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alittleevil -> RE: No Limits Slaves Who Say They Won't Do Housework (10/12/2009 10:36:43 AM)
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Hello,
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ORIGINAL: Fnyunj
I think most people who claim "no limits" are simply liars.
Or, to be more kind, simply using a code word which they believe is generally understood. The issue is, it isn't.
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To have no limits, is to completely, utterly, forsake the self. I'm not even sure what the fun in that would be.
Well, that's actually pretty hot, if not really an option for most people. And not everyone is in for "fun."
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So aside from the inherent dishonesty in the term "no limits" - yeah, if someone says "no housework" - well, that's a limit. Duh.
Heh. Yes.
As for the OP, asking about actual encounters with "no limits" slaves who don't do housework, yes, i've met people who have indeed followed up their "no limits" claim with a number of stated 'limits' like doing actual work for the household, or their hairstyle, or their choice of friends or their job. These may very well be quite reasonable , i don't argue any of their importance to individuals or their (often quite reasonable) reasons for wishing to maintain them, it just wouldn't work around here. This is why talking is good, folks (not directly to the OP, cause i get a very clear sense she already knows this). Get past the fantasies to what you really want and need and can do.
Best,
aj
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