RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex?

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GoddessImaginos -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 3:22:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly I think porn gives a man the impression he has to "preform" in bed. I don't want a performance...i want HIM. Exactly. How many advertisements or articles have we read, where the male experience was summed up in his ability to "perform"? I always wonder if it's this sort of nonsense that makes them so squirrelly..

Level -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 4:08:37 PM)
LOL at "squirrely" [:D] I'm sure that makes things harder for some guys; there's a higher number of guys that don't really care, they just want to get off. Neither makes for a good lover, I think.

kiwisub12 -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 5:11:30 PM)
All i have to say is .... if the guy tries to get in bed with me - and leaves his tube socks on, he'll be sitting on the pavement wondering what happened!!!!! [sm=angry.gif]

Acer49 -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 5:28:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveluci "Porn is entertainment, not a how-to manual. If men want to know what really turns women on, hetero porn is the last place they should look".............. http://www.alternet.org/sex/144228/%22you_like_that_baby%2C_you_like_that%22%3A_has_porn_made_men_bad_at_sex What say you? luci Each to there own, but for me, porn is totally boring and does abolutely nothing for me

slaveluci -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 5:28:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level I don't know that porn has made men "bad" at sex; I think an awful lot of guys are bad at it, no matter what (and a number of women, too). The worst effect porn probably has is creating unreasonable expectations for people. I think that's absolutely right, Level. Thanks for your input (and everyone else too[:)]) luci

slaveluci -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 5:29:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly I think porn gives a man the impression he has to "preform" in bed. I don't want a performance...i want HIM. Absolutely agreed, Holly. I think it gives women that same impression. Not a good thing either way...........luci

slaveluci -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 5:31:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: popeye1250 Many years ago a woman asked me to talk "really nasty" to her while we were doing it. I said "OK, you stupid bitch, you dumb cunt!" She said; "NO!!! Not like THAT!!!" [sm=rofl.gif] Not THAT kind of "really nasty," huh? You should write a book, popeye. You keep us rollin' in the aisles! luci

LookieNoNookie -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 5:42:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level I don't know that porn has made men "bad" at sex; I think an awful lot of guys are bad at it, no matter what (and a number of women, too). The worst effect porn probably has is creating unreasonable expectations for people. Semi-related topic: I heard on the radio the other day, that women test almost identical to men, in terms of how quickly they become aroused, watching porn. Interesting... I discovered my (ex) wife was really bad at sex. Happened right after I said "I do".

AquaticSub -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 6:21:32 PM)
~Fast Reply~ I dunno. Maybe we still need to teach women that it's ok to (politely) tell a guy "Hey that doesn't press my buttons but would you do/say this instead?". Maybe women aren't watching enough porn to make suggestions? Who knows... Personally... I like the "Yeah baby you like that?" while he smacks my ass. Granted he's gotta say it in that way... that kinda mocking way that just makes me moan...

sunshinemiss -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 6:25:46 PM)
I think there are a number of fellows on this site who ought to prove that they are not bad at sex. I will gladly be a judge in this here provation. Line starts here. I know, the sacrifice. sunshine the martyr.

AquaticSub -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 6:29:39 PM)
Truly, you shall be remembered.

EbonyWood -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 6:29:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss I think there are a number of fellows on this site who ought to prove that they are not bad at sex. I will gladly be a judge in this here provation. Line starts here. I know, the sacrifice. sunshine the martyr. To be a judge you must see the whole performance. So I'm assuming mirrors, cameras, maybe some action replays. Correct?

AquaticSub -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 6:30:42 PM)
Slow-mo and zoom shots too....

EbonyWood -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 6:33:57 PM)
At my age, it's ALL slow-mo

AquaticSub -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 6:36:58 PM)
Awww...

sunshinemiss -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 7:25:31 PM)
I'm down with all that Ebony Wood. You first? Start things off with a bang, so to speak?

EbonyWood -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 7:30:45 PM)
Fine. Except the others will get jealous yanno.. Something about big shoes to fill.

AquaticSub -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 7:31:33 PM)
checks the shoe size before scampering off to get something to eat to fortify herself

sunshinemiss -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 7:43:04 PM)
Ebony, everybody needs a goal. [:D] I'm ok with you giving others that goal... and them stepping up and meeting it. Aquatic, come here little girl. ************************ On a serious(er) note, I don't know if men are less good at sex, but I know they sure have much higher expectations. I can't tell you how many men have wanted fully shaved hoo hah. Why do I need to be bald as a baby? Oh that's right. I DON"T. And soon - mark my words - lots of women will be bleaching their assholes because that will be men's newest expectation. And I'm not doing it. Nor am I losing my teeth to give a better cock sucking session. I think porn, movies, media in general have taken away the joy of the build up. We expect instant clicking, instant desire, simultaneous orgasms, love at first sight. And we are less tolerant now of people and their quirks. If it's not perfect, it's not good enough. There are a lot of lonely people because of this. Best, sunshine

AnimusRex -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/29/2009 8:38:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level I don't know that porn has made men "bad" at sex; I think an awful lot of guys are bad at it, no matter what (and a number of women, too). The worst effect porn probably has is creating unreasonable expectations for people. Thats very true; years ago, in my wild and woolly days,I was involved in the swing/amatuer porn scene here in LA. I went to a party once where a girl was to do a bunch of guys, and it turned out they all got stage fright. It was also the day I discovered what a wild turnon it is for me to have an audience. Who knew? In truth, professional porn stars really do earn their living because as exciting as it was, it was still a bit of awkward posing, and a cold camera brushing against your nether regions is disconcerting.

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