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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/15/2009 1:38:06 AM

allthatjaz

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ORIGINAL: amy19808

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ORIGINAL: kanina

its strange to me that the submission side vanish when you have an orgasm...

That is the most strange part of me as well, b/c I get so submissive, and even willing to eat all the precum, but right after orgasm, instantly I snap out.

Not strange at all. Submission for you is sexual.
After you cum you produce prolactin. Prolactin is the hormone that dampens down the dopamine and tells you to get on with the rest of your day without distraction.
You need a Domme thats going to force it down your throat regardless. You may not like it at the time but its going to be a real turn on when you think about it later on.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/15/2009 11:59:19 AM

Eivarden

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Its natural instinct to lose interest, otherwise males would just keep having sex till they die.

It's just how we evolved.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/15/2009 12:27:02 PM

GYPSYMAMBO

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ORIGINAL: amy19808

try to help me fulfill this fantasy, but after orgasm the whole passion just goes away, its like this submissive side of me dies down.

What are some tips/advise so that I can fulfill my desire of eating cum.

op:

If this fantasy is important to you to have as a mind file to refer to go to get the womanly feeling you seek then you will NEED TO DISCIPLINE YOURSELF and not be a MAN after you cum...
Most men loose interest and all desire..it is NORMAL for most..
IN FACT A LOT HAVE FOR WARNED ME of this so I know to never let them cum or
to hold it off...

YOu are losing interest becuz it is about sex for you and not BDSM or submission..
that is fine ..that is your PROCESS..and how it is for you...

IF your truly want to eat your cum right after then there must be
NO hesitation or thought..
get a plate..have some yogart on it or whatever..cum on the palte and get in there..
I am sure you have taken medications..etc that you did not want to
or fiND a way to eat it in one gulp...in your hand...??
Also......... FORCED is NEVER forced..

if you do NOT want to YOU WON'T

GM

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/15/2009 12:51:11 PM

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I am really beginning to believe that the OP is a troll simply looking for wank material.

Exhibit A - this same question posted just over a month ago in the Mistresses topic:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2890348/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/15/2009 12:55:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

I am really beginning to believe that the OP is a troll simply looking for wank material.

Exhibit A - this same question posted just over a month ago in the Mistresses topic:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2890348/mpage_1/tm.htm

I agree which is why I brought it to the OP's attention. I was told he wants a "different prespective".

Meh...I guess he got it.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/16/2009 2:36:10 AM

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Or his Domme could suck him off while he is laid back and then hold his head and kiss him deep and let all the cum together with lots of saliva drip into his mouth untill he naturally swallows... mmmm

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/19/2009 2:12:28 PM

amy19808

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quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

quote:

ORIGINAL: amy19808

quote:

ORIGINAL: kanina

its strange to me that the submission side vanish when you have an orgasm...

That is the most strange part of me as well, b/c I get so submissive, and even willing to eat all the precum, but right after orgasm, instantly I snap out.

Not strange at all. Submission for you is sexual.
After you cum you produce prolactin. Prolactin is the hormone that dampens down the dopamine and tells you to get on with the rest of your day without distraction.
You need a Domme thats going to force it down your throat regardless. You may not like it at the time but its going to be a real turn on when you think about it later on.

I think you are right, that I need to find a domme that will just force it down. If I can handle precum, I should be able to handle actual cum.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/19/2009 2:15:30 PM

amy19808

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

quote:

ORIGINAL: amy19808

try to help me fulfill this fantasy, but after orgasm the whole passion just goes away, its like this submissive side of me dies down.

What are some tips/advise so that I can fulfill my desire of eating cum.

op:

If this fantasy is important to you to have as a mind file to refer to go to get the womanly feeling you seek then you will NEED TO DISCIPLINE YOURSELF and not be a MAN after you cum...
Most men loose interest and all desire..it is NORMAL for most..
IN FACT A LOT HAVE FOR WARNED ME of this so I know to never let them cum or
to hold it off...

YOu are losing interest becuz it is about sex for you and not BDSM or submission..
that is fine ..that is your PROCESS..and how it is for you...

IF your truly want to eat your cum right after then there must be
NO hesitation or thought..
get a plate..have some yogart on it or whatever..cum on the palte and get in there..
I am sure you have taken medications..etc that you did not want to
or fiND a way to eat it in one gulp...in your hand...??
Also......... FORCED is NEVER forced..

if you do NOT want to YOU WON'T

GM

I agree with most of what you have said, but I actually want to be 'forced' to eat as a matter of submission. I usually tend to be a competitive person, and I want someone to force it down, so that in my mind, I can think that somebody won, and took power over me.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/19/2009 2:16:32 PM

amy19808

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ORIGINAL: ranja

Or his Domme could suck him off while he is laid back and then hold his head and kiss him deep and let all the cum together with lots of saliva drip into his mouth untill he naturally swallows... mmmm

This would be very erotic, and would love it if a domme actually did this.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/11/2010 6:28:17 AM

clum

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this happened to me in the beginning.
I told this to my Mistress , and She understood me and Her solution was effective.
She told me (before I cum):

it will be difficult for you but if you want to improve (although its difficult to you eating your own cum) you should EAT it ...

and She thinks it is totally the fastest way to bring me in subspace BACK...
and i can eat after i cum...

:)

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/11/2010 8:05:15 AM

subrob1967

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The problem us that you're not a submissive, you're a bottom who's orgasm is directly tied to your fetish.

If you really felt the need to swallow cum, but can't force yourself to perform once you orgasm, you should beg your Mistress to provide another male for you to blow while cross dressed.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/11/2010 6:11:17 PM

realtime62

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I have a friend who had the same fantasy, and the same problem with losing desire after cumming. He made cum cubes.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/11/2010 6:44:52 PM

AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: amy19808

Especially as a crossdresser, where I feel like a woman, I have a fantasy of being forced to eat cum. I have seen a professional dominiatrix, to try to help me fulfill this fantasy, but after orgasm the whole passion just goes away, its like this submissive side of me dies down.

What are some tips/advise so that I can fulfill my desire of eating cum.

Have her make you eat it anyway.

Seems pretty simple to me...

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/17/2010 4:37:11 AM

HisBestGirl

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Sorry if someone already said this, but why don't you ejaculate into a sterile container before hand, when you're actually in your submissive state of mind, then take it with you, give it to her, talk to her about forcing you to eat/ drink it when you're in a session?

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/25/2010 6:51:07 PM

sensubmaybe

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I find this part quite telling:

"The problem is that after I orgasm and see my self in panties, bra, etc, it is just to humiliating for me to bear, and its just a shock that I have to get out of it. But here lies the problem, b/c as a crossdresser, I also enjoy being feminized."

It is understandable to be really desirous of all these things before you cum. The fantasy works when before you cum, it drives you to it, but it sounds like as soon as you cum you start to experience shame about yourself for what you are doing. Time goes by, you recover and then the cycle starts again; cross dressing, fantasizing about being forced to taste your own cum all drive you to cum again. Embarrassment and perhaps humiliation works before you cum, especially when it happens and is driven by someone else. These "shameful" "taboo" desires work to drive your sexual desire, but once it's over, all that is left is negative shame, humiliation, self loathing.

Just a thought...

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 5/4/2010 2:53:47 PM

Inamanica

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Do like I did. I visited a dominant shemale. I had her tie me up as tight as she could. She then forced me to blow her until she came right down my throat. Then she made me clean her cock. She left me tied up and later she fucked me up the ass still tied up. I was like you until I was forced. That was the greatest feeling being helpless and having no choice whatsoever.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 5/4/2010 9:16:48 PM

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you can always suck a cock.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 5/4/2010 9:29:36 PM

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you can always suck a cock.

ROFL.....Tell the troll Sir....ROFL wonders how he types with one hand, troll that he is. woot

err,
dovie
38's back in holster

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 5/5/2010 10:50:49 AM

subsfaith

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I can relate to this... it isn't that my submission goes away but the slut inside of me is gone. She is appeased by the orgasm and goes off to do her nails I think.

I still do as I am told, maybe that would work for you?

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 5/5/2010 2:40:50 PM

FetishRose

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I always wonder why this is such a problem. Many many many people do it. Male, female, sub, dom, whatever...have swallowed a load. If you want to eat your own, try to aim for your mouth when you orgasm. Or shoot your load on something and lick it off.
If you lose the want after an orgasm, so what? As a submissive, it's not about what you want. Just do it!

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