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kasumi -> RE: Orgasm Control - how to? (11/20/2009 10:43:09 PM)
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I faked it with a couple of my exes and quickly realized that it really was a bad idea. Perhaps some of your partners were considerate and genuinely concerned, DemonKia, but I got the real jerks that thought all they needed to do was thrust and it would be good for both of us. -.-
Sexual communication didn't even exist between us... In fact, with one of them it was less me "faking" and more me just.... not saying anything. So he'd finish, get off of me and stand by the fan with a self-satisfied look ... it was like some weird, "manly" ritual. It wasn't until he heard from a friend's boyfriend that I hadn't had an orgasm that he started to try other things. He ended up being the first to ever bring me to orgasm but not without a lot of complaining because "there must be SOMETHING wrong" with me because I couldn't cum from intercourse. I ended up with some pretty bad self-esteem issues because of him... luckily that relationship ended 8 years ago. Unfortunately, it sort of made me the type of girl that might disclose a bit - too much? - at the onset of a relationship. XD
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