wisdomtogive -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 8:26:13 AM)
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I am mostly assertive and not aggressive. It doesn't matter if a person is a Dom or a s-type, I will not put them down. I do see this a lot on the message boards, but I do not feel it is all that important to bring it into a topic/subject. There are many rude people in the world, and always have been. I do not submit to others, but I do act with integrity, because I choose too. I also been known to slam duck someone in a very polite way if they feel it is necessary to attack me, yet with that though I seldom do. I do not waste a lot of my energy in responding to people putting others down. It is not something I can change in them. My view is this, yes there are a lot of aggressive people, and people who find it necessary to slam a whole group of people in these message boards. Do i care? No, they are not representing me, nor are a connection to me. I must be responsible for myself. I will not start a topic like this, because to me it just feeds that aggressive energy, and usually tells the posters the OP is aggressive in itself. There is a difference in a Dom who is assertive verses aggressive imho. I prefer the assertive types, and those who do not make blanket judgments. Though i appear new, I am not. I have been here for over a year, maybe two..i don't recall, with many variations of 'oceanwynds'. I have found these boards and the majority of people that post to be caring and genuine. Why, maybe because I treat them with respect. Not everyone will see things how I do, and I find that fantastic. Sorry but I dont want carbon copies of me running around.
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