RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide agree or disagree.

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide agree or disagree.

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide agree or disagree.

Page: << < prev 8 9 [10] 11 12 next > >>

[Poll]

Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agree or disagree

agree

37% (18)

Disagree

62% (30)

Total Votes : 48

(last vote on : 5/1/2010 9:46:01 AM)
(Poll will run till: -- )

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:08:22 PM

soul2share

Posts: 7084
Joined: 12/18/2007
From: somewhere out there.....
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

ORIGINAL: soul2share

quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty
Maybe

But...as the "virginal one", you're not supposed to know what goes on behind the closed doors of said room!!!
So how can you be jealous??

Uhhhh, uhhh, I read alot!
**Btw, if you check out my FB pics, you'll see that I actually MET RM in RT at GT's pre-wedding party!*** Neener, neener!!!

Reading.....so that's what they're calling it now?
*snort*
But he's holding my breath!!!!

_____________________________

I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge!

*Not a fuck was given.*

(in reply to VirginPotty)

Profile

Post #: 181

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:09:23 PM

VirginPotty

Posts: 11624
Joined: 7/16/2008
From: Virginville
Status: offline

quote:

Reading.....so that's what they're calling it now?
*snort*
But he's holding my breath!!!!

Well, well, he was holding my leg! No wait, that was Sunshine.
***Nm***

_____________________________

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

(in reply to soul2share)

Profile

Post #: 182

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:10:27 PM

soul2share

Posts: 7084
Joined: 12/18/2007
From: somewhere out there.....
Status: offline

um, Pots...she isn't the only one tossing the BS around......not that I'm pointing fingers......

_____________________________

I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge!

*Not a fuck was given.*

(in reply to VirginPotty)

Profile

Post #: 183

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:12:07 PM

nubianmuscle

Posts: 318
Joined: 1/9/2007
Status: offline

I hope you all know pixie's doing all this because she wants a whoopin'.

quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

<-------stands on a chair cuz the waders aren't high enough for the level of BS here!

**To the tune of "Wade in the Water"**

Wade in the bullshit
Wade in the bullshit CM'ers
Wade in the bullshit
Dixie's gonna talk more bullshit

(in reply to VirginPotty)

Profile

Post #: 184

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:13:55 PM

LadyPact

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

I went back and took a look at the OP's profile. That's not something that I normally do, but something wasn't sitting right about this particular poll.

I'm a little confused about the 'new' aspect that's being twisted in a bit here. Exactly how is new being defined? The profile was created almost two years ago, even if there hasn't been a lot of forum participation. Is it one of those cases where a late in life male dominant personality hasn't quite had any luck breaking into the scene? Then, that didn't make any sense to Me either since the OP is in FL which has a very healthy real life BDSM and leather community.

Since the OP is still following this thread, can you satisfy My curiosity as to how you are dealing with the word new in your sense? New to the forums side of the site? New to actual BDSM play? New to D/s dynamics?

Edited for a question mark.

< Message edited by LadyPact -- 10/29/2009 1:14:40 PM >

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to soul2share)

Profile

Post #: 185

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:16:03 PM

VirginPotty

Posts: 11624
Joined: 7/16/2008
From: Virginville
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: soul2share

um, Pots...she isn't the only one tossing the BS around......not that I'm pointing fingers......

**Whaaaaa? Clumsy isn't on this thread***

quote:

I hope you all know pixie's doing all this because she wants a whoopin'.

I say don't give it to her!!!

_____________________________

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

(in reply to soul2share)

Profile

Post #: 186

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:17:21 PM

VirginPotty

Posts: 11624
Joined: 7/16/2008
From: Virginville
Status: offline

Cmail Soul

_____________________________

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

(in reply to VirginPotty)

Profile

Post #: 187

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:18:20 PM

devilishpixie

Posts: 1044
Joined: 10/15/2009
Status: offline

VP THAT is so mean!

(in reply to VirginPotty)

Profile

Post #: 188

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:20:03 PM

VirginPotty

Posts: 11624
Joined: 7/16/2008
From: Virginville
Status: offline

_____________________________

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

(in reply to devilishpixie)

Profile

Post #: 189

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:22:21 PM

devilishpixie

Posts: 1044
Joined: 10/15/2009
Status: offline

Lady Pact,
I think he was refering to "other new members" not himself personally. However, like you my curiousity ot the best of me and I looked at his profile and journal. His journal like his posts are bery hostil and show a lack of self control. Just an observation.

(in reply to LadyPact)

Profile

Post #: 190

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:22:38 PM

GreedyTop

Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline

I wonder which meds of mine BL wants.. aspirin, advil, or motrin?

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to VirginPotty)

Profile

Post #: 191

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:23:14 PM

zephyroftheNorth

Posts: 8159
Joined: 10/5/2009
From: The Great Frozen North
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: nubianmuscle

I hope you all know pixie's doing all this because she wants a whoopin'.

quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

<-------stands on a chair cuz the waders aren't high enough for the level of BS here!

**To the tune of "Wade in the Water"**

Wade in the bullshit
Wade in the bullshit CM'ers
Wade in the bullshit
Dixie's gonna talk more bullshit

Of course, Nubian. What I want to know is are you going to give it to her and can we watch? *grins*

_____________________________

And there's a smile when the pain comes
The pain gonna make ev'rything alright ~ Black Crows

Team Troll Trollop
Member: Cocksuckers For World Peace
Charter member: Lance's Fag Hags
Member: Subbie Mafia
Member: Hibbie's Hotties

(in reply to nubianmuscle)

Profile

Post #: 192

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:25:54 PM

soul2share

Posts: 7084
Joined: 12/18/2007
From: somewhere out there.....
Status: offline

Got it, Pots.....

and nope, she hasn't come out to play yet that I can see......

_____________________________

I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge!

*Not a fuck was given.*

(in reply to VirginPotty)

Profile

Post #: 193

RE: Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agr... - 10/29/2009 1:26:51 PM

MarcEsadrian

Posts: 852
Joined: 8/24/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: blacklion
Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agree or disagree

It depends, but generally, I vote nay.

Where does it depend? Perhaps in how ignorant and scathing the newcomer may sound. Those two ingredients seldom win friends and influence people, or more importantly, help to build the tower of collective wisdom. That said, I've noticed some people place too much value in post count and general popularity. I had contributed here for many years under another alias. When I ditched it and started posting again, nearly everything I shared was poked, prodded or questioned in some way by others. Comparatively, with several paddles under my name, what I contributed in the past was often received very well, so this appears to me to evidence a slight bias in viewpoints shared here in relationship to thread count and recognition.

Humans are pack animals that interpret information based on personal context and social hierarchy, and the evidence of this can be seen in pixel text from time to time, too. Newcomer says something pretty brilliant and thoughtful, and it gets buried in the thread. Then, MasterThunderClaw belches out a bland, cynical truism and it's praised as sage wisdom. Meanwhile, another user's comments in the same thread are attacked due to black sheep syndrome. None of that is very productive. I think it's important to focus on what is written rather than the person or the perception of the person. While that may be impossible for humans to do completely, that turns out to be far more productive for all—albeit perhaps less entertaining in the end, I suppose. Therein lies the rub, I suspect.

_____________________________

Omnes una manet nox

Founder, Humbled Females

(in reply to blacklion)

Profile

Post #: 194

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:28:07 PM

soul2share

Posts: 7084
Joined: 12/18/2007
From: somewhere out there.....
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: nubianmuscle
I hope you all know pixie's doing all this because she wants a whoopin'.

quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

<-------stands on a chair cuz the waders aren't high enough for the level of BS here!

**To the tune of "Wade in the Water"**
Wade in the bullshit
Wade in the bullshit CM'ers
Wade in the bullshit
Dixie's gonna talk more bullshit

And the problem with that is........???? Sounds like a pretty savvy girl!

_____________________________

I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge!

*Not a fuck was given.*

(in reply to nubianmuscle)

Profile

Post #: 195

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:30:39 PM

nubianmuscle

Posts: 318
Joined: 1/9/2007
Status: offline

Truth be told SHE probably wants you all to watch. LOL So yeah, grab your popcorn, pull up a chair and enjoy the show.

quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

quote:

ORIGINAL: nubianmuscle

I hope you all know pixie's doing all this because she wants a whoopin'.

quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

<-------stands on a chair cuz the waders aren't high enough for the level of BS here!

**To the tune of "Wade in the Water"**

Wade in the bullshit
Wade in the bullshit CM'ers
Wade in the bullshit
Dixie's gonna talk more bullshit

Of course, Nubian. What I want to know is are you going to give it to her and can we watch? *grins*

(in reply to zephyroftheNorth)

Profile

Post #: 196

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:35:04 PM

nubianmuscle

Posts: 318
Joined: 1/9/2007
Status: offline

Yeah, she is and cute, too.

(in reply to soul2share)

Profile

Post #: 197

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:40:25 PM

zephyroftheNorth

Posts: 8159
Joined: 10/5/2009
From: The Great Frozen North
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: nubianmuscle

Truth be told SHE probably wants you all to watch. LOL So yeah, grab your popcorn, pull up a chair and enjoy the show.

quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

quote:

ORIGINAL: nubianmuscle

I hope you all know pixie's doing all this because she wants a whoopin'.

quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

<-------stands on a chair cuz the waders aren't high enough for the level of BS here!

**To the tune of "Wade in the Water"**

Wade in the bullshit
Wade in the bullshit CM'ers
Wade in the bullshit
Dixie's gonna talk more bullshit

Of course, Nubian. What I want to know is are you going to give it to her and can we watch? *grins*

But you're the D-type, do YOU want us to watch? Nice take on Wade in the Water btw

_____________________________

And there's a smile when the pain comes
The pain gonna make ev'rything alright ~ Black Crows

Team Troll Trollop
Member: Cocksuckers For World Peace
Charter member: Lance's Fag Hags
Member: Subbie Mafia
Member: Hibbie's Hotties

(in reply to nubianmuscle)

Profile

Post #: 198

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:42:18 PM

soul2share

Posts: 7084
Joined: 12/18/2007
From: somewhere out there.....
Status: offline

Pulls up the sofa for all the pervs to watch.......

_____________________________

I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge!

*Not a fuck was given.*

(in reply to nubianmuscle)

Profile

Post #: 199

RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 1:46:06 PM

nubianmuscle

Posts: 318
Joined: 1/9/2007
Status: offline

The fact that I am letting you watch is my answer. pixie will tell you, I am pretty laid back and I do spoil her but there is no mistaking what I do and do not want.

(in reply to zephyroftheNorth)

Profile

Post #: 200