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RE: Finding a way to eat - 5/5/2010 2:47:26 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

you can always suck a cock.



What he said and LOL

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 5/5/2010 9:49:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you have a forceful enough Mistress, she will make you do it.  A skilled Mistress has ways to get you to do anything whether you are aroused or not.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 7/25/2010 8:49:17 AM   
txurinal


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Status: offline 		This slave, if allowed to cum is always ordered to eat its cum. Don't forget slaves are human and once one acheives orgasm, the mood changes. As a good slave, though, i eat my cum. The slave has been told that even if home alone and it masturbates, it must consume its cum. If you eat it enough on a regular basis, you get used to it

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 7/25/2010 9:50:33 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		A skilled Mistress will make you do what she wants even after your desire has died down.  If you do not obey, she may exact dire consequences.  Either eat it, or take fifty lashes.  Eat it or you will not be released from chastity again until you do.  There are a lot of techniques at her disposal.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 7/25/2010 3:33:50 PM   
puella


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I do not think you are being honest.

What you need, is to identify what you really want.  I very much suspect you are hiding that, even from yourself.

You can have all the cum you want on any side street.

Look inward.

Jen

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 7/25/2010 4:12:36 PM   
CelticPrince


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I am sure this topic has been debated in the past, but I am looking for advise so that I can explore and fulfill my fantasy.
Especially as a crossdresser, where I feel like a woman, I have a fantasy of being forced to eat cum. I have seen a professional dominiatrix, to try to help me fulfill this fantasy, but after orgasm the whole passion just goes away, its like this submissive side of me dies down.

What are some tips/advise so that I can fulfill my desire of eating cum.


amy,

I suggest that you find a stronger "D"

CP

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 7/25/2010 6:14:24 PM   
sweetsub1957


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Status: offline 		Aaaack!!!! This thread is over 7 months old!!

OP, you should listen to puella:
quote:

ORIGINAL: puella
You can have all the cum you want on any side street.



Seriously, though, you should let the Domme know before the play starts that you really need to be downright forced to eat the cum, regardless of whether you want to or not. Guess what...submission is not about what you want, it is about what the Dominant wants and you doing it. Think of it this way.....eating your cum now will make for a fantastic fantasy that will make the next time you actually cum earth-shaking.

I guess I just don't get what the aversion is to eating cum. I'm sweet & I've never had a problem with my own. I've eaten men's cum, women's juice, and even my own juice. OP, have you ever even tasted your own to know whether you'll like it or not? It's about your being able to buckle down and SUBMIT.

~sweetsub~

~edited for spelling~

< Message edited by sweetsub1957 -- 7/25/2010 6:16:32 PM >

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 8/3/2010 6:27:37 PM   
LabRats


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Status: offline 		I can relate to this as sometimes the fantasy pops into my head, but after I cum, I just wanna clean up.  I've been 'forced' once, it was a spontaneous thing and happened before I knew it.  I haven't really desired Chili Cheese Fritos since.  Get a bag of chips and give it to your domme.

On the rare (and usually very intense) occasion I happen to ejaculate into my mouth, I swallow it with all due diligence.  Or I'll wipe it from the edges of my mouth into my hole like a good slut, but I don't go out of the way to do it, because my cum kinda burns my throat :(

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 8/9/2010 7:51:24 AM   
mwdsub4u


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Status: offline 		As a cross dressing slave or any other, if Your Mistress, tells you to do it , then you should.
I would and have done it,
if your new to it try eating sweet foods, and cut out the salt. maybe doing at home a few times first, or look at all the photos you have on a PC, what ever turns you on, and when you pop, don't think put your other hand there and pop on it and lick and eat it, do it as its happening, And not after you are done.
also for me i am into thigh boots so that is the way i did it for Her the
first few times.
hope this helps

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 11/26/2010 8:54:14 PM   
subdrake


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Status: offline 		I agree it can be difficult to swallow your own cum right after ejaculating. I wish I had better discipline to accomplish it more often. But considering that it is an excellent way for a male sub to swallow his pride in more ways than one it is a good skill to have.

Like someone suggested in another post, you may want to try cumming into a dixie cup or similar container, but instead of throwing it away just put it down and move away from it for 10-30 minutes while the post-cum reaction fizzles down. In the meantime try do something to help you to return to sub/receptive space.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 11/27/2010 7:01:57 AM   
anniezz338


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ORIGINAL: kanina

its strange to me that the submission side vanish when you have an orgasm...


Someone once told me He completely drains his subs with orgasms and then the true submissive side would come out. He kinda put it like that's how he tells if she is a real sub or kinky sex girl. I found that interesting....

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/6/2010 12:27:29 PM   
slaveplay


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Status: offline 		Ask the Domme to put you in tight inescapable bondage. After you come ask the Domme to toture you until you beg to eat your come. To do this without mercy and without a safe word. I bet you will eat it then.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/9/2010 6:25:02 PM   
SSLMasterCG


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Status: offline 		You need a Dom who is also experienced in dealing with sub drop. Once I figured out that my cum wasn't toxic waste and wouldn't die or turn homosexual by just tasting it or swallowing some, I was fine. Do as some suggest and come directly in your mouth while jacking off (easier than it sounds) or, try edging until you get a squirt or two without having the final full blown orgasm. I found out I wouldn't die by tasting my own cum by forgetting I came on my slave and started kissing her and sucking her tits that had me on them. Perhaps beg your Domme to allow you to cum on/in her so you can lick it up.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 12/31/2010 9:50:51 AM   
EbonBetta


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The hard wants what it wants.

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/1/2011 8:38:14 AM   
Themasterofo1


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Status: offline 		sorry if this has been covered i failed to read all the way through the thread

I am a straight male Dom so this isnt exactly my area of expertise

sounds to me like you need to sign a contract for this one event with your Domme. agree to be left tied up after she has made you cum into a glass or other container, and leave you secured for another hour or so. then have her arouse you again, once you are aroused you can then be fed as you should be in the mood again.

contract could state something along the lines of ignoring safewords and pleas to be released until the scene is over


just my 2 cents

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/1/2011 10:09:08 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		maybe you don't have a good connection with a professional dominatrix, like you would have with your own dom.
are you looking for a power exchange relationship, or are you more interested in kinky play? depending on which one you're after, there are all sorts of suggestions.
it's someone difficult to relate to, for me, because i'm a generally submissive person anyway, and orgasm tends to make me more so. =p lack of orgasms causes me to feel frustrated and then snarky (it's something i've been trying to get a handle on -- snarkiness is never flattering), or sometimes cloudy-headed.
if i'm planning to just play with someone, like at a party, there are all sorts of lines they can't cross. but if it's my own Dominant partner, there aren't many lines if the connection, trust, and relationship are solid and usually that's what motivates me. a lot of what i am willing to do depends on the man who wants me to do it. =p if i paid for a scene with a professional Dom, i wouldn't feel that connection -- i'd just be there to get my rocks off, basically.

so if you're more interested in play, it may be hard to maintain submissive desires, because you're desires are mostly play based. You might have to negotiate a "force" element to your sessions with a ProDom because the submission is gone, and is not enough of a motivation to complete the task.


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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/1/2011 3:27:28 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: Themasterofo1

sorry if this has been covered i failed to read all the way through the thread



Yeah, what a bummer.  This turd of a thread from over a year ago keeps getting resurrected.  I think he's probably found a way to eat cum by now.  God willing.

Cali



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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/1/2011 5:58:21 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		She could tie you up, milk you, and then force it down your throat...

Or she could tie you up, lets in the air and force you to "shoot" into your own mouth...

Or you freeze it in, bring it with you and you eat the old cum.....

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RE: Finding a way to eat - 1/2/2011 2:20:22 AM   
CherryNeko


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ORIGINAL: kanina

its strange to me that the submission side vanish when you have an orgasm...


no, it's actually happened to me!

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