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DarkSteven -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/12/2009 5:17:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lilmisssubmiss

Find a young man around my age who holds the same traits as an older man in their 30's+

has been so EFFING hard.



And here I thought in their thirties was young... [:(]




sirsholly -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/12/2009 5:21:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: lilmisssubmiss

Find a young man around my age who holds the same traits as an older man in their 30's+

has been so EFFING hard.



And here I thought in their thirties was young... [:(]

Damn Stevie...got a case of whiplash from that one...did ya?[:D]




Kumasan2 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/12/2009 7:06:15 PM)

For some, myself included, the idea of a younger sub is appealing because in a long-term relationship the desire for a family may have a part in that search.  A girl in her late 20s to very early 30s allows us to have time to get to know and enjoy each other's company before starting a family.  I have few qualms about starting a family in my late 40s because it's something I want.  (My own father was 49 when I was born and 51 when my sister came along) 

Everyone has a reason for the people they choose to be with.  Age, looks, personality, kink, orientation, etc. are unique to each individual and each relationship. 




switch2please -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/12/2009 8:26:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: flogger

More exciting and challenging, wait till you get older and then ask that question again. Besides I love to rollerskate/dance at 60.. yaaahoo.


You've got one up on me then - I don't rollerskate. Balance and coordination are not my strong suits...it doesn't end well...

and I can't dance, but that's never stopped me!! *does a super-dorky happy dance with limbs flailing* [sm=banana.gif]




OCONGALIEGH -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/13/2009 3:12:51 PM)

To me age isnt that much of a factor, by late 20's the sub is mature enough to be a submissive woman. It takes maturity to establish the trust, and willful surrender of a submissive. So, for me.. its late 20's and up.




HoustonWhipster -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/13/2009 8:25:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Younger ones have smoother skin, tighter, smaller bodies, firmer tits, more naive, not as much baggage, moldable, more energetic.




Ditto on the above.




breatheasone -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/13/2009 8:41:56 PM)

~~FR~~

To the untrained eye this thread would look like D-types prefer younger, but will take an older. i understand the "Half a loaf is better than no loaf" concept, but geez...[:-]





masterdstar -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/16/2009 1:08:27 PM)

LOL Why do the stars go on shining? Why does the sea rush to shore?

Enjoy your wonder-filled day




tiemeupSir02 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/25/2009 6:26:48 PM)

personally i like older men, about 10-15 years older, just something about submitting to older that i enjoy.




osf -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/25/2009 6:51:00 PM)

substitute dominants with men




Justme696 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/26/2009 1:22:24 AM)

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i understand the "Half a loaf is better than no loaf" concept, but geez...


Propably those that want sex..and bdsm not to be a "lifestyle". Else you keep looking for what you really want I guess.




Level -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/26/2009 4:34:40 AM)

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It is hardwired in men to be drawn to the first two pics, moreso than the third. But none of those lets you see:

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Justme696 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/26/2009 10:49:07 AM)

the 2 in the first pic are in my blocklist.




TEMPERANCE -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/26/2009 11:19:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: leone1

Im just curious what the fansination with younger subissives (18-23) that older dominat (40-100) have.
Please help me understand.


I think its more to do with having a trophy sub... so he can show her around to the rest of the gang knowing that they will all be jealous of what it is he has got.  They do seem to forget that someine of this age range is usually rather emotionally immature and with that comes a whole host of problems... but their midlife crisis can only see this nubile young thing before him.... so while they are good for a bit of fun these relationships tend not to last for 101 very obvious reasons.

Plus you get the old guys who are simpy sexual preditors... they think the new young girl on the block will be easy pickings and he can fill her with bull shit before the others try to get their mitts on her.... you see it here all the time.... young newbies who are under consideration within a week of joining the site..... its quite sad really.... not least as these guys think doing it under the guise of D/s makes it ok to do.... but hey its ok as she's cute.... honestly these guys serioulsy need to get a life, a real one away from the computer screen.    




DadddySpanksYou -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/26/2009 12:07:03 PM)

Because we can.




wart -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/26/2009 3:18:59 PM)

Sums it all up for me!


The availability of young girls that want older men also plays a big factor in this. Personally, I've yet to meet a 40-something man that looks as good as someone my own age, but it's the other qualities that they possess which then turns me on. It takes a special older gentleman to entice me.




QuirkyAnne -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/28/2009 6:54:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: jennileigh8182

i'm divorcing a BONUS guy - chose video games over relationship and over his child AND had a substance abuse issue!



His name wasn't, JEREMY, by chance was it?

Anne




MasterJeff11 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/31/2009 5:19:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DadddySpanksYou

Because we can.

quote:

Because we can.


LOL




drtygrl -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (1/3/2010 1:06:53 PM)

exactly!




sexyred1 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (1/3/2010 1:11:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Level

Pictorial aids:



I notice no one replied to this. Kudos to you.




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