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RE: Titles - 10/24/2009 10:40:47 PM

IronBear

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My guess is that he has earned his chip....

A chip on the shoulder is a psychological affliction, not a badge of honor.

Chip on my shoulder, I think not but I did allow you to push a couple of buttons. Silly mistake I grant you.still You also know far less of me too. No matter and as I have already commented, we are done. Little point in carrying on this conversation I think.

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RE: Titles - 10/25/2009 4:15:44 AM

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Yes.. hmm.. so, um, anyhow...
My babygirl had the choice of using an honorific / title or not using one when I Collared her. She chose to use "Sir" (primarily) because she enjoys it, and feels that the respectful title helps her get to her headspace. It's also short and easy to remember when she's zoned out past the orbit of Venus lol.
She has other things that she can use, though, too.. often, these are situation specific, but I won't bore you with the details... she uses Husband, Love, Lover, and OhMyGawd... but I'm not SURE that last one is being used as a name for me......it sure gets used a bunch tho.
The tone in which it is delivered tells a lot to those around, but I do agree that sometimes titles help us identify who is whom (ok, I'm playing with English there) in a relationship.
She enjoys it, so what the hell, why not. Personally, as long as she's using the correct tone, she can use pretty much anything respectful.

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RE: Titles - 10/25/2009 5:59:07 AM

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Agreed.

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RE: Titles - 10/25/2009 6:31:05 PM

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My training got me into the habit of calling dominants by Sir or Ma'am, but I adapt to whatever is asked for(if it's asked). I've actually found that there are times when a dominant has asked me to use their first name instead of Sir or Ma'am. I will say though, that I haven't noticed a difference in the generations.

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