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kccuckoldmist -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 2:36:56 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners.  they are not ready made... they are inspired to that level.


Nice!

A great slave is a compatible slave and one must realize they are grown and nurtured with mutual effort and not just fully grown and delivered to your door.









bravemax -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 2:45:36 PM)

"Me somebody to love, find
Me somebody to love, find

Can anybody FIND MEEEEE,
SOMEBODYYYYY to LOVE!"




sirsholly -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 2:46:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners.  they are not ready made... they are inspired to that level.
i agree!




RedMagic1 -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 2:47:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: leadership527
Actually, my wild speculation unsupported by anything even remotely resembling facts is that the big limitation to "great slaves" is a way inadequate supply of great masters. At least, in every other venue I've ever been in, it's the leadership role that is harest to fill. I see no reason why it would be any different in BDSM land.

I agree, with the expansion that people can lead from below, by example.  The hard thing to find is the person who walks their talk.  Someone more motivated by goal than by avoidance of pain.  Such a person, in whatever position in a hierarchy, can inspire others to improve.




subtlebutterfly -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 2:52:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mistr3ssBrandy

Hi guys. latley ive just been feeling like i cant find a great slave.. maybe im asking for a lot but being the goddess that i am i should be able to find a good one but i only have one good slave!!!eghhh having a bad day BRANDY!!!

Because I'm not available.




DavanKael -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 2:55:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527
Actually, my wild speculation unsupported by anything even remotely resembling facts is that the big limitation to "great slaves" is a way inadequate supply of great masters. At least, in every other venue I've ever been in, it's the leadership role that is harest to fill. I see no reason why it would be any different in BDSM land.

I agree, with the expansion that people can lead from below, by example.  The hard thing to find is the person who walks their talk.  Someone more motivated by goal than by avoidance of pain.  Such a person, in whatever position in a hierarchy, can inspire others to improve.



These 2 quotes speak very well to my thoughts on the matter and to my own identification as a switch as well; the synergy's the magic and the willingness to be at a different level of responsibility and accentuation of power than what is regarded as 'standard'. 
  Davan




lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:16:54 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet
I have to go with Ron. A great slave is great partly because they are so rare. Some things that are hard to find are worth the wait. As an aside, for those of us still looking for one, what are you upset about again? Enjoy what you already have.
Actually, my wild speculation unsupported by anything even remotely resembling facts is that the big limitation to "great slaves" is a way inadequate supply of great masters. At least, in every other venue I've ever been in, it's the leadership role that is harest to fill. I see no reason why it would be any different in BDSM land.

... not to be construed with a fact based statement.



Agreed, however, I don't think that negates how difficult it is to find a person of good quality and character combined with being a compatible match. Truly though, a good, compatible slave is only magnified and uplifted in the hands of a most worthy and excellent master.

lovingpet




kiwisub12 -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:21:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners.  they are not ready made... they are inspired to that level.




Well hell - there you go spoiling a nicely developing goofy thread by saying something profound and true.

and yes, my Sir is great inspiration to me.




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:25:23 PM)

quote:

Actually, my wild speculation unsupported by anything even remotely resembling facts is that the big limitation to "great slaves" is a way inadequate supply of great masters. At least, in every other venue I've ever been in, it's the leadership role that is harest to fill. I see no reason why it would be any different in BDSM land.

... not to be construed with a fact based statement.


Wow... what a concept. Be the change you wish to see in your authority-exchange dynamic! Works for me. *Grins*

Dame Calla




lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:30:36 PM)

Absolutely! And tazzygirl said it beautifully as well. Although, I think I'm pretty great in my own right! [:)]

lovingpet




SimplyIsaac -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:36:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners.  they are not ready made... they are inspired to that level.


Did you say slaves are inspired? That's a very unpopular theory here in some threads.




lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:39:24 PM)

Inspired sometimes... posteriorally motivated at other times [8D]

Sorry, I just couldn't resist!

lovingpet




tazzygirl -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:42:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners.  they are not ready made... they are inspired to that level.




Well hell - there you go spoiling a nicely developing goofy thread by saying something profound and true.

and yes, my Sir is great inspiration to me.


in that case, i will beg Master to beat me... with a wet noodle [:D]




LadyPact -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:42:53 PM)

Great slaves are about as rare as anyone who truly believes that they are an expert at everything related to BDSM.

Good luck in your search.




SimplyIsaac -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:43:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Inspired sometimes... posteriorally motivated at other times [8D]

Sorry, I just couldn't resist!

lovingpet


Who is to say a nice posterior isn't a source of inspiration? [:D]




tazzygirl -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:43:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners.  they are not ready made... they are inspired to that level.


Did you say slaves are inspired? That's a very unpopular theory here in some threads.


i often say unpopular things. [;)]

its what makes me so darn adorable... so im told




Aileen1968 -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:49:59 PM)

I am a great slave and taken.
No longer available.
Sucks to be you....




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:51:07 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners.  they are not ready made... they are inspired to that level.


Did you say slaves are inspired? That's a very unpopular theory here in some threads.


Like I've ever cared whether theories that I ascribe to are popular or unpopular... all I care about is whether they work in our household -- if they work, all good. If not, time for a new theory.

Dame Calla




CaringandReal -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:51:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Mistr3ssBrandy

Hi guys. latley ive just been feeling like i cant find a great slave.. maybe im asking for a lot but being the goddess that i am i should be able to find a good one but i only have one good slave!!!eghhh having a bad day BRANDY!!!


So what is wrong with a good slave? They are better than a bad slave!




kiwisub12 -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 4:52:21 PM)

Hey - i already said that!!!!!! cheater, jeez - if i'm the great slave - then you can't be!!!!!




[:D]




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