Greta75 -> RE: I Admit It I........ (9/29/2017 9:30:04 AM)
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ORIGINAL: peppermint I admit to feeling lost this morning. What do you do when your purpose in life is gone? No job to go to. No family close by. Nothing to fill my day. Just this big empty house. Do I do volunteer work? Do I get a hobby? What is next? The best thing you can do now is keep talking to people about your feelings and your grief. You need to grief and talk alot about it, cry all you want, just allow yourself to properly grief. Don't be alone if possible. If you are able to volunteer, that's great. The goal is not to be alone, and be around people. Nice people. I like to think fellow volunteering people should be nice people. Hobby is good too. Make new friends. Adopt a pet? A dog or a cat could offer you alot of love and comfort. I definitely feel you alot because the man I love is also given no hope of recovery from his cancer. But I am getting alot of emotional support from my BFF who I talk to alot about this issue. I hope you have a family or a good friend, even if it's an online good friend, who you can at least keep talking to, as you take each day at a time. I personally think in times of grief, it is worst to be alone. Do reach out.
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