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RE: LafayetteLady - 12/8/2009 9:07:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissMasterwants

i always get this sort of 'politicallly correct' response when i post on here . Many people use this site who must have all shades of master/slave opinion. I just post what I think and have never believed in 'all people are equal' ideals . I find it strange that people who use a website like this can be so easily offended when I state some people are superior to others


I doubt anyone is offended by your post or your profile. Amused maybe, in a WTF kinda way, but offended, naw.


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RE: Respect - 12/8/2009 9:19:57 AM   
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And here was me thinking that age brought hard skin, apparently not.

It doesn't matter how age you are, age doesn't even come into this "debate" - Why would anyone give a flying frickin' fig what a stranger thought of them? Hell, I barely hold any stock on opinions of people who DO know me. lol

Everyone is free to say, to do and to think what they wish, you can't supress opinions, nor can you take away the right of a person to say as they choose. Some people are less sensitive than others, therefore you will treat others with as much/little kid-gloves as they would like to be touched with.

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RE: LafayetteLady - 12/8/2009 9:35:36 AM   
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Back to the topic at hand..

As one of the older broads I have come across some prejudice about my age, most notably from men who are a year or two younger.  You know the type, the men who are heat seeking missles set on nabbing a 20 something to add to the notches on their belts.  I am sure a few of those are getting the rude return mail from a perky 23 yr old who is scratching her head wondering why a 48 yr old guy is seeking her out. 
A good friend of mine was recently asked at a party by a gaggle of TNG'rs, "how does it feel to be a dinosaur?"   She was not attempting to hit on anyone, she was out smoking a cigarette.  Another friend was approached by a man 25 yrs younger who just wanted a hook-up with someone older and more experienced to "wreck" so he could stretch his sadistic skills.

When you put yourself out there you take the chance that someone is not going to like the presentation.  That is just the way it is and it is best to be prepared for it.  From my POV though, I just don't get why anyone would seek out someone young enough to be their child, or old enough to be the parent.

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RE: LafayetteLady - 12/8/2009 9:47:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kasiani
...it was a quote i found when he messaged me...the quote is pittyful and just demonstrated the hurt inflicted by some younger folks on this website. 


Again, speaking as one of those older men-

Some men deserve to be hurt. When you act like a randy goat chasing girls young enough to be your granddaughter, you deserve their mockery.
Men shouldn't snivel about being shot down by a girl. He should suck it up and learn a lesson.

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RE: RESPECT - 12/8/2009 10:15:52 AM   
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Ok, this thread is just off, period. No one is 'superior' to anyone else unless in the realm of pure fantasy, and/or possibly based on the fact that some people just suck (an irrefutable fact of life, more's the pity). What I want to know is, where's MY *&%$# snow day, because I would really like one. And a large hazelnut cappuchino, please.


Shooot!!!! And I thought submissives were superior.


i'll be temporarily inferior if i can get a snow day


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RE: LafayetteLady - 12/8/2009 10:56:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissMasterwants

i always get this sort of 'politicallly correct' response when i post on here . Many people use this site who must have all shades of master/slave opinion. I just post what I think and have never believed in 'all people are equal' ideals . I find it strange that people who use a website like this can be so easily offended when I state some people are superior to others


OP, I apologize for not addressing your post.  However, in the course of reading this thread, I stumbled across this and couldn't continue reading anymore.

MissMasterwants, since your profile has been here a slim few weeks, I have not idea of where the 'always' comes from in your history of five posts.  The best that I can formulate from this response is that you believe some people (I'm guessing Dominants) are superior to others.  I would say this is your opinion and has no basis in fact.  If you can prove otherwise by some type of data, please feel free to bring it forward so others can learn from your vast experience and knowledge.

If it is only your opinion, than that's all it is and it has no more or less weight than anyone else who is on these boards.  However, since we are discussing opinions, Mine is that you haven't any idea of what in the world you are talking about.


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RE: LafayetteLady - 12/8/2009 2:35:01 PM   
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Heh... technically LP, since you are dominant I am going to say that your views should be thought of as superior, just based on your role.
lol anything less would defy logic.  I can picture her head spinning now.

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ORIGINAL: MissMasterwants
I find it strange that people who use a website like this can be so easily offended when I state some people are superior to others

If it is only your opinion, than that's all it is and it has no more or less weight than anyone else who is on these boards.  However, since we are discussing opinions, Mine is that you haven't any idea of what in the world you are talking about.


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RE: LafayetteLady - 12/8/2009 4:23:13 PM   
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1. Regular posters get away with isolated short quotes from anonymous people's profile's or journals all the the time. But when a new poster does it we bash her to bits? Yes, in this age of the Almighty Google, it would have been wiser to paraphrase, but sheesh, she's a new poster, give her a break for not knowing all the fine points of forum ettiquite.

Bash her to bits? Hardly. I was merely pointing out that "carrying the torch" for someone who has not asked you to do so is a bit rude, as is using someone's words to justify lecturing a whole group of people for the behaviour of a few.
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I've seen this guy's profile btw. The quoted piece that started this thread hurt him because it didn't provide one essential fact: He does make it perfectly clear in his journal that he's not approaching any woman who has an upper age restriction clearly stated in her profile. He has the right to approach whomever he wants as a partner, of course, as do we all, and he's being nicer than many of the "morans" who ignore clearly stated preferences.

The guy can approach whomever he wants. That said, I'm chubby. Were I to message a bunch of hot Doms with perfect bodies, I would certainly expect that some of them would make rude remarks about my weight. Age is no different, and there are rude, inconsiderate people everywhere.
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PS: What part of

"Part of:
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do you not understand? ;)

I understand it perfectly, thanks for asking. My point was that collarchat and collarme do not have the same membership. Not everyone with a profile utilizes the message boards (relatively few, in fact), and not everyone on the boards has an active profile. Coming to this side and complaining about people's behaviour on that side, while it happens often, usually misses the "target audience" because the offenders are not here. The OP stated that hurt was inflicted by "some younger people on this website", so I merely pointed out that collarchat and collarme are not the same, sheesh.

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(it's just in a big black box in the upper left corner of every message board screen except the "Reply to Message" window.)

I believe that visible little black box was put there precisely to let people know that, despite the differing URL, the forums are actually a part of Collarme. I also think the fact that "Mesage Boards" is the second entry on the personal ads page's main menu is suggesting something similar.

Sometimes software complications and business rules dictates the formality of establishing a new URL to house a part of a large website. Most websites I have been to that also use VB software for their forums use a different URL to house that messaging software--perhaps it makes it a lot easier to set up the forums if you do. Perhaps there aer (oopsie! I misspelled "are." I must be a moran, as opposed to someone who's not particularly anal retentive about writing?) sound buisness and legal reasons behind it as well. (If collarchat.com gets sued because of something one of the members irresponsibly posted, then possibly the entire personal-ad site doesn't also go down.) But to me, that annoucement in the upper-left "black box" is pretty definitive on the idea idea of "separate websites."

Was there a point to all that? I never said the sites aren't owned by the same person/ people, or that they are unrelated.


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RE: LafayetteLady - 12/8/2009 5:32:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex


quote:

ORIGINAL: kasiani
...it was a quote i found when he messaged me...the quote is pittyful and just demonstrated the hurt inflicted by some younger folks on this website. 


Again, speaking as one of those older men-

Some men deserve to be hurt. When you act like a randy goat chasing girls young enough to be your granddaughter, you deserve their mockery.
Men shouldn't snivel about being shot down by a girl. He should suck it up and learn a lesson.


Pardon my confusion but isn't it us sluts who are supposed to suck it up?  Just sayin'......

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RE: Respect - 12/8/2009 6:17:03 PM   
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I do not understand your words DesFip.

I have friends and contacts with a very wide age range, can you explain your words to me?

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RE: Respect - 12/9/2009 1:33:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Miyani

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You get insulted for being too old? We get insulted for being too young. Everyone gets insulted for being fat, ugly, "unslavelike," unintelligent... the list goes on, and it's more often than not actually untrue. No one likes being insulted. But it happens.

I will thank you not to group all "young people" together, and by doing so insult most of us. We're not all like that, and not everyone who is tossing insults is young.



Yup. There are plenty of threads talking about how young men can't be masters (oddly I haven't found threads complaining 18 or 19 year old women in the lifestyle... ). Everybody gets insulted by somebody. OP, you don't have to like it but just shrug and move on.

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