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subtee -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (12/18/2009 1:16:26 PM)
OMG...can you see me??!! (except for the panties [;)])

mnottertail -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (12/18/2009 1:49:39 PM)
I see you left them at my house!!!!! Tina Fey

subtee -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (12/18/2009 2:59:06 PM)
Lawzy, I don't know nothing 'bout no panties! ~Prissytee

NihilusZero -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (12/18/2009 3:47:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists quote: ORIGINAL: AnimusRex Its like the thread about being polite versus being rude; Yep, and in my world, he gets to decide what is polite and what is rude... what warrents an apology and what warrents a 'suck it up'. However, as my boss is fond of saying "That's your world, Kyra and then there is everyone else's world". [:D] Knight's Kyra 10 Points on both counts.

NihilusZero -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (12/18/2009 3:51:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail I'm sorry this fucking thread is still going. Maybe if you didn't advertise that there's fucking going on in this thread. Tends to attract people, ya know.

daddysliloneds -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (12/19/2009 8:18:18 AM)
sure, they can say whatever they want without a second thought as to how it effects anyone else; let's see how far that gets them in life.

osf -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (12/19/2009 9:46:04 AM)
i want to draw your attention to one other aspect, he's only a dom while she is infatuated with him, when no longer infatuated he is relegated to the asshole category

SirRussellP -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (12/23/2009 12:55:27 PM)
I am old school so manners are important to me. When I am wrong pretending to be right makes no sense and to fail to own up to it is only lying to myself. My lifestyle is built on 3 words Honor, Respect and Pride. I have it for her, she has it for me and we both have it for us.

osf -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (12/23/2009 12:59:39 PM)
is giving her your credit card apology enough?

roseineed -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (1/8/2010 10:52:03 PM)
I clicked to download dreamerdreamings link to "Slave Lover", but IE refused, saying it isnt a safe site ?? Another avenue would be appreciated.... [:)] ty

JonnieBoy -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (1/9/2010 12:53:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 only skinheads have the no apology rule Where the fuck did you get that from ? Pirate

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (1/9/2010 1:21:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JonnieBoy quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 only skinheads have the no apology rule Where the fuck did you get that from ? Pirate Indeed, I have met many a person who doesn't appologise, some dress it up 'if I didn't mean to do it I wouldn't have done it so I dont appologise' or 'saying sorry means nothing, if a submissive does something wrong then they have to make it up to me...if I do something wrong I might make her a cup of tea or something (no joke that was my ex) I also think it funny how on sites like these most claim that they are able to say sorry, it does make me wonder where the people I meet live, which rock it is under. I think anyone regardless of oriantation should be able to admit when they have fucked up and take responsibility for the repercussions of said fuck up.

JonnieBoy -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (1/9/2010 3:36:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally I think anyone regardless of oriantation should be able to admit when they have fucked up and take responsibility for the repercussions of said fuck up. In life, everyone fucks up sooner or later (even me ! [;)]) , apologising is not un-Domly, nor is the learning that goes with the process. Coming up with some bollox easy escape clause, whether Domliness related or not ... is quite simply cowadice, apologising is not always easy, nor does it come with a guarantee of rectifying anything, but the true weakness is to NOT apologise when it is called for. Pirate

sirsholly -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (1/9/2010 3:53:25 AM)
quote: Are Dominant men allowed to say whatever they wish, knowing it hurts their sub's feelings deeply? Does she not deserve an apology because she is a submissive? FR.................. Sometimes there is a difference in the two. I have said things that have hurt the feelings of others intentionally...meaning called them out on their behavior or something else that was negative, and offer no apologies. I think we have all done this. But if a Dom says something that is crass, rude, hurtful for no reason other than to inflict distress, etc, certainly an apology needs to be made. Calling himself a Dom/Master does not negate his responsibilities from treating others with respect...and absolutely this includes a submissive. If she is not treated with respect from her Dom, she needs to bolt.

ShaharThorne -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (1/9/2010 3:56:51 AM)
Without reading the thread, I have to agree with Littlewonder on this. If I intently hurt someone, physically, emotionally or mentally, I will apologize for my fault. If it was during playtime and part of the act, I would not apologize. It has happened to me when I am submissive and I felt that I was owned an apology for having my hard limit pushed beyond my control. I was not given any and it lead to a PTSD attack (reasoning for the hard limit). I know my faults and my limitations and would like to have them respected, just like I will respect any potential partners' limitations and faults.

IronBear -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (1/9/2010 6:38:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysprincess3 Is it "Dom-like" for a Dom to admit when they have said something out of line and apologize? I would think that it would make them more of a man to admit their faults and apologize when it is appropriate. Am I wrong? Are Dominant men allowed to say whatever they wish, knowing it hurts their sub's feelings deeply? Does she not deserve an apology because she is a submissive? One of the things which make a male as a Man is his willingness to stand and be counter, appologise and make what ever amends or restitution he deems reasonable. Sadly so many pseudo men have a finely hones talent of shifting the blame onto others and joining in the "Witch Hunt" Just my view but it is one of those areas by which I judge a man to be a Man or am judged as a Man too.

Knighthunter862 -> RE: Doms and apologizing... (1/9/2010 7:14:27 AM)
AnimusRex is right on the money.Every one is looking for what they need in the other person .I dont think a Daddys girl would be seeking a sadist unless one of them is lying.Id suggest you seek out a Daddys Dom and you will most likely come closer to getting your needs met.Als tho all human beings are assholes even if its rare lol.

sirsholly -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (1/9/2010 7:17:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf is giving her your credit card apology enough? it's a start. Now...to make up for all the silly threads you have started...please post your card number, expiration date, and that silly 3 digit number on the back of the card (EBay requires it)

Level -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (1/9/2010 7:25:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: osf is giving her your credit card apology enough? it's a start. Now...to make up for all the silly threads you have started...please post your card number, expiration date, and that silly 3 digit number on the back of the card (EBay requires it) Are you financially domming osf?

sirsholly -> RE: Doms and apolgizing... (1/9/2010 7:26:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: osf is giving her your credit card apology enough? it's a start. Now...to make up for all the silly threads you have started...please post your card number, expiration date, and that silly 3 digit number on the back of the card (EBay requires it) Are you financially domming osf? snickers...yeah...ain't it great?

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