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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 9:03:30 PM   
DomImus


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Status: offline 		People post profiles to suit their needs, not yours. Mine has no photo, no checklists, no likes or dislikes. If someone posts a profile with little or no bdsm context that is their prerogative. Some people don't live and breathe kink 24/7 and the down time interests and activities are a lot more important to them. I can understand why you are confused about profile content since you are only 18 and just joined Friday but what makes these people fakes and posers just because their profiles don't suit your template?

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 9:21:53 PM   
DrkJourney


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Aww DJ... I will share my sprinkles with you!


sniff sniff....thank you so much....I really need a sprinkle

(hope you're not enabling me...lol)

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 9:22:37 PM   
CarrieO


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Status: offline 		OP,

I had a great reply all typed out for you but then I erased it.  Why?  Simple, it would be a waste of my time to try to get some 18 year old "master" to understand reality. Kink is great...bdsm is too...but the reality of it is not everyone is looking for the same things you are. 
If I choose to not list a bunch of kink in my profile, guess what...it's none of your concern. 

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 9:29:40 PM   
Musicmystery


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Status: offline 		Wait.....there are fakes here? Why didn't someone say something???

OP--geez. It's a kink site. I simply assume that a submissive/slave girl is ....well, submissive and a slave. So that's covered.

Now, whether I'm interested in her as something other than a member of a gender that's half the members of this planet...that might read vanilla to you. To me, it's who is she.

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 9:32:03 PM   
sirsholly


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I simply assume that a submissive/slave girl is ....well, submissive and a slave.
oh suuuure...go ahead and complicate things!!

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 9:39:31 PM   
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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 10:10:36 PM   
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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/14/2009 11:48:27 PM   
rockspider


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Status: offline 		When I was 18 I did know it all. I was better, brighter and better equipped than all you old fogies. Oh shit I just realized I am probably the old man here. Well my old folks were just hopeless antiques totally stunted by their ripe old age.
40 years down the road, and still waiting for that PhD. from Life’s University Of Hard Knocks to be mailed to me. My knowledge bank has certainly multiplied many times. But the more I gain of knowledge, the more acutely aware I become of how much knowledge really there is out there. It just really made me realize that if I became Mr. Know-it-all, I would really end up with an unending list of questions to be answered.
Another feature of getting to my age is the ability to look back and really see the mistakes I have made over the years. Like for example the notion I have had of always be right, like when thinking of my folks. Today they do stand out as someone who first of all had a great love for me, secondly really did have a point on many (probably most) occasions. It has taught me that when my fellow man disagrees it is not necessarily because he is stupid or wrong. He might just have another angle on the issue. It has also taught me that thinking before talking seems to minimize embarrassment. It has also taught me to enjoy what I have and stop crying over what I don’t. It has also taught me that the person whose respect I need the most is the one who looks at me in the mirror. If I lose respect for him I lose everything. Not that my peers means nothing, if it should happen their respect surely also gone.
Prayer of the day:
Oh Lord, grant me the stamina to change what I can.
Oh Lord, grant me the patience to accept the things I can’t.
Oh Lord, grant me the wisdom to know the difference.

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 6:46:38 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		"When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." - Mark Twain

Remind anyone of the OP? Except he still needs the seven years maturing.

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 7:06:02 AM   
MercTech


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Status: offline 		I'm of an age that "cock-a-doodle doo, any sub'll doooo" is not my battle cry.
I troll for interesting conversation with my profile.  Some shared interests that may or may not be kink related.  I suppose if my profile were a flavor of ice cream, it would be vanilla.. with chocolate swirls and some nuts seasoned with chilis.

Stefan

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 7:15:04 AM   
devilishpixie


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Status: offline 		At 18 has one even truly mastered themselves?
OP why does it bother you so much what other's do or not put in their profiles?

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 8:22:29 AM   
ShadowsLap


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Status: offline 		Not to hijack the topic or anything, but ... what is it that makes people think a profile is fake?  I have got to get a handle on it.  I just took all the truth out of my profile because I get so few responses ... perhaps because so many think my profile is fake ...

I thought taking the creation of my profile seriously and being "me" would give interested/interesting people a foundation for discourse.  Unfortunately, it has not worked out that way at all for me.  SL

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 8:31:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Thanks to those who saved Me many keystrokes.


Any time, LadyP....I assume the check's in the mail?


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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 9:15:39 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I'm still trying to figure out how an 18 year old can be a master.



of BATES...

GM

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 9:20:29 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: MasterK13

When you look at a profile ever notice that some are almost like a vanilla's they dont even describe the partner they want as a BDSM enthusiest what's up with that? I edited because I know some people on the site are just kinky looking for kinky partners I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


What's wrong with not listing kinks? My profile is almost entirely devoted to "vanilla" things cause *gasp* most of my interaction with my partners takes place away from a St. Andrew's cross.

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 9:31:24 AM   
Wolf2Bear


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ORIGINAL: MasterK13

When you look at a profile ever notice that some are almost like a vanilla's they dont even describe the partner they want as a BDSM enthusiest what's up with that? I edited because I know some people on the site are just kinky looking for kinky partners I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


Y'all want cheese with your whine?

brie?
cheddar; mild, medium, old?
Edam?
Swiss?
Gruyere?
mozzarella?




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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 9:46:56 AM   
amaidiamond


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Status: offline 		*settles back with her popcorn* This thread again.... joy oh joy

Then again i'm 100% fake - whadda i know...

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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 9:56:20 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Just as some people are straight but not narrow, there are vanilla people who are not boring.



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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 10:38:51 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterK13

When you look at a profile ever notice that some are almost like a vanilla's they dont even describe the partner they want as a BDSM enthusiest what's up with that? I edited because I know some people on the site are just kinky looking for kinky partners I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


What's wrong with not listing kinks? My profile is almost entirely devoted to "vanilla" things cause *gasp* most of my interaction with my partners takes place away from a St. Andrew's cross.
fake!



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RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? - 11/15/2009 11:43:53 AM   
strangedesire


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Status: offline 		Serious answer?  Because most people aren't just looking for kinky play, they're looking for friends, lovers, life partners.  You can't base a serious relationship off kink, any more than you can base one off of sex.  Relationships based on sexual chemistry don't last in the long in my experience, and I've seen nothing to suggest that this changes because she wants to be spanked or you have a bit of a thing for gags. 

Kink is important to you, obviously, and it's probably important to most of these people too, otherwise they wouldn't be looking for mates on a BDSM website.  However, I suspect that it's probably harder to find real mental and emotional compatibility than it is to find someone whose kinks line up with yours - and if you find that someone whom you're emotionally compatible with, a lot of the kink stuff can be compromised on.  Let's say that you're a dom and she's a sub.  If you love her and care for her and she absolutely needs to be tied up every now and then, how hard is it to learn some knots? 

K13, you're 18.  You're still learning who you are and what you like.  In ten years, if you're lucky, you'll still be learning and growing.  Who would you rather explore with?  Some girl that you don't really like who has the same kinky interests as you, or or a woman that you adore who let you do things out of your wildest fantasies because she adores you too?


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