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rockspider -> RE: Orgasm Control - how to? (11/16/2009 8:40:52 PM)
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My experience really goes from women who I have despite my absolute best effort have been unable to get as much as whimper or movement out off, to the ones who after very little effort has been howling so the neighbors complained. So I doubt that there is a sure way to something like. In as far as orgasm control goes, the only thing I have been able to do is using stimulation in various manners and the withdrawal of the same. I have found that it does work well when she is restrained in some manner. Some of these I have spoken in great about the experience and why it works. Well there is one obvious reason as she has no possibility of either helping herself neither grabbing on to the man doing it which is actually the thing I mostly hear is what is going through their mind. The other thing is much psychological. Most women really want to reciprocate in bed. If you just tell them to relax and enjoy their mind seems to fabricate some guild in that they don't. The restraints completely takes that away. Gives a total freedom to be pleased.
This method is by no means workable on all woman. Be lucky if it does in 1 out of three.
Who are they. Well the easy turn on is obviously best. One absolute thing all of the ones I have had success with have had one in common. That is the woman, who if they are doing something else, like chores and if you do touch them somewhere you know is a great turn initially tries to stop you but suddenly change her mind. Example. She is doing dishes and you walk op behind and take a firm grip on her tits. Firstly she does say "Hang on let me get the dishes finished" but if you persist, suddenly her body language change. The eyes like goes bleary, her breath quickens and she leans in to you. An excellent pre staging to the scene later is to do it regularly during the day where you plan the scene to take place and let go of her and say something like "well if you wanna do the dishes, get on with it" The very best I experienced for this was somewhat confused in the beginning. But as we had done it a few times caught on. She would stand there and recapture her composure and mutter under her breath "You fucking bastard", carry on and sending me small evil glances always finished with an air kiss. Well she would do things like always keep her back to me, be finding minute pieces of dust on the floor which had to be picked up always with her ass pointing my way. The whole atmosphere would become more and more charged. We did have the rule, no sex before dinner which was always a real treat. After the dinner it would become no holds barred.
Can a woman orgasm on command? Well until I do see it with my own eyes I will say no way. Can a woman be stimulated to orgasm. Well that is indeed possible. First time I did see it was with the above mentioned woman and totally unprepared. Well had booked a chalet in a resort which was quite large and was well known for its adult only policy. Each chalet was very private and distributed evenly over the grounds. The place was heavily wooded and in the mountains. Insuring a high degree of privacy. Nudity was not as such allowed, but neither disallowed so it was well known for that people really wore a minimum of clothes. Nobody cared at all. Anywhere we set on the 350 km drive to it and the road starts out dead straight but as the mountains start gets increasingly twisty requiring lots of concentration on the driving. Well of course the talk in the car really became centered on what to do when we got there and the weekend. As we did get in to the twisty part it was extremely explicit. At one stage she actually stopped saying anything but I kept on talking for a while. I gave her a quick glance and she was sitting holding on to her seat, neck back and eyes closed. Well she looked like a woman in pain, like searing gut ache or menses pain. But I was on a roll and just kept jabbing while driving. Certainly she started screaming starting with "Fuck I am cumming" repeating it over and over. I nearly ran the car off the road, but got it pulled over to the side. Well she was spasming like a leaf. I was so surprised that I just sat there staring. When her body stopped trembling she said. “That was awesome. Nobody but nobody is ever going to believe it.” Well she leaned and gave me a long and deep kiss and when she pulled off she said "I owe you the world’s best blowjob" Well I didn't get it as when she tried to open my zipper I just exploded. We sat a little while really saying nothing. Decided to get going and did try and clean a bit up with some wet vipes. The rest of the trip was in relative silence. When we arrived at the resort she said that I should go and sign in alone. So I did, but when we arrived at the chalet I discovered why. Her panties and skirt was simply one big mess and so was the seat she sat on. We did try it later as such and also achieved some success, but nothing like that first time. I have later tried it plenty times with others, but mostly it ends with her actually ends up masturbating herself and that I feel is not the same.
Well I am in no doubt that the most important sexual organ in a woman is situated between her ears. If you can concur that, the rest falls in your lap. But some of these brains are just not wired for certain things. You can push it far but each one has its own specific limits. She will, however much she desires to, never could give you something she don't have.
Men really don't differ that much on that score. Wayne Gretzky would never have become that great player he was if he didn't have the talent he had. Neither would he, if he didn't interest himself for ice hockey and neither would he, if he didn't have that iron will to train for years to get there. Think about it! Being good at something is always a multifaceted thing. If one ingredient is missing you don't succeed. Training is not putting something in, but really discovering what is already there and make the full potential of it.
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