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Lucienne -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 6:59:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes Which is exactly why I quit reading what he had to say ages ago, Lockit. I decided that if he had nothing to say that wasn't innane and completely devoid of meaning, then I wasn't going to waste my time on him. I quit reading him after the first time I saw one of his posts. All those damn emoticons disrupting the page. He could be reciting Shakespeare and I wouldn't bother wading through that visual mess. I had no idea what he was talking about until this thread.

CelticSubM -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 7:01:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina ... Apparently the only thing she does in the BDSM realm is to do him up the anus with strap ons and fisting, doesn't reall make her a prodom in my eyes.. makes her a hooker who does some anal specialty stuff. Isn't a "prodom" just a hooker who specializes?

UmbraDomina -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 7:04:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticSubM quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina ... Apparently the only thing she does in the BDSM realm is to do him up the anus with strap ons and fisting, doesn't reall make her a prodom in my eyes.. makes her a hooker who does some anal specialty stuff. Isn't a "prodom" just a hooker who specializes? Not in my eyes, and not in the majority of peoples eyes. The large majority of pro-doms in the United States (there is a exception to the rule with anything) do NOT engage in sex with their clients, but endudge in fetishs. While I agree much of it is sexual, most do not have sexual contact with their clients.

Starbuck09 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 7:05:01 AM)
Umbra and Venatrix in that case I stand corrected, it just seemed that some people had been offended [understandably] by Mallove and had then moved on by extension to those he spends his time with.

CelticSubM -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 7:17:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina quote: ORIGINAL: CelticSubM quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina ... Apparently the only thing she does in the BDSM realm is to do him up the anus with strap ons and fisting, doesn't reall make her a prodom in my eyes.. makes her a hooker who does some anal specialty stuff. Isn't a "prodom" just a hooker who specializes? Not in my eyes, and not in the majority of peoples eyes. The large majority of pro-doms in the United States (there is a exception to the rule with anything) do NOT engage in sex with their clients, but endudge in fetishs. While I agree much of it is sexual, most do not have sexual contact with their clients. Isn't that just an effort to evade prostitution laws, in much the same way that massage parlors and escort services attempt to evade those laws? In some states, the difference would be legally significant. In others it would not, but I was not speaking from the legal point of view. All those are offering sexual services for hire.

Starbuck09 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 7:21:54 AM)
Do you consider a stripper to be a prostitute Celticsub? Working within the sex industry does not make one a hooker per se it just means you work within the same field as they do.

UmbraDomina -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 7:23:05 AM)
[ quote: Isn't that just an effort to evade prostitution laws, in much the same way that massage parlors and escort services attempt to evade those laws? In some states, the difference would be legally significant. In others it would not, but I was not speaking from the legal point of view. All those are offering sexual services for hire. prostitute defined - 1. somebody paid for sexual intercourse I would say that if someone has intercourse, or oral sex, and is paid for it..... they are a prostitute. Someone dressing up in a leather outfit, and tieing someone up in bondage, and spanking them.... no I don't consider that to be the same.

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 9:23:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticSubM Isn't a "prodom" just a hooker who specializes? No. Even if there was something bad about being a prostitute, a pro domme generally doesn't have sex with her clients. You can certainly argue that it's still sex work, but it doesn't meet "hooker" criteria. There are escorts and prostitutes that will do some S&M, and that blurs the lines. But generally speaking, someone billing herself as a pro domme is almost certainly not having any kind of sex with her clients and is probably not even taking her clothes off since the fetish outfit and domination is the major focus of their interaction.

BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 9:58:10 AM)
Ma'am says keeping the clothes on is keeping the fantasy as well as maintaining some personal control in the situation.

LadyPact -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 10:29:04 AM)
Not to mention it takes a while to get into those outfits in the first place. Does for Me, anyway. [8D]

CougarStud -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/30/2009 12:43:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlexDelarge Receiving a strapon isn't service, it's a certain level of gift to the subbie. Prolonged face sitting, or submitting to a paddling or cbt is service. On the other hand, buggering a female submissive is almost entirely a male pleasure thing. Most women don't like it up the ass, and the male tends to go deeper and harder due to exuberance and enthusiasm. WHAT!? I never desired doing strap-on, facesitting, or paddling but I get inundated with offers daily. It's service only when it is something I want to do..........it is a reward when it is something they want done to them.

NovelApproach -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 4:13:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix May I recommend the "hide" feature at the lower left-hand side of someone's post? I've had on "hide" for over a year now a certain poster whose tedious repetition of his anal exploits bored me to tears, and thus I am no longer exposed to his silliness unless he kicks up a shitstorm and I read of it through others' quotations. Now, if only you had that feature at work . . . . Ohmygoodness there's a "hide" feature! How did I miss this? Just a few clicks and all of a sudden my CM experience is miraculously better than just tolerable again! Thank you ever so much.

malloves69 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 8:02:26 AM)
so that makes all pro doms hookers ehh ? you guys are so full of bullshit its not even funny ..come save the dyke this thread should be called ..hey cousin it ...its halloween you can go out in public tonite you wont scare anyone [:)] collarme has too many pompus assholes on it ..fetlife is much better ..if you dont like what i write about then dont read it ..you people mean absolutely nothing to me so to all the mal bashers GO FUCK OFF !! TIME TO DELETE MY ACCOUNT ON COLLARME ....THIS SITE SUXS !!!

DianeB269 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 8:28:32 AM)
Fetlife sucks just as much as this site....It's 90% guys dressed in womens clothes.... Here it's their way or no way.... Diane

BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 8:35:14 AM)
Mal, No one said all Pro Dommes are hookers. What people said is that cheap women who take no consideration into the actual health hazard of unprotected sex for money are hookers...no matter how they dress up. I happen to agree. I wanted to add, Mal, that no one is bashing you either. No one has come to call you names. The only thing going on now is a discussion of the legality of paying for it....that's all. There's nothing here that's been negative and personally directed at you. boi PS...Roger Rabbit, thank you very much. And Fetlife has all the same people as there are here. FetLife also has the same rules...bash someone like you have here and they will remove your posts. I've seen it happen. Hell, even ligit postings get removed at their discretion...ask UmbraDomina.

LadyPact -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 9:03:18 AM)
We don't need the caps to hear your jealousy. The thing is, boijen has exactly what you wish you had in your life. The only issue here is that you are seething with envy. quote: ORIGINAL: malloves69 boy i bet that would be wonderfull indeed to serve her 24/7 would be a joy and a honor i think ...would love to try it sometimes and yes its ok if she wears the cock in the relationship how do you want me sexy lady on a nitely basis would be HOT i think have fun mal

OttersSwim -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 9:19:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DianeB269 Fetlife sucks just as much as this site....It's 90% guys dressed in womens clothes.... Here it's their way or no way.... Diane I had no idea I have so much power... [8\|]

stef -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 9:19:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: malloves69 TIME TO DELETE MY ACCOUNT ON COLLARME .... This should be ample proof to all of those in the religion threads that there must be a supreme being. Praise $diety. ~stef

stef -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 9:23:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact We don't need the caps to hear your jealousy. The thing is, boijen has exactly what you wish you had in your life. The only issue here is that you are seething with envy. I think it goes deeper than that. I think that Mal is in denial about his own sexuality and can't come to terms with the fact that he really wants a big, leatherclad daddy plowing away at him. His self hatred runs so deep that he can't help but lash out at anyone who freely exhibits their sexuality and appears to be enjoying life. How sad is that? ~stef

BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/31/2009 9:30:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef I think it goes deeper than that. I think that Mal is in denial about his own sexuality and can't come to terms with the fact that he really wants a big, leatherclad daddy plowing away at him. His self hatred runs so deep that he can't help but lash out at anyone who freely exhibits their sexuality and appears to be enjoying life. How sad is that? ~stef Stef, I don't often speculate (a lie on my part), but I think you may be right with his overtly homophobic statements. This could prove to be n interesting case study for the roots of homophobia. booooooi my halloween humor sucks, but I have to try

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