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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/14/2009 6:31:18 PM   
rockspider


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Status: offline 		Well i normally tell anybody soliciting money that i will stick it in the DVD drive and they can collect it there. To my knowledge nobody checked.
Actually i wish we could ban the not so pro wannabe subs who is even more of a pest. Specially those from certain African countries. I do wonder if they ever get anybody to send them anything.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/14/2009 6:35:41 PM   
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Quite frankly I am sick of them because it's a waste of my time. There are other websites especially for them and they really should go there. If we wanted to pay for it, first of all they are a dime a dozen and secondly people here are looking for relationships. I think if the owners of this site want it to continue to succeed they will keep those who are not interested in profit as their number one priority. People here for the money make the site less appealing and a more bitter experience although there may be some exceptions

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/15/2009 1:06:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thats such a stupid and inaccurate statement to make. As i ve said before Im not looking for a Domme but obviously your comprehension skills need to be improved upon
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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/15/2009 1:21:11 PM   
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The pros that I know do have credentials and references and glady show them to prosperctive clients.


Wondering what kinds of credentials Pro Dommes have.


The pros I know have taken various courses on certain types of play and have tons of references to offer. Plus a couple of pros I know make it a point to keep their cp&r and first aid training up to date. Which is important in my eyes.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/15/2009 8:57:37 PM   
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You still haven't answered my question:

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It may surprise you to know Ma'am that there are WOMEN yes Women on this site who are sickened by both men and Women Dominants trying to lure submissive men and submissive women into being their financial slaves at a time when many people are suffering financially and many people, myself included, do not have earning power, ie they are without jobs and struggling to keep their heads above water. Dont tell me pros dont have something to do with that. And yes I agree if you do not wish to tribute do not contact. I do that myself. But im just saying its more than 50/50 likely to be a Woman who sent me the email given the person has Female Dominant on her profile. And even if it is a man so what, does he not have a point. And are you really trying to tell me that no Female Dominant on this site would be against Pro Dommes. I m sure there are some perhaps a small minority which She may be one who is against the idea of Women receiving money from men or Women or Women advertising for MONEY
Kevin



So you think ProDommes are the reason some people don't have jobs or can't manage their funds responsibly?

Now I have to wonder...have you not answered because you didn't see the question, are still thinking about the question, or have come to the realization that your logic is so inexplicably flawed that your original statement about Pro Dommes and their relation to the unemployed is beyond retarded?

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 1:14:51 AM   
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I just wish I could get paid to take a whip to someone's backside.  Talk about an easy job. 


See how easy it is when about half of them want to hand you a script and micromanage as you're doing so.  It takes a lot of the fun out of it... That's not even taking into account the ones who waste your time by never showing (quite often without the courtesy of canceling - often just trolling for wank fodder, in the first place.)  There are SOME who are what could be classified as "masochistic Doms." Personally, I enjoy the occassional serious pain puppy; so, I'm willing to play with some of them; but, if they're going to act like I'm their employee, it's going to cost them...

Regarding rubberpet's:
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  I don't think pros should be banned, but I do think they should have their own special section since there are so many of them. That way people who are looking for one can filter them in or out. I get the random, off the wall, unsolicited message from pro-dommes every once in a while and while it's a bit annoying, those messages aren't from reputable, well-known and respected ones.

I say just give them their own sections. :-)



What about those of us who are both???  Do we set up separate accounts?  My attitude is one of, " The more it's 'about me' to him, the more it's 'about him' to me. The more it's 'about him' to him, the more it's 'about me' to me..."  If he's a total jerk, he can just go take a long walk off of a short pier.  I'm not interested in finding "the love of my life;" and, I'm darned sure not looking for a sexual relationship.  That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy doing the things I enjoy.  When I find that someone is a lot of fun to play with and has an "about me" attitude, they get moved into the category of being welcome whether they can kick in financially or not.  If I was into serving someone (not to be confused with caring about them having an equally positive experience), I'd be a sub; or, at least a switch.  In addition to the guys I mention above, there are a lot of  guys that I play with who CAN'T, for any number of reasons, show their appreciation in any way other than by helping out financially. 

If there were to be any changes made, it might make sense to simply add the following interests section questions: "Casual play without sex," "Casual play with sex," "Looking for a serious, long-term relationship." That way, those who are only interested in the latter two could designate those when the search.  Those who just shoot off notes without bothering to read profiles probably wouldn't bother to use the search feature, either; but, that's "on them."   If there was a clarification that there was a MAJOR difference between a Pro-Dom/me and a "hooker with a whip," I'd be in favor of having something in the interests section for that, as well.

As for "credentials," references, contact, and common sense are much better than a certificate any day.


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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 6:29:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		No of course not . Pro Dommes are not the reason why people cant manage their funds, but lets put like this, the Domme , Fedupof ProDommes recognises surprisingly, actually for a Woman to see this, that Pro Dommes have a nefarious influence on individuals who are submissive and it does not help, not my feelings, HERS, such a pity the Woman in question has not come into this discussion, I invited Her, but I can understand why, She is utterly repulsed by Pro Dommes and does not want to engage with them, She has made Her point, Pro Dommes disagree with this and thats that
Kevin

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 6:36:11 AM   
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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 6:40:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

No of course not . Pro Dommes are not the reason why people cant manage their funds, but lets put like this, the Domme , Fedupof ProDommes recognises surprisingly, actually for a Woman to see this, that Pro Dommes have a nefarious influence on individuals who are submissive and it does not help, not my feelings, HERS, such a pity the Woman in question has not come into this discussion, I invited Her, but I can understand why, She is utterly repulsed by Pro Dommes and does not want to engage with them, She has made Her point, Pro Dommes disagree with this and thats that
Kevin




So, it falls to you then to take on the mantle on behalf of the Oracle at Delphi, so to speak?

Since you are Irish, I can see you having that little priest thing going on, intervening between us and the Goddess.

Can I get a clarification here........can you have her expand at lenght about the nefarious comment, and get back to us with a little treatise on that?

Ron

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 6:58:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

No of course not . Pro Dommes are not the reason why people cant manage their funds, but lets put like this, the Domme , Fedupof ProDommes recognises surprisingly, actually for a Woman to see this, that Pro Dommes have a nefarious influence on individuals who are submissive and it does not help, not my feelings, HERS, such a pity the Woman in question has not come into this discussion, I invited Her, but I can understand why, She is utterly repulsed by Pro Dommes and does not want to engage with them, She has made Her point, Pro Dommes disagree with this and thats that
Kevin



Ya know. . . I am certain that my s-type would disagree with this. 

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:10:43 AM   
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Pro Dommes have a nefarious influence on individuals who are submissive...

Kevin



How so? Like seriously? The only influence a ProDomme might have on a "submissive" is the influence that that "submissive" allows. Please explain to me how ProDommes have an uncontrolled, undue influence upon anyone...most especially profound and insightful individuals such as yourself?

You've also refused to acknowledge the role ProDommes have played in expanding the knowledge and ability for "lifestyle" Dommes to even exist as a result of exposure to pop culture. And if you simply don't believe this is true, you might need to take a look at human nature and society bit around the whole gay thing. How's that working out for you, Kevin?

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:12:12 AM   
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Pop Culture................isn't that nefarious?

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:13:50 AM   
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You have shown me the error of my ways...

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:16:56 AM   
mnottertail


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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Ronne,

You have shown me the error of my ways...

boi




Yeah, well I am a pro, boi.

Kids, don't try this at home.

Somebody is gonna fuck around and put an eye out, and you're going to find the situation extremely nefarious and say, oh god, oh god, why didn't I listen to the pro dommes?

Ron(ne)

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:41:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

No of course not . Pro Dommes are not the reason why people cant manage their funds, but lets put like this, the Domme , Fedupof ProDommes recognises surprisingly, actually for a Woman to see this, that Pro Dommes have a nefarious influence on individuals who are submissive and it does not help, not my feelings, HERS, such a pity the Woman in question has not come into this discussion, I invited Her, but I can understand why, She is utterly repulsed by Pro Dommes and does not want to engage with them, She has made Her point, Pro Dommes disagree with this and thats that
Kevin



Well if she is that closed minded, then I for one am glad she is not coming around.



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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:43:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Pro Dommes have a nefarious influence on individuals who are submissive...

Kevin



How so? Like seriously? The only influence a ProDomme might have on a "submissive" is the influence that that "submissive" allows. Please explain to me how ProDommes have an uncontrolled, undue influence upon anyone...most especially profound and insightful individuals such as yourself?

You've also refused to acknowledge the role ProDommes have played in expanding the knowledge and ability for "lifestyle" Dommes to even exist as a result of exposure to pop culture. And if you simply don't believe this is true, you might need to take a look at human nature and society bit around the whole gay thing. How's that working out for you, Kevin?

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He gets influenced by total strangers in public settings, of course a real domme is going to push him over the edge.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:44:58 AM   
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edited to add.........I wanna BE nefarious!!!


< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 11/16/2009 7:46:24 AM >

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:47:18 AM   
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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:48:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wonder why it isn't depraved, or heinous or perverse?

only nefarious..............makes it kinda nebulous and mysterious, don't 'cha think?

GAWD, even I am getting wood at the way I talk.

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RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or ... - 11/16/2009 7:50:48 AM   
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