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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

If it were me, I would cease serving. Kids should be NOT involved in kink. Let them make up their own minds but adult kink lifestyle should NOT be around kids PERIOD
Kevin

So if you would not become involved with or move in with someone who had children? Cleaning the house when done in the ordinary "vanilla" way (as in wearing normal clothes) really isn't all that kinky.

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

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ORIGINAL: CarrieO

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

I have a question for other submissives and slaves.  A number of female Dommes have children at home and they want a service sub or slave to take care of their place.  How do you feel about doing housework, etc. in front of their children? 

Switch here...The bolded part above I find to be more than ludicrous.  Since when did housework become X-rated?  If you've been asked to serve by cleaning a Dommes's house, why does it follow that this would become kinky?  I would think if both you and the woman involved were mature adults, the act of submission in the form of simple housework could be achieved without the means of kink while also maintaining the needed power structure.

I am curious how other feel about it.  To me, being a submissive is a private affair and I do like flirting with some public play, I don't like the idea of serving in front of children.  Thanks.

If by house cleaning you mean flouncing about in the nude or dressed in a frilly maid's costume while Ma'am follows you around, crop in hand, ready to punish for any mistake, then yes...totally inappropriate.
 
While I was on vacation this past summer, I visited with a friend and spent many days with he and his Domme/GF and her 2 children.  During that time, my friend remained clothed around the kids and in public, he cooked, cleaned up after meals, helped do some computer work for her, mounted some shelves in the kids room and did all this while maintaining the power dynamic they had.  It was beautiful to see and a pleasure to talk with this woman while my friend waited on us...in what would appear to be a very vanilla manner. 
 
I guess it comes down to the dynamic the two of you have, how service is defined, whether or not you have the ability to trust her judgement in regards to this matter and if you approach this in a mature manner.
 
 

This is fine if you find it ludicrous.  I find it ludicrous that many like YOU cannot read a simple post.  I was asking other submissives how they felt about doing housework around children.  It is a VERY simple question and YET I get dommes and people like you telling me HOW I SHOULD feel about it.  I feel the way I feel about it and I don't want to change my feelings about it, either..  About the only post worth considering is the one written by lobodomslavery.  I just wanted some input from other submissives.  Take your judgement and shove it, CarrieO.

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

This is fine if you find it ludicrous.  I find it ludicrous that many like YOU cannot read a simple post.  I was asking other submissives how they felt about doing housework around children.  It is a VERY simple question and YET I get dommes and people like you telling me HOW I SHOULD feel about it.  I feel the way I feel about it and I don't want to change my feelings about it, either..  About the only post worth considering is the one written by lobodomslavery.  I just wanted some input from other submissives.  Take your judgement and shove it, CarrieO.

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

This is fine if you find it ludicrous.  I find it ludicrous that many like YOU cannot read a simple post.  I was asking other submissives how they felt about doing housework around children.  It is a VERY simple question and YET I get dommes and people like you telling me HOW I SHOULD feel about it.  I feel the way I feel about it and I don't want to change my feelings about it, either..  About the only post worth considering is the one written by lobodomslavery.  I just wanted some input from other submissives.  Take your judgement and shove it, CarrieO.

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ORIGINAL: ordinary

It's really not hard to see where lobo is coming from, if he can't separate himself from his desires long enough to realize that life is real, and dishes don't wash themselves.

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I was asking other submissives how they felt about doing housework around children.

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...How do you feel about doing housework, etc. in front of their children?... 

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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...How do you feel about doing housework, etc. in front of their children?... 

this slave would feel wierd...not because she fetishizes housework, but because she was raised that housework is the children's job...not something they watch other people do while they sit on their asses.

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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...How do you feel about doing housework, etc. in front of their children?... 

this slave would feel wierd...not because she fetishizes housework, but because she was raised that housework is the children's job...not something they watch other people do while they sit on their asses.

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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...How do you feel about doing housework, etc. in front of their children?... 

this slave would feel wierd...not because she fetishizes housework, but because she was raised that housework is the children's job...not something they watch other people do while they sit on their asses.

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

About the only post worth considering is the one written by lobodomslavery. 

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

I have a question for other submissives and slaves.  A number of female Dommes have children at home and they want a service sub or slave to take care of their place.  How do you feel about doing housework, etc. in front of their children? 

I am curious how other feel about it.  To me, being a submissive is a private affair and I do like flirting with some public play, I don't like the idea of serving in front of children.  Thanks.