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RE: Cheating or not? - 12/8/2009 11:44:30 PM

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She's deceiving him. Call it whatever else you like- it is dishonest. A sin of omission is still a sin. By not telling him about it, she is effectively hiding it from him. As said by others here: she's only fooling herself, if she thinks that isn't wrong.

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RE: Cheating or not? - 12/9/2009 3:34:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

She's deceiving him. Call it whatever else you like- it is dishonest. A sin of omission is still a sin. By not telling him about it, she is effectively hiding it from him. As said by others here: she's only fooling herself, if she thinks that isn't wrong.

But again... is she omitting it? I don't tell Valyraen every single time I masturbate to Han Solo cause it doesn't seem important enough to tell him. If he tells me he wants to know than I'll tell him. Not everyone is in a dynamic where cybering seems important enough that it MUST be brought up.

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RE: Cheating or not? - 12/9/2009 3:43:47 PM

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no cheating and one funny thing happened to me an ex of mine, who is about to have a kid, and is linving with is future wife had the stupidity of asking me to be is lover...

and he knows i have an Owner (that i love), he said that we should not fallow the rules of society, i was really really pissed... i fell sorry for is wife and kid...

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RE: Cheating or not? - 12/9/2009 3:46:39 PM

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Agrees, depends on the dynamic. i may cum from what ever mental stimulus i want, once given permission.

I know he isnt talking about cybering with someone.

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My question on this is?? Does the person on the otherside of the screen know you are using them!!!!

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RE: Cheating or not? - 12/9/2009 4:13:56 PM

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i would be very upset if Master T was having cyber sex...just as i am sure He would be upset with me...doing things (mental or physical) should only be done with the one you are with! JMOHO

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RE: Cheating or not? - 12/9/2009 5:01:07 PM

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Should is a very loaded and dangerous word when talking about other people's relationships. IMHO of course...

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RE: Cheating or not? - 12/11/2009 8:47:54 PM

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Eh....just mind your own. As long as your not "cheating" there should be nothing more.

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