I never thought to link that to BDSM, although now that you mention it.... :) It has been alleged in news articles that a number of the members of said sect have managed to find release here and there. But, boys will be boys.




Amaros -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/8/2009 8:06:49 AM)

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Providentialism is also a term sometimes used to refer to the general philosophy of Quiverfull adherents. Quiverfull is a small movement among conservative evangelical Christians. Advocates oppose the general acceptance among Protestant Christians of deliberately limiting family size through use of birth control. Advocates believe God controls via Providence how many children are conceived and born, pointing to Bible verses that describe God acting to "open and close the womb". Continual "openness to children", to conception during routine sexual intercourse, irrespective of timing of the month during the ovulation cycle, is considered by Quiverfull adherents as part of their Christian calling in submission to the lordship of Christ.
Wikipedia: Providentialism (Quiverfull).

Sounds like a fetish to me, a form of partialism, given that sexual activity serves more that reproductive purposes.

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Body parts may also be the subject of sexual fetishes (also known as partialism) in which the body part preferred by the fetishist takes a sexual precedence over the owner.


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ORIGINAL: looking4princess


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ORIGINAL: Amaros

The Quiverfull's have a serious impregnation fetish, and a lot of sects apparently practice orgasm denial, if their stress levels are any indication.



Admittedly, I had to look it up. I thought the Quiverfulls were a new family that just moved into the neighborhood *kidding*
And I presume you are kidding when you refer to their orthodoxy as an impregnation fetish

There is of course a rather sizable sect headquartered in Rome that does in fact practice orgasm denial. I never thought to link that to BDSM, although now that you mention it.... :) It has been alleged in news articles that a number of the members of said sect have managed to find release here and there. But, boys will be boys.






xssve -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/11/2009 9:06:57 AM)

I think that here you
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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

But see, that very 'body versus spirit' dualism that shows up over & over again, whether within a structure of balancing extremes or battling ones, is (to me) an artifact of us, not something that's necessarily 'real' . . . . . . & thus all that's really displayed is the structure of the human mind far more than some way that the world actually is . . .. . . It becomes a projective tool more than a disclosive one . . ...

If you enjoy the classification process, great, but for me it doesn't really add much to note that something can be dichotomized & / or to spend much time allocating in one direction or the other, ultimately . . . . . . & this seems true of spiritual stuff even more so . . . . . .
I think that here you are expressing your confusion between the act of making distinctions between things and the act of assigning value - making value judgments about those things.

In fact, they are separate processes that are often confused since the latter is necessarily dependent on the former: a value judgment is predicated on a comparison to something else, a distinction, and then a value assignment based on that distinction.

Thus, you find those who denigrate all BDSM practices because they are "sick", i.e., a value judgment based on a perceived distinction.

You find male dominance promulgated in both BDSM and Christianity for example, they share views on discipline, and even have a few other fetishes in common, sometimes to the point you cannot find any substantial difference between them in terms of behavior - the differences are purely philosophical.

Thus "sick" is contrasted to some abstract construct of "healthy", which may or may not be empirically demonstrated to actually be healthy, or healthier, etc.

I've mentioned the Quiverfulls, Andrea Yates was under the restrictions of a philosophy similar to the Quiverfulls - from Wikipedia (Quiverfull):

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Seelhoff and others claim that Andrea Yates was a victim of Quiverfull thought. Yates and her husband Rusty described themselves as nondenominational Christians who did not use birth control, agreeing to accept as many children as God sent their way. Andrea Yates had a history of post-partum depression and was strongly advised by her psychiatrist not to have more children, but her husband, Russell "Rusty" Yates, persuaded her to stop taking her medication and conceive her fifth and last child. Andrea also homeschooled all her children, and Rusty led a "home church" wherein he was the sole interpreter of the Bible.

On June 20, 2001, Andrea murdered her five young children, ages six-months, two, three, five, and seven, by drowning them in their home bathtub. She was originally found guilty of murder in the first degree, but her conviction was overturned through appeal due to false testimony of an expert witness hired by the prosecution. A second trial determined she was not guilty by reason of insanity. She was confined indefinitely in a Texas state mental health facility.

Her husband, Russell Yates, was advised by her doctor not to leave his depressed wife alone (apparently because she had a history of suicidal thoughts); however, he began leaving her alone with the children for an hour in the morning and evening just prior to the drownings, against the objection of Andrea's mother. Although his actions suggested negligent endangerment of his children, the Texas District Attorney decided against prosecuting him after a brief investigation. Russell eventually divorced Andrea and remarried two days prior to the scheduled but postponed retrial.

Quiverfull adherents argue that the Yates' never specifically self-identified as Quiverfull and thereby reject that they were actually part of the movement. However, they were adherents of a preacher named Michael Peter Woroniecki, who espouses ideas similar to those in the Quiverfull movement.[37][39][40][41][42][43]
Probably not the direct result of breeder ideology, but it apparently exaggerated certain instabilities in her personality with tragic results.

In short, value judgments are technically separate from taxonomic distinctions, but often indistinguishable from same when expressed in self-other form - i.e., fear of, or competition with, "the other" whether "the other" is philosophy, gender, morphology, class, etc.




xssve -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/11/2009 9:30:18 AM)

People react to things that are "not real" all the time, if 'real" is defined as empirically demonstrable.

Gorean ideology is based largely on certain misconceptions about evolutionary theory prevalent in the Sixties that have since been depreciated - and there is no definition or role in Gorean for a switch, a Female dominant or a Male submissive, similar to Christianity - fine if that works for you, but if any of these other things describes you, then you're going to find Gorean lifestyle a bit stiffling, regardless of how many pseudo-scientific theories are thrown at you.




Acer49 -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/11/2009 4:38:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: secretmaster22

I think it depends a lot on your beliefs as a Christian.  I have heard people mention things like sodomy and same sex stuff.  Personally I believe that the scripture which speaks to these things also say things like eating pork being an abomination.  They are called the cleanliness laws by some.  For instance they also say tattoos are a sin too.  I find it funny how as Christians people will eat Pork and get a tattoo of a cross and then tell Homosexuals that they are sinners, as if you can pick and choose what you should and shouldn't follow based on what you personally find offensive.  You can look at arguments about poly relationships and such too. 

When it comes down to it, I believe Christ's message on sin was wrapped up when he was asked what the greatest commandments were and he surprisingly answered, "Love the lord your God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength.  and the second is like it.  Love your neighbor as yourself.  All other laws were made for such reason."  I'm paraphrasing, but that is the jest.  i find it hard to figure how a consenting BDSM relationship goes against either of those commandments?  I find it hard to believe that poly relationships, or "swinging" type of fun would be not loving to God or your neighbor?  Besides, my fall back is "He who is forgiven much, loves much."  LOL   


I have a pretty good idea that poly is not what GOD had in mind when he said love thy neighbor. Any activity that creates lust is also highly frowned apon as it is one of the seven capital sins




heartfeltsub -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/11/2009 4:41:16 PM)

Actually in the Bible, there is lots of examples of men with multiple wives. And the only mandate for a single wife, is if one wants to be an elder in the church.




xssve -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/11/2009 9:51:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Acer49

I have a pretty good idea that poly is not what GOD had in mind when he said love thy neighbor. Any activity that creates lust is also highly frowned apon as it is one of the seven capital sins
That would be the Seven Deadly Sins, and lust is merely a venal sin - Pride is a mortal sin.

I don't think that's in the Bible either.




thornhappy -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/11/2009 9:58:43 PM)

Wives and concubines, too.




StoneFox -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/11/2009 10:26:20 PM)

Fast Reply...

The one thing that makes me consistently uncomfortable is being called Goddess. "Thou shalt have no other gods before Me". Even when people use the title Goddess to be flattering and deferrential it still gets to me and therefore I have asked people on several occassions not to use it regarding me.




Acer49 -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/13/2009 5:34:51 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Viridana

Dying for everybody else's sins. Isn't that the ultimate act of service.... and submission? just askin.....


It is the ultimate sacrifice, which can be either dominant or submissive




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