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DrkJourney -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:03:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: I am a Domme, thus already on the darkside and I have yet to get so much as a chicklet.....where are all these damn cookies and seafood????? The bad subbys stole them while the D types were out looking for GREAT slaves. [:D] You TOLD!!!! I can't believe you did that Wyld....just for that I'm not going to sha- ooops oooh so "you're" the culprit...[sm=paddle.gif] you get in that kitchen and bake me more cookies double for the ones you stole...lol

SimplyIsaac -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:03:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl kneeling or standing... a great slave is a product of the desire to serve, the desire to be served, and the energy both put into that desire. now.. how come i didnt get no cookies???? I'll give you one. Well said, above.

AnnaOfAramis -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:05:56 PM)
quote: slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners. they are not ready made... quote: You don't find great slaves, you make them. quote: o many D's these days think they should have subs and slaves already made that do everything they say and they are forgetting a little step called training. Yes, yes, and yes! I was going to post the same, but you all beat me to it:) Slaves aren't great when you find them, they are just potential. They only become great slaves after they have been mastered. It's a process and it doesn't happen overnight. I think some people expect them to arrive in a box with a red ribbon all ready to jump out and obey [:D] anna

leadership527 -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:12:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lovingpet Agreed, however, I don't think that negates how difficult it is to find a person of good quality and character... Heh, I wouldn't argue this in the slightest. Top quality people are, by definition, top quality and therefor in limited supply. It makes no difference whether we are talking dom, sub, vanilla, or something else. And yeah Red, I agree with your expansion also. In fact I am living proof of it. There is no doubt that my domliness is, in part, generated, supported, and enhanced by Carol. When I am uncertain it is she who settles me and refocuses me rather than storming off to collarme to whine about how I'm not domly enough. I adore the fact that rather than whining about it, she takes it upon herself to fix it. If I were to name one reason that I think most exemplifies why Carol is a great slave (in my eyes of course), it is that she helps to make me a great master. She is able to be both slave and partner at the same time and she's a strong partner.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:15:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DrkJourney quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: I am a Domme, thus already on the darkside and I have yet to get so much as a chicklet.....where are all these damn cookies and seafood????? The bad subbys stole them while the D types were out looking for GREAT slaves. [:D] You TOLD!!!! I can't believe you did that Wyld....just for that I'm not going to sha- ooops oooh so "you're" the culprit...[sm=paddle.gif] you get in that kitchen and bake me more cookies double for the ones you stole...lol Ye Ma'am, now Ma'am....scoots to the kitchen to bake some cookies while mumbling about Wyld the snitch

tazzygirl -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:22:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AnnaOfAramis quote: slaves become "great" at the feet of their owners. they are not ready made... quote: You don't find great slaves, you make them. quote: o many D's these days think they should have subs and slaves already made that do everything they say and they are forgetting a little step called training. Yes, yes, and yes! I was going to post the same, but you all beat me to it:) Slaves aren't great when you find them, they are just potential. They only become great slaves after they have been mastered. It's a process and it doesn't happen overnight. I think some people expect them to arrive in a box with a red ribbon all ready to jump out and obey [:D] anna we used to call that the ... add cum and stir, ready made... lol.. can you imagine if it were just that easy?

lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:31:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 quote: ORIGINAL: Lovingpet Agreed, however, I don't think that negates how difficult it is to find a person of good quality and character... Heh, I wouldn't argue this in the slightest. Top quality people are, by definition, top quality and therefor in limited supply. It makes no difference whether we are talking dom, sub, vanilla, or something else. And yeah Red, I agree with your expansion also. In fact I am living proof of it. There is no doubt that my domliness is, in part, generated, supported, and enhanced by Carol. When I am uncertain it is she who settles me and refocuses me rather than storming off to collarme to whine about how I'm not domly enough. I adore the fact that rather than whining about it, she takes it upon herself to fix it. If I were to name one reason that I think most exemplifies why Carol is a great slave (in my eyes of course), it is that she helps to make me a great master. She is able to be both slave and partner at the same time and she's a strong partner. Absolutely. I think many forget that, no matter how unequal the balance of power, both are responsible for the well being of each other and the relationship as a whole. What more service could a great slave be than to be that lone light in the midst of his/her dominant's personal storm and deep darkness. It would be an honor to lift my partner up in those times. lovingpet

lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:33:37 PM)
Okay now people! I want my freaking lobster AND cookies right now! Can't a switch find any great help these days? [>:] lovingpet

mnottertail -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:37:03 PM)
and on a related note, who do you think has a bigger penis, you or me? Ron

leadership527 -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:37:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet I think many forget that, no matter how unequal the balance of power, both are responsible for the well being of each other and the relationship as a whole. What more service could a great slave be than to be that lone light in the midst of his/her dominant's personal storm and deep darkness. It would be an honor to lift my partner up in those times. Yup, that pretty much sums why I'm most grateful for that aspect of her. I will NEVER forget the time when I was beset by doubts (struggling with punishment issues... early on). I was struggling and said, "I don't know if I can do this mine." Her response was to go to bedroom and fetch her leash, kneel in front of me, clip the leash to her collar then put the other end in my hand saying, "Sure you can. It's easy. See?" Yup, THAT is the kind of woman I want to be my partner in life.

BellaRed -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:39:46 PM)
Because they are either taken by someone else already, or like me...they are just coming out of a relationship and aren't ready to enter another one. [sm=violin.gif]

lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:48:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail and on a related note, who do you think has a bigger penis, you or me? Ron That depends. Are we going au naturale or am I wearing my strap on? [:D] lovingpet

lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:51:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet I think many forget that, no matter how unequal the balance of power, both are responsible for the well being of each other and the relationship as a whole. What more service could a great slave be than to be that lone light in the midst of his/her dominant's personal storm and deep darkness. It would be an honor to lift my partner up in those times. Yup, that pretty much sums why I'm most grateful for that aspect of her. I will NEVER forget the time when I was beset by doubts (struggling with punishment issues... early on). I was struggling and said, "I don't know if I can do this mine." Her response was to go to bedroom and fetch her leash, kneel in front of me, clip the leash to her collar then put the other end in my hand saying, "Sure you can. It's easy. See?" Yup, THAT is the kind of woman I want to be my partner in life. [:)]

mnottertail -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:54:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail and on a related note, who do you think has a bigger penis, you or me? Ron That depends. Are we going au naturale or am I wearing my strap on? [:D] lovingpet UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, we're gonna be keeping it real. Keith B. Real

lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:57:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail and on a related note, who do you think has a bigger penis, you or me? Ron That depends. Are we going au naturale or am I wearing my strap on? [:D] lovingpet UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, we're gonna be keeping it real. Keith B. Real Then you do. Of course, I do have handy tools available for castration, so you might want to enjoy that while it lasts! da evil lovingpet

mnottertail -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 7:58:19 PM)
nope, my shit dulls those tv tomato knives even.

WyldHrt -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 8:00:45 PM)
quote: nope, my shit dulls those tv tomato knives even. Then I would suggest that a change of diet may be in order, Ron.... [:D]

lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 8:03:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail nope, my shit dulls those tv tomato knives even. Who ever said anything about CUTTING it off? muhahahahaha

lovingpet -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 8:04:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: nope, my shit dulls those tv tomato knives even. Then I would suggest that a change of diet may be in order, Ron.... [:D] [8D]

ShaharThorne -> RE: why is it hard to find a GREAT SLAVE?? (10/14/2009 8:05:09 PM)
Here is how the food table goes. Dom/mes = lobsters Switches = prawns sub/slaves = regular shrimp introduction to the forums = cookies, preferably chocolate chip with pecans (homemade by me) introduction to the darkside = Dove chocolates

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