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RE: Racial Preferences - Why some people are NOT open a... - 12/5/2009 10:45:40 AM

lronitulstahp

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What you talkin 'bout Ronnis?

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RE: Racial Preferences - Why some people are NOT open a... - 12/5/2009 12:05:24 PM

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My goodness Aynne - I actually say that about me. Welcome to my bedroom, or as I like to call it, The United Nations. I am the Ambassador of lust...

Well don't we just have a happy little clique?!

Yum. A happy sexy clique full of sunshine and tulips, I'm loving that visual.

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RE: Racial Preferences - Why some people are NOT open a... - 12/5/2009 9:13:42 PM

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Personally i find the political correctnes move bloody iritating. Saying you are looking for a black is ok, but a white labels you as a racist unless you happen to be black yourself. I find a black skin atractive but so i do a white. However one of those things which i put high on my hotlist is a long hair. A picture like Aynne i do find extremely atractive. But that hair idea also rule out any true african woman. I have been all over the world and can truly say that it is not among the whites i have meet most racisme. 20 years living in South Africa should make people take note of that statement, as i have meet a lot of real nasty white racist there. Sadly enough i have meet even worse in other race groups.

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RE: Racial Preferences - Why some people are NOT open a... - 12/5/2009 10:18:42 PM

Acer49

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I have noticed that alot of folks are coy about mentioning their "racial preferences" in their profiles etc. However, they very much have these racial preferences and will filter you out later after ascertaining you do not belong to their "race". The catch is they do this indirectly without ever mentioning race as the reason you were filtered out of their considerations, but it is pretty obvious in any event.

While it is entirely appropriate to have racial preferences, would it not be better to state them up front saying for example .."I am white, and only desire other whites"... rather than being ambiguous about it up front and using indirect reasons to eliminate people?

Your thoughts please.

It is easier to deal with it on a case by case basis, rather than post it and possibly set themselves up for a flood of unneccessay hate mail. Just because someone choses to be with or exlude a particular race, does not mean they have anything againt people of that race, it simply a personal preference. Something they are under no obligation to justify or explain.

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