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MasterK13 -> What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 5:09:26 PM)

When you look at a profile ever notice that some are almost like a vanilla's they dont even describe the partner they want as a BDSM enthusiest what's up with that? I edited because I know some people on the site are just kinky looking for kinky partners I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.



frazzle -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 5:11:40 PM)

Maybe some want to know the person, before the kink!!!



antipode -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 6:35:00 PM)

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I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


We know. You're only the 123,445th person to notice. Some didn't even have Master in their name, there were a few Kings, a Lord or three, 111 Sirs, and 65 Special Forces members.



sirsholly -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 6:37:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


We know. You're only the 123,445th person to notice. Some didn't even have Master in their name, there were a few Kings, a Lord or three, 111 Sirs, and 65 Special Forces members.

you forgot to mention the UberDoms



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 6:37:54 PM)

Oh goody, it's been a while since we've had one of these threads. Gee thanks OP [8|]

ETA why do you care OP? In what way does this impact on your life?



Aylee -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 6:39:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterK13

When you look at a profile ever notice that some are almost like a vanilla's they dont even describe the partner they want as a BDSM enthusiest what's up with that? I edited because I know some people on the site are just kinky looking for kinky partners I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


Nope.  I cannot say that I have noticed.  But then again, I rarely look at profiles. 



GoddessImaginos -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 6:43:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: frazzle

Maybe some want to know the person, before the kink!!!


Exactly, frazzle, thanks for pointing that out. Perish the thought that some people are here for more than just tools, trappings, and quick hook ups..
Yanno, seriously.. what is it with all these judgemental (emphasis on the 'mental' part) types who think that their viewpoints and opinions are the only ones that can or should define why anyone else is here, and that no one or nothing else could possibly be twue..



Lockit -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 6:46:43 PM)

I didn't see a sign that said "No Vanilla's Allowed"

What does it matter? Are we rating the degree of bdsm'ers?

Just sign me... Vanilla... that is with a cap... and sprinkles.



rockspider -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 6:57:57 PM)

I look at a lot of profiles. If i read a tread and see something interesting i always wanna see who they are, how old and where from.
How can you really call your self a master if you are seeking subs. I am a master Lamborghini driver who just happen never to have driven one (actually that is not true, but i doubt tractors is supposed to count). To be a master of anything you have to have it. Well look at some of the femdoms/mistreses and you se this 45 kg Phillipina smiling sweetly at you.



MstrPBK -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 7:07:53 PM)

Personally I do not understand the existence of these people. They seem to live in an entirely DIFFERENT universe where the geography is no where near ours. My be some day I will have documented enough of this to create a map of their world. ...

MstrPBK
St Paul, MN USA



CelticPrince -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 7:15:13 PM)

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We know. You're only the 123,445th person to notice. Some didn't even have Master in their name, there were a few Kings, a Lord or three, 111 Sirs, and 65 Special Forces members.


ROARS

CP



Lucienne -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 7:26:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


We know. You're only the 123,445th person to notice. Some didn't even have Master in their name, there were a few Kings, a Lord or three, 111 Sirs, and 65 Special Forces members.



Tee hee! Wicked man.



kiwisub12 -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 7:32:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

I am talking about vanillas seeking vanillas with no kinks at all.


We know. You're only the 123,445th person to notice. Some didn't even have Master in their name, there were a few Kings, a Lord or three, 111 Sirs, and 65 Special Forces members.



Tee hee! Wicked man.




I am very glad that someone is keeping statistics. Statistics are VERY important! [:D]



DesFIP -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 7:54:17 PM)

I'm still trying to figure out how an 18 year old can be a master.

Look kid, kink does not define us. Maybe to someone who wants to get his rocks off ten times a day with a partner other than your right hand it does.

But for many of us it's the personalities that matter. There's lots of people like you hoping to get some action. But there also are people who want to meet the right person, and who know that when that's right, the activities will fall into line.

For people like me, dominance is not defined by how big a paddle he carries. It's something that's intrinsic to him. And because I respond to that, I will happily follow along with whatever activity he decrees. Except playing golf, that's a hard limit.



DrkJourney -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 8:01:56 PM)

Aww man, I just put up my fake/poser crown...I've gotta drag it out again????   I thought we could go the whole weekend without hearing about how fake we are this week....my bad...oh well....

hello...my name is DJ  and I'm a fake....sigh[sm=banghead.gif]

edited to add:
<---------hey lookie....1234....lol



kiwisub12 -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 8:20:54 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I'm still trying to figure out how an 18 year old can be a master.




now, DesFIP, an 18 year old can be a master, but just as i wasn't a particularly good nurse at 18, i don't believe he can be a particularly effective one.

This would be one area where i think accumulated experience adds dramatically to the whole.
If someone takes classes for 9 months they can be a certified nursing assistant. But like many other things, your real learning begins when you get out of school.

Then there are the things (like being an effective dom) that you don't learn in school, you learn by watching and reading and actual experience.
There are those that have a natural talent for a given activity, there are those who are average and there are those who will never learn properly- and only time will tell what catagory any given individual will fall into.

On the other hand, if the OP has the mindset, and a few good teachers, he may be a very effective dom. Who but his sub can know for sure. [sm=pineapple.gif]



Lockit -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 8:21:51 PM)

Aww DJ... I will share my sprinkles with you! [sm=cute.gif]



DesFIP -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 8:31:06 PM)

Kiwi did you read his earlier post? The one where he can't spot an obvious scam?
And yeah, with the right teachers and a willingness to learn, he might be competent in ten years.



Malkinius -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 8:49:58 PM)

{fast reply}

Greetings all....

What did the boy say in one of his first posts? That he was still living at home or just started college and wasn't living where he could have a full time slave?

Personally, I think he just turned 18, discovered BDSM not that long ago, thought "Oh wow...If I am a Master I can get a girl and I can get laid!" The rest is in his posts. Even his picture tells you right away he has no clue about adult things. It might be great for the teen version of Facebook, but here?

Maybe if he actually listens to what people say to and about him he will get a clue. So far he seems to have acquired the ability get it when the facts and the truth whack him up side the head with the old ClueX4. If this goes on long enough, he won't need it any more. Any one can get it with enough time and effort. He still has to prove he is worth someone's time and effort.

Be well....

Malkinius



kiwisub12 -> RE: What is it with the fakes and posers? (11/14/2009 8:59:59 PM)

OK - i just read the referred to the post - and yes, the poor boy isn't quite to Master status yet.[&o] Dang, and i had such hopes for him (hehehehe - evil thoughts abound!)



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