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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/4/2009 6:34:17 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

With winter coming here in Montreal, I'd we willing to relocate to a tropical villa with a cute cabana boy! ;-)

- LA


You have my sympathies.  I lived for a year in Montreal when I was eight.  One doesn't know the meaning of the word "winter" until one has spent one of them in Québec.  Even the villa without the cabana boy would be a huge improvement.

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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 5:52:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Amen to that, SC. That's my point exactly. I'm not going to waste weeks talkign to someone without finding out if they are relocatable. If they can't relocate, then it's best to get that bit of information out in the open as soon as possible.

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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 6:20:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Sorry, but I'm more the type to not care why he did it.  Just glad he did it quick so I wouldn't waste My time on him.


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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 6:31:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

For the OP may i respectfully suggest You went way too fast way too soon. You should never ask someone to move in with You after You only talked with them for an hour. A bit of naivety on your part, simply put he was not ready for the commitment and You went way too fast way too soon. Relocation is too much ask of someone You have simply chatted with for a while
Kevin



As others already stated, she did not ask to move in straight away...

however, I do disagree to potentially saying things too soon...

After all it is about finding out if people are a potential match...

I do check soon the facts which are important to me and if he freaks out or shows that he has an issue with it then I wish him good luck and good bye. After all I am not bored enough to keep chatting for ages with someone when we can't be a match for a variety of reasons.

So I don't put it down to naivety if someone checks out such factors, more to find out if the person is actually looking seriously for someone or if they fit each others needs...

I had quite a lot of guys blaming me for the needs I state in my profile and even for the fact that I won't stay in the UK for anyone (for a variety of reasons) so they seem to have thought that they will be able to change my views about them...and once they realised that is not going to happen their flipping-out or putting-down-attitude started off. Therefore I check them out fast by now and if it scares them off, then good for me as after all it safes my time. Now it is rare that someone achieves to waste my time, thank goodness

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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 6:36:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower


quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

For the OP may i respectfully suggest You went way too fast way too soon. You should never ask someone to move in with You after You only talked with them for an hour. A bit of naivety on your part, simply put he was not ready for the commitment and You went way too fast way too soon. Relocation is too much ask of someone You have simply chatted with for a while
Kevin



As others already stated, she did not ask to move in straight away...

however, I do disagree to potentially saying things too soon...

After all it is about finding out if people are a potential match...

I do check soon the facts which are important to me and if he freaks out or shows that he has an issue with it then I wish him good luck and good bye. After all I am not bored enough to keep chatting for ages with someone when we can't be a match for a variety of reasons.

So I don't put it down to naivety if someone checks out such factors, more to find out if the person is actually looking seriously for someone or if they fit each others needs...

I had quite a lot of guys blaming me for the needs I state in my profile and even for the fact that I won't stay in the UK for anyone (for a variety of reasons) so they seem to have thought that they will be able to change my views about them...and once they realised that is not going to happen their flipping-out or putting-down-attitude started off. Therefore I check them out fast by now and if it scares them off, then good for me as after all it safes my time. Now it is rare that someone achieves to waste my time, thank goodness


Unfortunately, far too many of us are whiney, sniveling, and pathetic excuses for manhood. lol. You don't seem the type of female who would do well with that type..Best of luck in your search.

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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 1:52:29 PM   
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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 1:54:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Like today for instance i sneezed no fewer than ten times in five minutes during a particular time in cold weather this morning. Like i say i need a Woman to support me in this. Well i hope Ladies you have discoverd that im nothing to be sneezed at . Excuse the pun
Laughs
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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 1:55:55 PM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		With apologies to Underumam who is a gentleman. Apologies Underumam
Kevin

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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 2:04:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Like today for instance i sneezed no fewer than ten times in five minutes during a particular time in cold weather this morning.



No worries, Kevin.  We can put a plastic bag over your head.

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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 2:08:47 PM   
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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 2:10:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		You do have a sadistic mindset
Laughs
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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 7:31:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

With apologies to Underumam who is a gentleman. Apologies Underumam
Kevin



lol. I fall short every now and then. But I try....

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RE: Why did he flipp like this - 12/5/2009 7:44:46 PM   
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BiSwitchLee... what is the matter with you? Clueless...

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