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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/6/2009 4:19:28 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Strange. I"ve always my entire adult life have had men come over to my home to fix things, do chores, mow my lawn...all for free..because they're my friends and we do things for each other. My daughter has never once questioned it because well..they're friends and we all get together and do things together and we're....friends.

So apparently men and women don't do things for each other these days? I must be really outta touch.

Just one more thing that has scarred my child for life I guess lol.

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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/6/2009 4:22:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Ignore my last message. It s ok to involve kids in kink. Admin said so. It s also ok to ask about domestic arrangements of others in this forum. It s not ok to ask about domestic arrangement of others in real life but in this forum its open season
Kevin



Wow, challenging and misinterpreting Admin and Mods. Way to go, buckeroo. Nice knowing ya (not).

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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/6/2009 4:28:29 PM   
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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/6/2009 7:38:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Well divorce is even messier and i know it happens. But particularly if a person is divorced isnt there enough upheaval already without subjecting the kids to another partner.
So in your opinion a divorced mom must never have another partner?

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  As for interests by all means.  But why should it involve a strange man who is not related to the kids

Ahhh...she can have another partner, but he must be a relative...

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and who does work for no payment or worse still pays Mammy to be around Her. Kid s would find that  strange particularly if Mammy does not work and takes payments off men for work done in house.

Do you think every business transaction happens in front of the kids? The children should not be aware of any financial arrangement between the Domme and sub. Children also have no business knowing the arrangement between a vanilla parent who hires a housekeeper.

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Interests could include with young kids, going on holidays, trips to the zoo, golf, pitch and putt, going to the beach. And by all means go for evening classes go to university etc. Don t put your life on hold no way.

Sure...don't put your life on hold.... do all the things Kevin suggests, but without companionship, because you do not introduce a stranger into the family, even if Mom desires a relationship.

Kevin, let me tell you something...Dommes do have solid, lasting relationships with their subs. A submissive will be a stranger to the children at first, as would a vanilla man be to the children of a vanilla woman he is dating.

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But do it in a manner that most kids think is right socially.

Young children really do not have a handle on the social behavior of adults...nor do they dictate it.

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If word got round that Mammy was a money merchant and did no work but lived off male payments, what is kid to think, what is Mammy teaching kid, you can get very wealthy in life by doing nothing, just acquire a number of male friends and they will pay for your livelihood in exchange for work duties that male has to do

Why are you assuming a Domme will have a revolving front door with a harem of male submissives passing through?  I get the impression you feel a Domme is not capable of a manogamous relationship with a submissive. Also, you seem to think the kids will be informed of every move mom makes and will then share it with everyone they know ("OK kids.....meet Mommy's submissive of the week, here to wash the windows and clean the litter boxes, just for the thrill of serving me. Now...you young'uns run along and tell all the neighbors!!")



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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/6/2009 9:35:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
Just wait till the kids grow up or are old enough to understand meaning maybe 14 and above. Kids around that age are probably into at least meeting up with girls/boys etc and they will get to know what its about. Kids below that age no, im sorry but kids do know when something is strange and how do you for example explain to five or six year old that their Mammy gets  jobs done for free. Kids talk too and what do you say to a kid who for example finds out that his Mammy gets things done for free and his friends Mammy gets things done but pays for it. Its just too messy. 


Is this a joke?  There are so many flaws in your logic that i don't know where to start.

Firstly, kids generally don't understand adult financial transactions. Moreover, how would they know who is getting paid and who isn't?  Do they check their parents' checkbook?

The problems are more likely to be noticed as the kids get older, NOT while they are young, as you stated.  Teenagers are pretty perceptive.  Young children are not (at least about things like this).

You have obviously never been in this situation.  Your comments don't reflect the realities of this type of servitude.

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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 12:08:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		Id imagine older kids would be more accepting though. I could be wrong however
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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 12:37:06 AM   
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Id imagine older kids would be more accepting though. I could be wrong however

You are, on multiple fronts. Give it up, Kevin, you have NO idea what you are talking about.

As to the OP, I have to agree with those that say he is either unable to separate his kink from reality, or he is looking for an excuse to get out of actually serving his mistress the way she wishes him to. If that is the case, he won't get much in the way of validation here. If that is not the case, then he should make it a hard limit and look for a mistress that doesn't have UMs in the home. 


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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 12:53:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Id imagine older kids would be more accepting though. I could be wrong however
Kevin

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Trust me...you are wrong.


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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 12:55:44 AM   
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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 12:57:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		That why i stay out of conversations about the private lives of Women in other areas of life,its just too tricky, you never win either way, and always end up being the bad guy. im the bad guy in this too i bet
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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 12:59:37 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		Like i said earlier i m surprised that the threads around kids like why kids are being allowed but ill say no more about that
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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 1:01:34 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

That why i stay out of conversations about the private lives of Women in other areas of life,its just too tricky, you never win either way, and always end up being the bad guy. im the bad guy in this too i bet
Kevin

don't flatter yourself, Kevin. This is not about you.


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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 1:04:38 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		im wrong im sorry.im going to a munch on saturday and talk to real Women. i wont be talking about this. i will be shy. it s safer. being forward with Women just gets you a slap
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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 1:13:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

im wrong im sorry.im going to a munch on saturday and talk to real Women. i wont be talking about this. i will be shy. it s safer. being forward with Women just gets you a slap
Kevin



No it doesn't, but being an idiot like you are now, might.

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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 1:41:38 AM   
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don't flatter yourself, Kevin. This is not about you.

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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/7/2009 9:19:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

im wrong im sorry.im going to a munch on saturday and talk to real Women. i wont be talking about this. i will be shy. it s safer. being forward with Women just gets you a slap
Kevin


No it doesn't, but being an idiot like you are now, might.

the.dark.


I can pretty much guarantee you that Kevin is going to end up with multiple hand prints on his face on Saturday. 

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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/8/2009 5:35:24 AM   
liltala


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Status: offline 		I simply do not see an issue in doing domestic service in front of children as long as it is clearly non sexual. In fact at one time I served a couple I did do that. She was old enough to recognize that I was doing their domestic stuff. She told me once she thought it was nice I helped her parents because they had so much to do. He worked two jobs, she worked and went to school. The daughter had her own chores that were seperate from what they asked of me. In essence she cleaned the other end of the house than I did. There was nothing sexual going on in the relationship. However it was my way of serving them.


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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/8/2009 7:45:59 AM   
lobodomslavery


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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/8/2009 8:07:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
That why i stay out of conversations about the private lives of Women in other areas of life,its just too tricky, you never win either way, and always end up being the bad guy. im the bad guy in this too i bet


I hear ya, pal.
I can provide my experience in correct vs incorrect answers to Women's questions. Not the easy questions, but the really tricky ones, like:

Do I look fatter now than I used to?
Incorrect answers would be-
Yes, you are fatter now than you used to be;
No, you have always been this fat;

Correct answers would be:
You are thinner now than you have ever been!
You are much thinner than your sister!
I would like another piece of toast.

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RE: Being dommed before Domme's children - 12/8/2009 8:09:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		one that works pretty good is:

Hey that ass of yours is looking fat, come over here, I'm gonna chip a piece off it.

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