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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 5:59:01 PM   
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Anybody else notice that the one Irish Domme on Kevvie's friends list is a pro?


Kevin has FRIENDS??????????????


Who knew???!!


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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 6:05:33 PM   
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Kevin has FRIENDS??????????????

Apparently, he's a friendly guy... esp with the 2 (I'd bet a week's pay) scammers that are on his friends list

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 6:15:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		I always find it ironic that those who literally have to pay others to spend time with them tend to be the most annoying of the posters here. 

Ever wonder if it really isn't the pros that are the issue, but the clients?


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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 6:28:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I always find it ironic that those who literally have to pay others to spend time with them tend to be the most annoying of the posters here. 

Ever wonder if it really isn't the pros that are the issue, but the clients?



Ya know. . . I could handle being paid to spend time with someone. 

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 6:48:10 PM   
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It may surprise you to know Ma'am that there are WOMEN yes Women on this site who are sickened by both men and Women Dominants trying to lure submissive men and submissive women into being their financial slaves at a time when many people are suffering financially and many people, myself included, do not have earning power, ie they are without jobs and struggling to keep their heads above water.


What you're talking about is a stealth pro or a scammer, not a pro domme.  An ethical professional *no matter what field they are in* has the responsibility of making a fair and honest deal, of providing satisfactory goods and services for payment.  A scammer, a player, a taker or a user seeks to get something for nothing.  A professional wants to negotiate a win-win deal for both parties, an equal exchange that they both agree is fair.  That's a pretty big difference. 


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And are you really trying to tell me that no Female Dominant on this site would be against Pro Dommes. I m sure there are some perhaps a small minority which She may be one who is against the idea of Women receiving money from men or Women or Women advertising for MONEY


People can be for or against whatever they want, but an intelligent femdom who is here for good conversation or seeking a personal partner is likely to be quite grateful that there are in fact pros on the site who can handle some of the screaming do-me queens who would otherwise be sleazing in her inbox.  I know a lot of dommes who are totally uncomfortable with the idea of ever doing pro sessions themselves, but in a lot of years in the community, I have never met any dommes who were actually against the idea of other people being pros.  The only "anti-pros" I have ever known have been men, and most of their attitudes could be largely summed up as "waaah, you're a bitch and a whore because you won't totally cater to my every sexual fantasy for free without my actually having to get to know you or be nice to you, or make any effort to be attractive to you."


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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 7:19:37 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Have to agree very much with LadyNTrainer on this one.  As I've said before, the pros don't have an effect on the lifestyle Dommes because we're not their target clientele.

To the best of My knowledge, there's no one on this site that has the power to force anyone to send them money.  If anyone has sent money to another person here, kinky games aside, they've done it of their own free will.  The site even has the big red banner that tells you not to do so.  However, if you were dumb enough to ignore the warnings and did it anyway, that really is on YOU and doesn't have squat to do with Me.

If anyone out there is having financial issues of any kind and are giving their money to someone else for the purpose of kink, I don't feel sorry for them.  It's honestly not My problem. 




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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 8:24:46 PM   
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If anyone out there is having financial issues of any kind and are giving their money to someone else for the purpose of kink, I don't feel sorry for them.  It's honestly not My problem. 


Agreed.  I'd put it in the same ballpark as a baseball card collector spending money for rare baseball cards to complete his collection when he was broke and unemployed.  It's stupid, but it's even stupider to blame the people selling baseball cards.

I know I would not feel comfortable taking money from someone who was buying what I had to sell for unhealthy or unsafe reasons, or because of a compulsion or an addiction.  It wouldn't matter if they were a kinky personal training client or a totally vanilla one.  But unless I actually find out that's what's happening, I would have no way of knowing.  I'd like to think that I have a reasonably good eye for red flags of this nature however.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 8:26:01 PM   
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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/12/2009 9:53:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO.  I took another look at the profile in question.  Definitely snicker-snort worthy.



Not one of his better threads, Cali. Usually there's some paranoia about how (fill in the blanks) is trying to ruin his life.



No, zeph, not the OP.  The person who wrote to him that he is holding up as a paragon of virtue and female domliness.  Take another peak.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/13/2009 2:40:26 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO.  I took another look at the profile in question.  Definitely snicker-snort worthy.



Not one of his better threads, Cali. Usually there's some paranoia about how (fill in the blanks) is trying to ruin his life.



No, zeph, not the OP.  The person who wrote to him that he is holding up as a paragon of virtue and female domliness.  Take another peak.

Cali 


Easy mistake. Your post says in reply to zephyroftheNorth


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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/13/2009 2:59:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think pros should be banned, but I do think they should have their own special section since there are so many of them. That way people who are looking for one can filter them in or out. I get the random, off the wall, unsolicited message from pro-dommes every once in a while and while it's a bit annoying, those messages aren't from reputable, well-known and respected ones.

I say just give them their own sections. :-)

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/13/2009 3:06:55 AM   
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The pros that I know do have credentials and references and glady show them to prosperctive clients.


Wondering what kinds of credentials Pro Dommes have.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/13/2009 6:59:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Anybody else notice that the one Irish Domme on Kevvie's friends list is a pro?


THAT is PRICELESS!!!!!!!!!!


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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/13/2009 7:00:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		should we ban kevie for soliciting pro dommes? I am gonna bet it would at least make their live alot more livable.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/13/2009 7:03:48 AM   
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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/14/2009 11:24:14 AM   
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Kia
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Save this pertinent one: a significant reason professional adult service provision should be a licit & respected part of society is that they are absolutely crucial in the 'care & feeding' of the socially inept.

It's a mitzvah to help the crippled, the clueless, the idiots, the helplessly naive & stultified & etc, no matter how annoying that may be. In fact, spiritually speaking, overcoming ones feelings of annoyance, rage, frustration, & etc is one of the goals . . . . .


That's an interesting can of worms, though. I couldn't tell you how many times I've seen ProDommes talk about how they've refused customers because they were too weird, rude, or otherwise fucked. If it were regulated as so much other legitimate business is, and they are seen as providing crucial care to the socially inept, wouldn't they have to lose this discretion and take on all of us total rejects? Would we end up with court-appointed ProDommes? It'd be an interesting world.

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I mean, the ideal will be when there's also the FuckBot 3000 in the mix, helping to keep many of the more socially problematic people contentedly at home & offline & out of everybody's hair . . . . . . .



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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/14/2009 1:06:22 PM   
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I just wish I could get paid to take a whip to someone's backside.  Talk about an easy job. 


If only that were all that there was to it...........

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/14/2009 6:17:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

If you think that the person is a male, then everyone on the site with Female Dominant on their profile is a man, no thats so silly and ridiculous, Of course THE person is FEMALE.
Kevin

oh for fucks sake Kevin will you PLEASE wake the hell up?????????


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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/14/2009 6:20:28 PM   
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It may surprise you to know Ma'am that there are WOMEN yes Women on this site who are sickened by both men and Women Dominants trying to lure submissive men and submissive women into being their financial slaves at a time when many people are suffering financially and many people, myself included, do not have earning power, ie they are without jobs and struggling to keep their heads above water.


Kevin...LMAO....You are pissed cause you can't afford a Pro!!!!!!

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/14/2009 6:26:26 PM   
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I know Irish women and they are not liars
Well golllll-leeee!!! You are judging all Irish women based on the...what... boot wearing cab driver? Seriously dude, even if you do know more than a few women, it is silly for you to say all Irish women are honest.

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