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strapchair -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 4:03:33 PM)
What is wrong with you.I know you can't get your head around what i am asking for but the truth is i am willing to to be owned by a sadist so that they can do wih me what they want on the proviso that they keep me strapped to a chair for the rest of the time.It is up to my captors what they do to me & when they release me for what ever reason beit for health,duration of situation,abuse etc.You seem to me to have developd a deep hatred for what my kink is without regarding the fact that i have devoted a lot of time to this & just because i hav'nt got the patience or will to explain everything to you you seem to just regard it as matter of fact.I KNOW YOU DON'T AGREE WITH THIS BUT PLEASE STOP TRYING TO BE THE ABITOR OF ALL THAT IS RIGHT JUST COZ YOU DO'NT UNDERSTAD IT.i feel sory for any man that ends up with you coz dom or otherwise you certainely are the most annoying know all that ever existed.Do me a favour....Stop trying to be the bdsm police,i don't think you'd know how to do a propper scene if you had a manual.Each to his own.I would never ever presume that what ever you got up to in your scene was either right or wrong,thats up to you to decide & i would never ever try to project my experiences,needs or aspirations on anyone else regardless of what they may in to be cozbe it what it may, thats up to them.I have heard your comments & they are greatfully recieved but don't try to force your tame tickly wickly crap on me it's not what i'm about.I want THE REAL THING.The thing that evey one aspires to but darnet speak it's name & i get the opinion that i am the only person you have probably spoken to that REALY wants the ultimate....Sorry thats not you coz thats a realy nice dress your wearing.Ahh well your probably just another cyber bloke in is 60s gettin off on this anyway.

persephonee -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 4:06:54 PM)
how did i miss this one?[8\|]

mnottertail -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 4:07:19 PM)
well, I am terribly sadistic, so what is gonna happen if I take you up on it, is I am going to make you stand and lean with your forehead against the wall in a corner for 24/7/365.

persephonee -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 4:12:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub12 quote: ORIGINAL: strapchair I won't tell if they don't. I seem to recall an incidence where a mentally ill woman stayed in her boyfriends bathroom sitting on the toilet until the toilet grew into her butt. The boyfriend finally called EMS, and he ended up going to jail for abuse of a mentally incompetent. Wheither they tell or not, they are responsible for what happens to you - because you sound a bit cracked. Personal opinion from someone who HAD to spend 13 hours in a very small, very cramped seat, restricted movement, and paid over $1000 for the privilige (flew to New Zealand). Definitely not an erotic experience for this kiwi! FWIW, that toilet thing happened to me just the other day....i tried to blame it on Master, but it ended up being my bad cooking....grrr.

AquaticSub -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 4:14:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strapchair What is wrong with you.I know you can't get your head around what i am asking for I fully understand what you are asking. What you fail to understand is that I can understand and still think you are full of it and don't fully realize what you are asking for. quote: but the truth is i am willing to to be owned by a sadist so that they can do wih me what they want on the proviso that they keep me strapped to a chair for the rest of the time.It is up to my captors what they do to me & when they release me for what ever reason beit for health,duration of situation,abuse etc. Your phrasing above doesn't support this. quote: You seem to me to have developd a deep hatred for what my kink is without regarding the fact that i have devoted a lot of time to this & just because i hav'nt got the patience or will to explain everything to you you seem to just regard it as matter of fact. Oh please. I don't have any hatred of your kink. You are responding overemotionally. I happen to think the kink of restraint over a long period is hot and something Valyrean and I are looking into it - not that you've bothered to ask. [;)] However, we realize the dangers and what a pain the ASS it will be for him if he has to watch me all the time and provide my food. So I'm going to portion my meals ahead of time and I won't be restrained 24/7, simply under orders not to leave a large closet though I can in case of emergancy. I have asked you to provide the information on how you keep yourself safe and you have refused to do so. quote: I KNOW YOU DON'T AGREE WITH THIS BUT PLEASE STOP TRYING TO BE THE ABITOR OF ALL THAT IS RIGHT JUST COZ YOU DO'NT UNDERSTAD IT Stop thinking that people are out to get you when they disagree with you. quote: .i feel sory for any man that ends up with you coz dom or otherwise you certainely are the most annoying know all that ever existed. I'll let Valyraen know you feel sorry for him. We just finished the long drive back from visiting his family and he could use the laugh. [:D] quote: Do me a favour....Stop trying to be the bdsm police,i don't think you'd know how to do a propper scene if you had a manual. My my my - I must have really struck a nerve. Actually, I scene often and have received a great deal of positive feedback in my ability to teach new dominants and tops. You are free to not believe me and if you are ever in the area, let me know. I'll arrange to do a scene at local dungeon and you can decide for yourself. [:)] quote: Each to his own.I would never ever presume that what ever you got up to in your scene was either right or wrong,thats up to you to decide & i would never ever try to project my experiences,needs or aspirations on anyone else regardless of what they may in to be cozbe it what it may, thats up to them. I don't believe I ever said "Your kink is wrong". More that I have said "This is all about you and I don't think you are thinking about the top/dominant at all." quote: I have heard your comments & they are greatfully recieved but don't try to force your tame tickly wickly crap on me it's not what i'm about.I want THE REAL THING. Tame? I take dragon-tails to the bottom of my foot. I wouldn't say I'm more extreme than anyone else but I'm definately not tame and your attempts to insult me don't make a better case for yourself. quote: The thing that evey one aspires to but darnet speak it's name & i get the opinion that i am the only person you have probably spoken to that REALY wants the ultimate.... The ultimate? So now you are setting yourself and your way up as the twue way? Well that just confirms everything we've been thinking and saying. quote: Sorry thats not you coz thats a realy nice dress your wearing.Ahh well your probably just another cyber bloke in is 60s gettin off on this anyway. Oh. Oh no. Some guy who wants to be tied up on the internet thinks my dress sucks. I'm going to go hang myself now. And worse, he thinks I'm fake. I guess I'll have to tell my play partners and all the groups I attend that I can't go anymore cause I've evidently aged quite a bit and gotten a sex change. Lemme know if you're ever in my neck of the woods. I'll meet you at a munch or play party. You'll probably still hate my fashion but at least you won't be able to deny that I've got tits and twat. [;)]

AquaticSub -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 4:15:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: persephonee how did i miss this one?[8\|] You were lucky?

soccerslut -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 4:31:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strapchair What is wrong with you.I know you can't get your head around what i am asking for but the truth is i am willing to to be owned by a sadist so that they can do wih me what they want on the proviso that they keep me strapped to a chair for the rest of the time.It is up to my captors what they do to me & when they release me for what ever reason beit for health,duration of situation,abuse etc.You seem to me to have developd a deep hatred for what my kink is without regarding the fact that i have devoted a lot of time to this & just because i hav'nt got the patience or will to explain everything to you you seem to just regard it as matter of fact.I KNOW YOU DON'T AGREE WITH THIS BUT PLEASE STOP TRYING TO BE THE ABITOR OF ALL THAT IS RIGHT JUST COZ YOU DO'NT UNDERSTAD IT.i feel sory for any man that ends up with you coz dom or otherwise you certainely are the most annoying know all that ever existed.Do me a favour....Stop trying to be the bdsm police,i don't think you'd know how to do a propper scene if you had a manual.Each to his own.I would never ever presume that what ever you got up to in your scene was either right or wrong,thats up to you to decide & i would never ever try to project my experiences,needs or aspirations on anyone else regardless of what they may in to be cozbe it what it may, thats up to them.I have heard your comments & they are greatfully recieved but don't try to force your tame tickly wickly crap on me it's not what i'm about.I want THE REAL THING.The thing that evey one aspires to but darnet speak it's name & i get the opinion that i am the only person you have probably spoken to that REALY wants the ultimate....Sorry thats not you coz thats a realy nice dress your wearing.Ahh well your probably just another cyber bloke in is 60s gettin off on this anyway. Please for the love of God learn to spell or use spellcheck, learn proper punctuation, utilize spaces at the end of sentences or after commas, apply proper capitalization, drop the textspeak, and employ the use of paragraphs if you continue to post. Your postings are making my brain hurt. Maybe people would take you and your fantasy more seriously if they thought you were educated.

thornhappy -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/17/2009 8:27:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub You'll probably still hate my fashion but at least you won't be able to deny that I've got tits and twat. [;)] Can I borrow the "tits and a twat" line?

AquaticSub -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 12:05:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thornhappy quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub You'll probably still hate my fashion but at least you won't be able to deny that I've got tits and twat. [;)] Can I borrow the "tits and a twat" line? Go for it. After all, the OP thinks mine are borrowed. Considering I'm having issues with a nipple piercing at the moment, I kinda wish they were. [;)]

strapchair -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 1:30:25 AM)
If thats what you're into then i wouldn't meet you.I want to meet someone who likes using the strap chair as much as i like to be put into it.This isn't about just being dommed,it's an experiment in endurance,prolonged restraint & regular abuse.

strapchair -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 1:39:10 AM)
Even the sub has needs.This is not just about sub/dom relationship it's an experiment in long term restraint & abuse.My only requirement is the restraint,my captor(s) can do with me what ever they want beyond that even if that means they have to release me from the chair to do so.& it is important that i find someone who likes the restraint chair as much as i do.

AquaticSub -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 2:18:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strapchair Even the sub has needs.This is not just about sub/dom relationship it's an experiment in long term restraint & abuse.My only requirement is the restraint,my captor(s) can do with me what ever they want beyond that even if that means they have to release me from the chair to do so.& it is important that i find someone who likes the restraint chair as much as i do. Show me where I said they didn't. Show me any of my posts where I have said they don't. However the top/dominant/master/your term of choice has needs as well. And I still remain unconvinced that you are taking those into account.

strapchair -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 2:33:20 AM)
They can do whatever they want with me.I'm pretty sure that they'll make sure there own needs are met.

AquaticSub -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 2:43:59 AM)
Wow... so you pretty much haven't thought about it and don't care about it. That's pretty damn selfish I think and very you-focused. Considering how intense what you want is, it would certainly make you more appealing if you were figuring out how to make this work for the max. enjoyment of both parties. And, from a selfish point of view, it would make it more likely that you are selected for this type of scene.

strapchair -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 2:51:13 AM)
How is it selfish to allow my captors to do what they want with me.I only want one thing,the strap chair,the rest is up to them,they get to act out any type of abuse that they desire whenever they desire it,i don't see how that is selfish.

sirsholly -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 2:57:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strapchair How is it selfish to allow my captors to do what they want with me.I only want one thing,the strap chair,the rest is up to them,they get to act out any type of abuse that they desire whenever they desire it,i don't see how that is selfish. i am probably wasting my breath here...but what the hell...air is free. You will require constant supervision and monitoring. Constant. The "captor' had better like coffee, because he cannot safely sleep with you in a bondage chair. You seem to be of the opinion that the captor is going to be getting his rocks off by this. Perhaps there is someone out there who is willing, and i wish you luck in finding them, as most realize the the liability is not worth the sexual thrill.

strapchair -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 3:03:45 AM)
If there not willing to do this then they won't contact me to begin with.If my captor(s) are not comfortable with leaving me for very long periods unnatended then placing me in less restrictive restraint ie shackles & a teather chain may be a compromise.

sirsholly -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 3:07:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strapchair If there not willing to do this then they won't contact me to begin with and there you have it!!

AquaticSub -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 3:12:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strapchair How is it selfish to allow my captors to do what they want with me.I only want one thing,the strap chair,the rest is up to them,they get to act out any type of abuse that they desire whenever they desire it,i don't see how that is selfish. You don't seem to be getting it - getting to abuse you and have you tied up may not be that much of a thrill. And given how many people I've seen posting wanting extreme restraint who have trouble finding a top for it... I don't think it is. If you really want this, you are going to have to go beyond thinking about what you want. You want to be tied up, great. You know that. But what can you offer the top that makes you more enticing? Can you plan it out (ie. portioning out your food for them, providing household service when they are at work and you are untied) to make the work easier on them? Can you make the risk of possible jail time if anything goes wrong and you die worth the reward? If you can't... you might find someone as gung-ho for this as you are. But I'd say your odds are a lot slimmer. And it's selfish because the only thing you are thinking about is you and what you want. I'm admittedly selfish in my casual play - I want to get my needs. But I actively think about what will make them happy to so they continue to play with me and I continue to get my needs met. I don't see anything that shows you are thinking about them beyond "Well they should be happy they get to do whatever they want with me".

sirsholly -> RE: long term prolonged restraint (12/18/2009 3:15:02 AM)
quote: "Well they should be happy they get to do whatever they want with me". i agree with AquaSub on this. Lets face it dude...there is nothing about you that seems special enough to cause a captor to accept this amount of responsibility.

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