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Moonhead -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/30/2009 3:35:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hierodule

what about if you use your left hand?

If you lie on your arm first, it goes numb after a while and then it feels like somebody else wanking you...[/Billy Connolly]




switch2please -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/30/2009 5:13:34 PM)

What about from the other end - women and the outrageous fake orgasm. Some women are more demonstrative, sure, but do others feel the need to prove what they're feeling with screams and convulsions to keep up? What do you do if she's obviously faking?

(Not that anyone on this site has ever experienced a fake orgasm. We're all gods in the bedroom. This inquiry is purely hypothetical, of course [;)])




LookieNoNookie -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/30/2009 7:37:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I think there are a number of fellows on this site who ought to prove that they are not bad at sex.  I will gladly be a judge in this here provation.  Line starts here.

I know, the sacrifice. 

sunshine the martyr.


(YOU are a giver!)




Hierodule -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (11/30/2009 7:47:59 PM)

My ex-husand believed that every female orgasm in porn was real. But then he thought I was faking because I didn't make the same faces they did in the movies [8|]

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ORIGINAL: switch2please

What about from the other end - women and the outrageous fake orgasm. Some women are more demonstrative, sure, but do others feel the need to prove what they're feeling with screams and convulsions to keep up? What do you do if she's obviously faking?

(Not that anyone on this site has ever experienced a fake orgasm. We're all gods in the bedroom. This inquiry is purely hypothetical, of course [;)])





sexyred1 -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (12/1/2009 11:52:44 AM)

I always found porn to be boring; and especially BDSM porn. The hottest images I use to get turned on are my own memories of me and a partner and in books.

Nothing is hotter than your own experiences though.

And I agree, porn has contributed to the lack of mystery and discovery that is so essential in sex.




mnottertail -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (12/1/2009 11:57:33 AM)

An interesting study that came out of Kinsey revealed that men had fantasies that were way out of their experiences and womens fantasies were very much inside their experience, for the most part.

Ron




sexyred1 -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (12/1/2009 12:17:37 PM)

Not sure I totally agree with the Kinsey thing..I have fantasies that are beyond my experiences and even experiences I would never want to actually happen, but the difference is, my imagination is so powerful that I can actually FEEL as if they are happening...with the right guy of course.

The mind is a powerful organ....




kinkbound -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (12/3/2009 8:24:41 AM)

I don't know if porn has contributed to making men poor lovers, but I do know that the standard facial money-shots bore me to freaking tears.

Creampies? Well now, that's a different story!




Cuffkinks -> RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Porn Made Men Bad at Sex? (12/3/2009 8:59:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

"Porn is entertainment, not a how-to manual. If men want to know what really turns women on, hetero porn is the last place they should look"..............

http://www.alternet.org/sex/144228/%22you_like_that_baby%2C_you_like_that%22%3A_has_porn_made_men_bad_at_sex

What say you?

luci



Back in my "Pretty-boy rock and roll" days, I got to know some adult actresses. Some better than others. From what I saw and experienced, having sex with a porn star off the set is very different from on the set. On the set, they're working. The experience did provide some very heated moments, but there was no major difference between an adult actress and any other woman. Hence the term..."Adult actress."
I've never been into porn. Give me a hot book and let my mind work...Now we're talking. I have in the past watched porn with a vanilla partner as a form of foreplay, but it's not something I'd do on a regular basis. And even then, it was some girl on girl stuff or some light bondage porn.




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