HisSweetElysium
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida. For me, Daddy is not about my father or incestuous at all. It is a name which represents his strength, authority, nurturing and protection over me, and allows me to relate to him in that way...allowing me to be sweet, quiet, vulnerable, playful, and even weak at times. It's not a role-play for us, it's symbolic. He is also my Master, Owner and Dominant authority. But at times he looks at me quite tenderly, and this dynamic allows me to receive that in ways I have not been able to before. He enjoys taking care of me in many ways, and for the first time in my life, I can relax in the arms of a man and know I'm not alone in having to handle everything that life throws my way. We are enjoying many facets to this relationship, and Daddy/little girl is one of them. This is our rationale as well. Master is actually 4 years younger than me, and I have a WONDERFUL relationship with my father. Calling Master this name is reflective of exactly those times NuevaVida mentions when He looks at me with complete tenderness and protection. I love feeling small, little and innocent, giggly and playful, and it feels right between us. It all depends on the dynamic of the moment. I also call Him Master, Sir, darling, etc. He often calls me His sweet girl, His precious girl, but in those moments, I can be His sweet baby girl too. Doesn't mean I'm sucking on a bottle or wearing a diaper, just means what is going on between us is sweet, loving, and tender. I call Him Daddy in these moments to illuminate that, and I know I am not going to be hit, tied up, etc just cuddled and treasured. He also calls me whore, slut, cunt, slave, bitch, things that would make most people cringe, and at those times, yes, my ass is going to be red, and we both know it. Our relationship has many facets, which is one of the things I love about it. Using language to illustrate that is a natural thing, and for me, because I have a wonderful relationship with my father, it is probably one of the most honorific things I can call Master. :)
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“This is love: to fly toward a secret sky, to cause a hundred veils to fall each moment. First to let go of life. Finally, to take a step without feet.” Rumi
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