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lobodomslavery -> Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 1:52:52 AM)

Ladies
This came up following a discussion with an Irish Domme on this site. She told me that She thinks pro Dommes are ruining this site and it is time that both sub slave and Domme started blocking them when or if mail is received. Is she right? Is this lifestyle about far more than just greedy manipulative Dommes who are money minded and nothing else? and would now be an appropriate time to block people with this leaning or should we just live and let live after nobody is forcing anyone to contact pro Dommes
Kevin



allthatjaz -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 2:14:07 AM)

We live in a free world and therefore its up to each and every one of us to decide who we block out. Pro Dommes give me no hassle and so it doesn't really bother me.



BKSir -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 2:16:06 AM)

Meh, they're not hurting me any.




RapierFugue -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 2:37:25 AM)


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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Ladies
This came up following a discussion with an Irish Domme on this site. She told me that She thinks pro Dommes are ruining this site and it is time that both sub slave and Domme started blocking them when or if mail is received. Is she right? Is this lifestyle about far more than just greedy manipulative Dommes who are money minded and nothing else? and would now be an appropriate time to block people with this leaning or should we just live and let live after nobody is forcing anyone to contact pro Dommes
Kevin


<puzzled>

How can pro-dommes be "ruining" this site? Genuine question BTW, as I can't figure out how they could manage that.

I realise that, as I'm a dom, this is an unrepresentative sample, but my 2d-worth:

Number of times I've been hassled or caused any irritation by a pro domme: Zero. None. Bugger all.
Number of times I've been contacted by fucking waste-of-space Nigerian/Eastern European/Asian scammers posing as subs: Shitloads.

So, numerically, I think it's time to bomb Nigeria, eastern Europe and Asia, not pro dommes [;)]



devilishpixie -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 2:43:49 AM)

OP, What about the pro doms or the pro subs and yes they both exists on this site. Are you going to black list them too and simply block them or is it simply the pro dommes you take issue with?

Edited so there was no confusion on who my question or comment was / is too.



RapierFugue -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 2:45:51 AM)


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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie

What about the pro doms or the pro subs and yes they both exists on this site. Are you going to black list them too and simply block them or is it simply the pro dommes you take issue with?

I don't have any issues with any of them! I'm all about the love! [:D]

I'm presuming you were replying to the OP? [;)]



devilishpixie -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 2:47:00 AM)

Yes, my comment and question where meant for the OP not you. Sorry.



RapierFugue -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 3:00:53 AM)


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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie

Yes, my comment and question where meant for the OP not you. Sorry.

I know. I was just being funny [:D]

<thinks>

Correction; I was just trying to be funny. Nearly made it too!



wandersalone -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 3:10:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RapierFugue
<puzzled>

How can pro-dommes be "ruining" this site? Genuine question BTW, as I can't figure out how they could manage that.

I realise that, as I'm a dom, this is an unrepresentative sample, but my 2d-worth:

Number of times I've been hassled or caused any irritation by a pro domme: Zero. None. Bugger all.
Number of times I've been contacted by fucking waste-of-space Nigerian/Eastern European/Asian scammers posing as subs: Shitloads.

So, numerically, I think it's time to bomb Nigeria, eastern Europe and Asia, not pro dommes [;)]



note to self.....stop cmailing RapierFugue ...... you should have told me I was bugging you ..... but I am not Nigerian, I am from Salisbury, Scotland damnit and yes, I do really weigh 65 pounds!!!

edited to make the country relevant in my joke



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 3:30:20 AM)

i just think it's high time we start seeing their credentials as a professional. =p~



RapierFugue -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 3:30:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

quote:

ORIGINAL: RapierFugue
<puzzled>

How can pro-dommes be "ruining" this site? Genuine question BTW, as I can't figure out how they could manage that.

I realise that, as I'm a dom, this is an unrepresentative sample, but my 2d-worth:

Number of times I've been hassled or caused any irritation by a pro domme: Zero. None. Bugger all.
Number of times I've been contacted by fucking waste-of-space Nigerian/Eastern European/Asian scammers posing as subs: Shitloads.

So, numerically, I think it's time to bomb Nigeria, eastern Europe and Asia, not pro dommes [;)]



note to self.....stop cmailing RapierFugue ...... you should have told me I was bugging you ..... but I am not Nigerian, I am from Salisbury, Scotland damnit and yes, I do really weigh 65 pounds!!!

Sweetie, you can mail me anytime. Feel free to include as many depraved photos of yourself as you feel comfortable with [;)]



DarkSteven -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:14:48 AM)

In what way are they ruining the site?

<---------------- Looks left and right for signs of ruination





devilishpixie -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:27:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

i just think it's high time we start seeing their credentials as a professional. =p~


The pros that I know do have credentials and references and glady show them to prosperctive clients.



MsStarlett -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:34:46 AM)

I am not a Pro... but I have quite a few men requesting a 'Pro' session with me.  Should I be banned because subs are looking for that?  The Pro Dommes serve a purpose.  Perhaps the question should be "Should Pro's (of all kinds) be Banned from ADVERTISING".



thishereboi -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:39:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Ladies
This came up following a discussion with an Irish Domme on this site. She told me that She thinks pro Dommes are ruining this site and it is time that both sub slave and Domme started blocking them when or if mail is received. Is she right? Is this lifestyle about far more than just greedy manipulative Dommes who are money minded and nothing else? and would now be an appropriate time to block people with this leaning or should we just live and let live after nobody is forcing anyone to contact pro Dommes
Kevin



Well if she has a problem with this site, she can always look elsewhere. When she starts her own fetish site, then she can ban who ever she wants, until then she will just have to deal with it.



sirsholly -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:39:01 AM)

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should we just live and let live

yes. and anyone that does not agree should be executed.



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:47:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: devilishpixie


quote:

ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

i just think it's high time we start seeing their credentials as a professional. =p~


The pros that I know do have credentials and references and glady show them to prosperctive clients.


no way! do they hang them up on the wall like a doctor would and all that?



BoiJen -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:48:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Ladies
This came up following a discussion with an Irish Domme on this site. She told me that She thinks pro Dommes are ruining this site and it is time that both sub slave and Domme started blocking them when or if mail is received. Is she right? Is this lifestyle about far more than just greedy manipulative Dommes who are money minded and nothing else? and would now be an appropriate time to block people with this leaning or should we just live and let live after nobody is forcing anyone to contact pro Dommes
Kevin



And how exactly are Pros ruining a site? Who says Pros are manipulative, greedy, and money minded ("and nothing else")? what's manipulative about coming out about "Hey, if you contact me, it better be about a session because I'm not looking for anything personal." What's greedy about "If you want play time with me, because my other needs are being met, you're gonna have to pay for it"? What's "money minded and nothing else" about understanding the majority of mail that these women who openly state they're Pros getting messages from cheap ass bastards who don't want to pay for their play?

How about let's look at what ProDommes have done for this "lifestyle." ProDommes were the gateway for the heterosexual community to start getting involved in this "lifestyle". So you heterosexual males who get your panties in a twist cuz a woman expects you to treat her more than just a booty call, shut the fuck up. Go home because you wouldn't be here without the exposure to pop culture that ProDommes have given this "lifestyle". ProDommes have funded events and educated community members in large settings and small through volunteerism with local and national educational organizations.

This is just the beginning of another bitch thread about having to pay for play. Sounds to me like someone isn't getting the play time they want and are too fuckin lazy to get off their asses and earn it.

boi
Tired of this shit



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:54:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

what's manipulative about coming out about "Hey, if you contact me, it better be about a session because I'm not looking for anything personal."



not to mention, often enough they are on here saying "i'm a pro, but  i'm looking for something personal, not more clients"~



Lashra -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/12/2009 4:57:47 AM)

If you ban the pro Dommes then CM would also need to ban the Pro male Doms and the Pro submissives/slaves. But there are some people that do come to CM looking for their services, so while they may seem to be a pain in the butt to some, they are a service that others are seeking out.

I say live and let live. If you do not like them, just ignore them.

~Lashra



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