YesMistressIrish
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Waves Hi to lady P and agreeing with Otter. Please send me a pic of that tux outfit Otter?
Lady P, For me it is a turn on when I dress the male as a cute maid and seeing them working on being more graceful and sweetly feminine, receptive in that soft way that women come to naturally and when they serve me a meal or bring drinks and whatever to several of us it is a turn on for me and for many others. I love to play at dress-up and enjoy tucking my curvy parts into a man suit on occassion although I have to admit my favorite time to do that might be Halloween. Then there is always the man shirt with nothing else underneath but a cute pair of shoes or painted toenails. I digress...
The point is that seeing a man who is used to being strong and possibly detached turn into a soft and compliant maid can be a great way to get them to slip into sub mode and stay there. I have a varied sense of humor so it can be quite the giggle-fest also. There are some men who do not like any humiliation re: their love for crossdressing and they do it as a spiritual release. Who cannot feel wonderful when sensuous slippery fabric is billowing out around them? Who cannot feel more turned on when gorgeous fabric is flowing over freshly shaved legs?
I get that people don't get this fetish or parts of it and that's ok. For instance I don't 'get' the general male superiority in Gor and don't ever really want to...
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Acer49: It is a benefit to me to have my sub crossdress and sometimes I 'need' it to scratch that itch.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
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ORIGINAL: Acer49
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While not being a Mistress, I will tell you that that cross dressing truly benefits only the cross dresser, so why would a Mistress desire it.
Your focus should be what she needs, not what you think you may want
I disagree with this. There are aspects of emotional availability to emotional vulnerability that many Ladies use and benefit from in a sub who crossdresses - not to mention the femme-oriented service that we can give that has been detailed out here.
Look, I get that a feminine male submissive is not for everyone, but let's not turn this into yet another bash the crossdressers topics. The OP has received input from dominant Ladies who are into it, and those that are not into it, yet seems only to acknowledge those that are negative on the subject. I begin to wonder if the OP "doth protest too much"...
Got to disagree with you here, Otters, as I have in the past. I don't think it is an idea of femme oriented service. It's just plain service. I don't consider clip coloring My hair or doing My pedicure any different because he does so from the perspective of being male. I really see it as I do any other thing. Just because I require him to do such things, and do them properly, doesn't have anything to do with gender, or the claim that he would do them better if he had a girlie side.
Saying such isn't about bashing cross dressers. Even if you take the kink out of it entirely, it still holds true. There are plenty of fathers out there who have raised daughters who are just as accomplished at braiding hair, even if they have never done their own.
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