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NihilusZero -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 9:16:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

The problem is things made as statements. Not as something to open as a discussion. He says he wants debate. But how do you debate that?

If we all expect that his english is not stellar, why would we hold him to being able to grammatically phrase an open topic for discussion in a way that makes it undeniably clear?

And there are better ways to deal with someone if we think them a troll. Either ignoring or, in blatant cases, deciding to offer up favorite recipes in the thread instead of whatever topic was intended.



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 9:17:59 PM)

true but do i seem to be getting excited about it

and did i ever seriously say i was here ti grab someone in a non consensual way, hells bells we're on line



NihilusZero -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 9:20:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Elisabella


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero
I suppose some people could be offended by that...but I'd be seriously curious of how many women here would even bother to be anything but flattered at being called a "pervert"! [:D]



FWIW I'm one of them. [8D]

And I'd imagine that even the people who do self-identify as a pervert could take offense to the word being used as an insult. Like the girls who enjoy their s/o calling them "slut" would still be insulted if a stranger on the street did.

Except with these words, we understand they are subjective valuations. "Pervert" means you are part of some deviant group whose actions and/or thoughts he considers outside the realm of non-perversion...and everyone's bubble of perversion is different. It's an expression of assessment, not of being.

With "slut", there is a more tangible suggestion of the sexual looseness or sexual history of someone (which is an objective thing, not subjective)...although, we still kind of fall back to subjectivity. To person A, someone's who's slept with 50 people may be a "slut" and to person B, it would only take 6 to qualify someone for that title.



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 9:22:09 PM)

my honest thought on slavery as presented on here

it doesnt exist

she is free to come she is equally free to go

all i can do is offer choices

she does what i want

she accepts punishment

or i leave

thats all the control thats posible



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 9:23:13 PM)

legally that is



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 9:34:23 PM)

in my case i come on here to appeal to a certain type of woman and believe it or not i do sometimes succeed

its those that im not reaching out to that are having a hissy fit



Lockit -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 10:00:07 PM)

So osf is cillydom. Interesting.



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 10:04:05 PM)

interesting?



Lockit -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 10:12:32 PM)

Yes, interesting. Your posting style as cillydom is far different.



EbonyWood -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 10:15:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

she accepts punishment

or i leave



Any chance you could apply this theory to the forums?



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 10:17:35 PM)

there i wasnt under constant bombardment



WyldHrt -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 10:43:08 PM)

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there i wasnt under constant bombardment

Gee, I wonder why [8|]
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in my case i come on here to appeal to a certain type of woman and believe it or not i do sometimes succeed
its those that im not reaching out to that are having a hissy fit

Newsflash- the forums are for discussion, and that includes everyone on the boards. When you post, you will be responded to by anyone who feels like it- live with it.
If your interest is in running a personal ad, that's what the other side is for.



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 10:59:29 PM)

quote:

Newsflash- the forums are for discussion, and that includes everyone on the boards. When you post, you will be responded to by anyone who feels like it- live with it.
If your interest is in running a personal ad, that's what the other side is for


you wouldn't have know my motives if you hadn't of read that, so i dont see a legitimate complaint

and appealing to someone with your words is a perfectly legitimate use



WyldHrt -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 11:13:48 PM)

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you wouldn't have know my motives if you hadn't of read that, so i dont see a legitimate complaint

Umm... what?
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and appealing to someone with your words is a perfectly legitimate use

Sure it is. The point you seem to keep missing is that your words, posted here for all to see, will be responded to by the rest of the members as well. If you wish to avoid said responses, posting on an open forum may not be your best option.



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 11:25:02 PM)

its late, im tired, you carry on all you want, ill just let it slide on by



NihilusZero -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 11:25:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Sure it is. The point you seem to keep missing is that your words, posted here for all to see, will be responded to by the rest of the members as well. If you wish to avoid said responses, posting on an open forum may not be your best option.

While the veracity of the point is clear, this is a bit like telling someone who has a facial deformity to suck up the fact that they'll get laughed at if they choose to participate in the public world outside their contained home.



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 11:31:02 PM)

not exactly there were a couple that began the baiting then others joined in and they have followed me from thread to thread

its as if they are self appointed speech police

this is an adult sexual site for alternative sexual tastes, it just seems mine dont fit their standard of acceptance for some reason



girlygurl -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 11:31:40 PM)

I'm going on very little sleep and I'm not wearing my glasses, but I've got a question..... are the posts of the OP hard to read/understand or is it just me?



Elisabella -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 11:32:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Sure it is. The point you seem to keep missing is that your words, posted here for all to see, will be responded to by the rest of the members as well. If you wish to avoid said responses, posting on an open forum may not be your best option.

While the veracity of the point is clear, this is a bit like telling someone who has a facial deformity to suck up the fact that they'll get laughed at if they choose to participate in the public world outside their contained home.



Nah because the content of his posts is his choice.

It's more like telling someone with a mohawk and a face full of piercings that there are going to be quite a few people who think they look ridiculous and will have no compunction in pointing that out.



osf -> RE: dangerous men (12/19/2009 11:32:49 PM)

you may be right , this hasnt been a good day for me



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