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What Brought You into Bdsm

Watching others?

2% (4)

Reading about it?

30% (42)

Word of Mouth?

7% (11)

Watching a video?

2% (3)

Born into it?

46% (64)

Something just on T.V.?

2% (4)

Other

7% (11)

Total Votes : 139

(last vote on : 3/14/2006 1:55:41 PM)
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RE: What Brought You into Bdsm - 1/24/2006 10:30:14 PM

champagnewishes

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ORIGINAL: strongnsubmissiv

It was never a choice, never a pre-dispositon, nor a learned activity.

My feelings exactly. I was aware of my submissive tendencies at an early age. I also felt there was a reason or a purpose for this. It wasn't until I was 13 that I realized not everyone shared these same characteristics and tendencies. I was 24 before I discovered there was a BDSM community comprised of others who shared similiar characteristics. What a revelation it was when i found i was not wired completely different than the rest of the world. There are times I feel a minority within this community...and that's fine ...for I could not think of a better, more accepting community to be a minority in. And it has only been within this community that I have found others who understand.

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RE: What Brought You into Bdsm - 3/8/2006 2:40:23 PM

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Frankly, I think I have always been into it. Things I did as a kid reflect some of the ways I think. But we wont go into that.

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RE: What Brought You into Bdsm - 3/9/2006 5:00:26 AM

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My late husbands hand on my back side

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RE: What Brought You into Bdsm - 3/9/2006 9:05:07 AM

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had a smart assed masochist that wanted me to whip him

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RE: What Brought You into Bdsm - 3/9/2006 9:33:26 AM

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I remember being this way pretty much as long as I can remember, from being about 5/6 and getting shouted at by a neighbour because my friend and I were taking it in turns to spank each other in the garden, to playing at erm *coughs* history, particually the nasty parts at about 8/9 with some of the guys from my street, (I do wonder sometimes if i warped them for life) - to having my earliest fantasies from about 11/12 onwards not forming in the way that society deemed they *should* sufice to say it was never boy meets girl, boy kisses girl sweetly etc etc for me. I really got interested at 14ish, thought I was the only one, at 15 discovered the internet and realised i wasn't, 16 starting going to the goth clubs and playing around a little with biting, scratching, spanking and the like and really it just grew from there

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RE: What Brought You into Bdsm - 3/9/2006 12:50:21 PM

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I'm almost entirely convinced I have a unique (or at least unusual) story.

When I was younger I really liked the Sims. When The Sims Online came out I was all over it. I played for hours every day. Unfortunately, I was having trouble making any real friends. So, I started exploring parts of the map I wasn't familiar with.

I came upon a neighborhood on a strange island which was full of very welcoming folk who threw about terms like "Master" "Mistress" "Slave" and, even stranger "BDSM"

These words were suggestive of slavery, and yet the objects of this terrible oppression seemed really happy about it. I eventually found a proporty full of even stranger people--who said "Tal" every time I walked in the door and called the less-than-clothed slaves "kajira." But these people were even more welcoming, and I was soon close friends not only with the Mistress of the house, but with her favorite submissive, who was called only "toy."

This was my first experience of BDSM. I learned that it was right and happy and consentual when I was in middle school, before any of my friends knew what it was or that it was perverted and "wrong." I knew I wanted to feel what they felt and do what they did.

I got my wish my sophmore year of high school. A bunch of us went to visit some friends of ours (Femdom/male sub), and one of the activities of the evening was proving one of our number was bisexual. Now, introducing fetish play was bound to lose, because I happened to know that her tastes run in a different (although equally kinky) direction. That aside, our resident Domme teased and molested her for a while, and the reluctant bottom sort of waited for it to end, not the least bit aroused. When the Domme gave up, I leapt off the couch and very eagerly said "can I play?"

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