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Level -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 8:07:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone Another thread got me wondering about this. Limits... Who sets them? You, or your "D" type? i'm talking limits not preferences. I set the limits for ALL of my slaves. By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off. Both parties have input. As Drifa said, the submissive has the ability to walk, so that's input. I have the ability to end the relationship as well, thus, input.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 8:41:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone Another thread got me wondering about this. Limits... Who sets them? You, or your "D" type? i'm talking limits not preferences. I set the limits for ALL of my slaves. By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off. Both parties have input. As Drifa said, the submissive has the ability to walk, so that's input. I have the ability to end the relationship as well, thus, input. You laugh. But some actually would welcome that. Body Identity Disorder

Level -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 8:43:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: persephonee Yeah, youre right, i suppose, tulip....it was all just a pipedream.....ive always wanted to go to Alaska and live in a cave.....sniffle.[:(] If'n y'all have a cave-dweller kink, look here: quote: BUDAPEST, Hungary - Talk about a reversal of fortunes. Two brothers who are so poor they live in a cave on the outskirts of Budapest and get by selling scavenged junk are in line to receive a $6.6 billion inheritance from a long-lost grandmother, the U.K. Daily Telegraph reports. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34264774/ns/world_news-wonderful_world/

persephonee -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 10:09:43 AM)
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RCdc -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 1:46:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: persephonee quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: Well these limits are set up before a power exchange. So I think she can dictate what her limits are. You can just walk away and vice versa. SO I am not dictating if I say face slapping is a hard limit as it sends me to a bad place and a one of reliving past abuse. Thats not dictating my will. Thats protecting myself emotionally so I can be a well adjusted person. Whatever it is you want to call it but I wouldn't allow anyone to set anything up prior to or after the relationship has been established as such. Setting limits is setting limitations and I won't allow it. i dont see how you can maintain a long term, live in relationship with that sort of rigidity....(ba dum dum...) We seem to be doing pretty well with 'that sort of rigidity' as you call it. You may not see it, or desire that kind of relationship, but for some people, it's da bomb. It's the difference between compatability and settling - and Master doesn't settle. Neither do I. the.dark.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 1:51:24 PM)
quote: By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off. Well by God, you cut my limb off and I'm sewing that fucker back on.....so THERE!

UniqueRaven -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 2:43:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level *By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off.* i'm so sorry, but every time i read this, i think to myself "It's just a flesh wound!" [:D] julie ("'Tis but a scratch." "A scratch?! Your arm's off.")

Level -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 4:38:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off. Well by God, you cut my limb off and I'm sewing that fucker back on.....so THERE! UNTWUE PHONY-BALONEYISM IN ACTION! *note how I capitalized everything, thus exerting extra dominate powers*

Level -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 4:41:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven quote: ORIGINAL: Level *By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off.* i'm so sorry, but every time i read this, i think to myself "It's just a flesh wound!" [:D] julie ("'Tis but a scratch." "A scratch?! Your arm's off.") [image]http://blog.makezine.com/archive/2009/10/01/monty-python-black-knight-.jpg[/image] [;)]

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 4:45:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Both. My sub sets her limits and tells them to me. I administer both them and my own limits. ~waves at Steven~ This is exactly how Sir and I were. I had my limits and He had His, and we worked and played within both. I believe I will always have some hard limits, although not very many. Otherwise, i would have temporary limits, to disappear when I can really trust Someone.

GoddessImaginos -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 4:48:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off. Well by God, you cut my limb off and I'm sewing that fucker back on.....so THERE! UNTWUE PHONY-BALONEYISM IN ACTION! *note how I capitalized everything, thus exerting extra dominate powers* Very Dom-ly of you, Level darling. Now watch me exert Mine as I once again demand My cock-shot.. there; did you see Me? [sm=domme.gif][sm=wife.gif]

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 4:52:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: By God, when I cut an arm or leg off, it had better stay off. Well by God, you cut my limb off and I'm sewing that fucker back on.....so THERE! UNTWUE PHONY-BALONEYISM IN ACTION! *note how I capitalized everything, thus exerting extra dominate powers* Hmmmmm not feeling it....wanna try again? goes back to filing nails

Level -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 4:54:46 PM)
Dear lady, here it is. *blushes with modesty*

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 5:00:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Dear lady, here it is. *blushes with modesty* ....and there it is, the finest cock shot on CM [:)]

GoddessImaginos -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 5:00:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Dear lady, here it is. *blushes with modesty* Ok, that does it. You are ~OFFICIALLY!!~ CM's resident cock-tease. May the fleas of a thousand chickens infest your morning oatmeal, Level..

Wolf2Bear -> RE: Limits (12/5/2009 5:18:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos quote: ORIGINAL: Level Dear lady, here it is. *blushes with modesty* Ok, that does it. You are ~OFFICIALLY!!~ CM's resident cock-tease. May the fleas of a thousand chickens infest your morning oatmeal, Level.. tsk tsk GoddessImaginos you are going about that all wrong. You don't ask Level for a cock shot...you ask for a full frontal photo of himself.

MMasterMM -> RE: Limits (12/6/2009 6:43:19 AM)
limit/capacity/overwhelmed 10 long years, and the shit won't stop. Maybe: -her slavery was a fa-sod? -I can't take any more bullshit -I will not stand for any more negotiation (very soon she will be the dom) -Agreement gone too far. (I agreed to wedding, I won't agree to stop watching porn) -I will encourage some independence, begging is good. ultimatums,demands and refusal -not so much. (demands to: "turn of that tv and fuck me" is way 'the wrong' plea!) (and no I am not a tv junky) -I wish for it not to end-yet one can find it difficult to get the jeannie back in the bottle. fyi-I have tried to be realistic and rational.-ALL FOR NAUGHT I know the limits,'I love anal,she can't take it(anymore) hence I don't get it.' 'I love a good choking-deep throat session, she can't take it(anymore) hence I don't get it.' I ask; "which would you like?" she announces "that's all i could find" with heavy heart, I don't believe she can grow back into the slave I once cherished. with every manipulative statement, I grow more and more callus. I wish to care,having a hard time turning that off,out of self preservation, I leave. The question: what would you and yours do in a similar situation? I posted here to get some response from especially the 'female slaves' those are my target.

DearJessicaD -> RE: Limits (12/6/2009 11:02:51 AM)
We talked about them when we first realized our relationship was getting serious and were talking about moving in together. We agreed on them together.

Roselaure -> RE: Limits (12/6/2009 7:42:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MMasterMM limit/capacity/overwhelmed 10 long years, and the shit won't stop. Maybe: -her slavery was a fa-sod? -I can't take any more bullshit -I will not stand for any more negotiation (very soon she will be the dom) -Agreement gone too far. (I agreed to wedding, I won't agree to stop watching porn) -I will encourage some independence, begging is good. ultimatums,demands and refusal -not so much. (demands to: "turn of that tv and fuck me" is way 'the wrong' plea!) (and no I am not a tv junky) -I wish for it not to end-yet one can find it difficult to get the jeannie back in the bottle. fyi-I have tried to be realistic and rational.-ALL FOR NAUGHT I know the limits,'I love anal,she can't take it(anymore) hence I don't get it.' 'I love a good choking-deep throat session, she can't take it(anymore) hence I don't get it.' I ask; "which would you like?" she announces "that's all i could find" with heavy heart, I don't believe she can grow back into the slave I once cherished. with every manipulative statement, I grow more and more callus. I wish to care,having a hard time turning that off,out of self preservation, I leave. The question: what would you and yours do in a similar situation? I posted here to get some response from especially the 'female slaves' those are my target. You sound miserable. Why are you asking us what to do? I think you already know the answer.

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