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LadyPact -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/22/2009 6:19:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: straw8erries Hello there BoiJen. I would not come on here - of all places - to try to tell you what sexual desires/fantasies it is acceptable for you to have. I would appreciate it if you could extend the rest of us the same courtesy. Thank you. In the same token, just because of the fact that we are here, gives you no right to impose your kink on the rest of us.

straw8erries -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/22/2009 6:25:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: straw8erries Hello there BoiJen. I would not come on here - of all places - to try to tell you what sexual desires/fantasies it is acceptable for you to have. I would appreciate it if you could extend the rest of us the same courtesy. Thank you. In the same token, just because of the fact that we are here, gives you no right to impose your kink on the rest of us. Hi there I've no interest in imposing anything on anyone.

CherokeeRose2 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/23/2009 6:08:51 AM)
quote: Hi there I've no interest in imposing anything on anyone. Great - but understand - when guy send a woman he doesn't know a sexually explicit emails about what kink acts he wants to engage in - imposing his sexual wants on that woman non-consensually is exactly what he's doing. And such emails happen ALOT on EVERY dating site, not just kinky ones.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/23/2009 9:21:35 AM)
BoiJen theres a study done in california on homophobia and homosexual attraction. it found that those ehat stated they were most homophobic had the largest erections when shown homoerotic films. this is from the socity of ours that says female homosexuality is good and male homosexuality is bad. it was on discovery chanel. it realy says something about the socity that we live in.

BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/23/2009 9:20:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: straw8erries Hello there BoiJen. I would not come on here - of all places - to try to tell you what sexual desires/fantasies it is acceptable for you to have. I would appreciate it if you could extend the rest of us the same courtesy. Thank you. I'm not saying what's acceptable or not. I'm just saying that if you're a lonely desperate man into getting it in your ass, the Women on this site don't really give a flying fuck and for the most part are tired of reading about your strap-on fantasy so stop sending the messages. Don't confuse being tired of hearing about your kink as not finding the kink acceptable. Hey hairClip (chipClip, hairClip, bagClip...heh it's an awesome multi-use name!) Do you know which special that was brought up on? I'd like to find it and see if resources could be located. It'd be an interesting read. boi Property of MsKitty

LPslittleclip -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/27/2009 10:43:41 AM)
BoiJen i think it was a discovery health show. it was a very intersting show very informative.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/27/2009 11:04:23 AM)
BoiJen ther is a study done in ga with a small number of males that shoed the results. its not the one i was looking for but a start

ispread4u -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 4:18:05 PM)
i think it all is in the mindset that you approach it with. it has nothing to do with a domme servicing me. she is never doing me a favor, even though i passionately love being used that way. it is all about HER taking me the way SHE wants. HER having a passion for using me that way. HER deciding how hard, how fast, how big, how much pain. it's as bizarre as saying when one is into corporal discipline then the domme is servicing the sub when she canes his ass bloody. if you think you are doing me a favor or servicing me, keep your cock in your panties, i don't want it, no matter how big it is.

BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 4:22:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ispread4u . it's as bizarre as saying when one is into corporal discipline then the domme is servicing the sub when she canes his ass bloody It is if the bottom is a masochist. And while you're good at changing it around, if you wouldn't bend over if it weren't your kink, then she is doing you a favor. Any Domme who thinks otherwise is deluding herself and feeding into a really bad idea in that particular bottom's brain. boi

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 5:47:15 PM)
I heart BoiJen and her large brain. And her big mouth. [;)] Thanks for sparing me many keystrokes!

BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 6:49:37 PM)
I want to point out that I don't believe service cannot be mutually enjoyable. What I am meaning to point out is that sex is not service. Sexual service would be limited to performing sexual activity because your partner enjoys it and it's not on your favorites list. Otherwise, it's just sex. There's nothing wrong with it. The whole point of this thread is that don't try to put the pretty bow of "service" around butt fucking when you're all in for it. That's insulting to the intelligence of the Woman you're talking to. boi Property of MsKitty

PeonForHer -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 6:59:03 PM)
Do you mean this one? http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8772014 Chuckle Very interesting.

Underumam -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:10:34 PM)
I thought this thread was about GUYS and strapons, but so far it's all about the ladies....

goten11756 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:22:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Underumam I thought this thread was about GUYS and strapons, but so far it's all about the ladies.... I had the same thought....although I can't really say much in this matter as I have never been taken by a strap-on...

Lockit -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:28:47 PM)
We have some very confused men here! lol One... a strap on doesn't take you; a dominant with a strap on, might. [;)] And all about the guys and strap on's... but mostly about the ladies... hummmm we might have to talk later! lol That kind of joking around here is going to get you hurt! lol

BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:30:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Underumam I thought this thread was about GUYS and strapons, but so far it's all about the ladies.... Actually, if you read the OP it's a rant about guys and strap-ons as the incredible connection some guys have to strap-ons causes them to lose their minds and manners towards Women they think might wield one. Just to clarify... boi Property of MsKitty PS. Thanks for the link Peon

Underumam -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:34:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoiJen quote: ORIGINAL: Underumam I thought this thread was about GUYS and strapons, but so far it's all about the ladies.... Actually, if you read the OP it's a rant about guys and strap-ons as the incredible connection some guys have to strap-ons causes them to lose their minds and manners towards Women they think might wield one. Just to clarify... boi Property of MsKitty PS. Thanks for the link Peon I appreciate you telling me why I like it so much ;)

goten11756 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:50:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit We have some very confused men here! lol One... a strap on doesn't take you; a dominant with a strap on, might. [;)] And all about the guys and strap on's... but mostly about the ladies... hummmm we might have to talk later! lol That kind of joking around here is going to get you hurt! lol My fault there, what I meant was the dominant taking a person with a strap-on. BTW, isn't the whole point of BDSM getting the sub in some kind of hurt? lol [:D]

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:50:54 PM)
The only use I really have for a strap-on, is if I want to keep my slaveboy in chastity while he fucks me with it.

Lockit -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (11/29/2009 7:55:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goten11756 quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit We have some very confused men here! lol One... a strap on doesn't take you; a dominant with a strap on, might. [;)] And all about the guys and strap on's... but mostly about the ladies... hummmm we might have to talk later! lol That kind of joking around here is going to get you hurt! lol My fault there, what I meant was the dominant taking a person with a strap-on. BTW, isn't the whole point of BDSM getting the sub in some kind of hurt? lol [:D] LOL... I knew what you meant but thought I might play with you a bit. You gotta learn to cover your ass... sometimes. lol

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