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Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 3:19:02 PM   
Invisigoth0o


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I got a message the other day that said that I came across as very angry and bitter in my profile, which is worded the way it is to discourage people from trying to contact me who are just looking for wank fodder, and  I wanted to get some opinions about it. Do I come off as bitchy angry or bitter in my profile? Any tips on how to fix it if I do?
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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 3:28:38 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: Invisigoth0o

If this is in the wrong section just let me know:)

I got a message the other day that said that I came across as very angry and bitter in my profile, which is worded the way it is to discourage people from trying to contact me who are just looking for wank fodder, and  I wanted to get some opinions about it. Do I come off as bitchy angry or bitter in my profile? Any tips on how to fix it if I do?



sweetheart, to some that don't like you or like what you say, everything you say will be a whine or rant

ignore and say what you will and don't let others try to speak for you

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 3:35:57 PM   
Invisigoth0o


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Status: offline 		Thank you very much, I didn't think I had come off as anything but firm and knowledgeable as to what I am looking for. I didn't think of it that way, but now that you point it out it does make more sense as to why I would receive a message like that.

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 3:41:07 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: Invisigoth0o

Thank you very much, I didn't think I had come off as anything but firm and knowledgeable as to what I am looking for. I didn't think of it that way, but now that you point it out it does make more sense as to why I would receive a message like that.


they are your words say whatever the fuck you want

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 5:13:47 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		hi there, no more or less than most I see.  You want friends, you want to talk to people interested in friendship only, nothing more or less.  I wouldn't be turned off from contacting you as a friend based on your profile. 

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 5:25:56 PM   
AnimusRex


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In Guyworld, "bitch' means "girl who shot me down"

I imagine you turned away some HNG and he got pissy about it.

Move on, you are just fine.

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 5:27:26 PM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		Animus -
rather like slut mean, 'Woman I have good reason to suspect is not a virgin, who, none the less, will not put out for me.' ?

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 5:32:41 PM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		Invisigoth -
You have a noticable and witty profile. I sometimes tell people on here not to waste their whole profile screaming bitterly at the ones who aren't reading it. You do direct a couple of comments towards the 'not reading it anyway' crowd, who of course won't benifit, but it's only a comment or two so I don't find it so terribly off putting. after your comment here, I was expecting another long tirade on 'everyone here is losers don't contact me if your a loser here's my definaiton of loser in 10,000 words or less'. Yours is not that at all. It'f fresh and origanal, and smells like real human.
GL to you.

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 5:49:34 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I found the choose paragraph to be rather bitchy. But I love the penguin shirt.

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 6:04:11 PM   
Invisigoth0o


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Status: offline 		Its a quote from one of my favorite books, I didn't write it:)

And It is actually a purse. I never go anywhere without it:)

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 6:36:34 PM   
AnimusRex


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ORIGINAL: tsatske

Animus -
rather like slut mean, 'Woman I have good reason to suspect is not a virgin, who, none the less, will not put out for me.' ?


Yep- "Slut" means, "A girl who fucks a lot of guys...except me!"

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 6:39:17 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		i'm a misogynist , i hate women

any volunteers for me to abuse

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 6:52:55 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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Status: offline 		Not at all. I like your profile but then I'm a big fan of profiles in which the person is articulate and clear. 

zeph


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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 7:01:28 PM   
SirJohnMandevill


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Invisigoth0o

If this is in the wrong section just let me know:)

I got a message the other day that said that I came across as very angry and bitter in my profile, which is worded the way it is to discourage people from trying to contact me who are just looking for wank fodder, and  I wanted to get some opinions about it. Do I come off as bitchy angry or bitter in my profile? Any tips on how to fix it if I do?



Nope, you sound like a submissive who has firm ideas about how you want to be contacted. Nothing wrong with that.

Just my .02 zlotys.

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 9:06:29 PM   
sweetsub1957


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Status: offline 		I love the use of colors in your essay section.  Very cool.  You're very clear and to-the-point.  There are parts of it that do sound a bit negative though.  Maybe concentrate mostly on saying what you are looking for and what you do want & start out on a positive note.  Then say a little bit about what you don't want.  But then, I'm not a Dom.....and They are the Ones Who'll be reading it.

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 9:10:12 PM   
AnimusRex


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

I love the use of colors in your essay section.  Very cool.  You're very clear and to-the-point.  There are parts of it that do sound a bit negative though.  Maybe concentrate mostly on saying what you are looking for and what you do want & start out on a positive note.  Then say a little bit about what you don't want.  But then, I'm not a Dom.....and the 10% who bother to read profiles are the Ones Who'll be reading it.


Fixed

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 9:10:22 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

I love the use of colors in your essay section.  Very cool.  You're very clear and to-the-point.  There are parts of it that do sound a bit negative though.  Maybe concentrate mostly on saying what you are looking for and what you do want & start out on a positive note.  Then say a little bit about what you don't want.  But then, I'm not a Dom.....and They are the Ones Who'll be reading it.



as for me i wouldn't have her change a thing i never tell a subbie what to say, i want to hear what she has to say uninfluenced by what she may think i want to hear

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i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/26/2009 9:56:06 PM   
QuirkyAnne


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Status: offline 		1.  I would change the part about "a polite 'Thank you, go away'" to saying "No, thank you," that comes off as a little less negative. 

2.  Your motto.  I don't know if it was the repetition, or the color difference but I found it hard to concentrate on and I really would eliminate swear words in general from your profile.  In general, it makes people look ignorant or flippant when, the fact that you're here asking for advice on this shows that you are not and genuinely care what people think of you.

Anne

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/27/2009 12:42:56 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		don't we want to know something about her from her profile?

if the colors bother you then you've learned not to let her decorate

< Message edited by osf -- 12/27/2009 12:44:10 PM >

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RE: Need some input about my profile... - 12/27/2009 12:45:36 PM   
antipode


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quote:

Do I come off as bitchy angry or bitter in my profile? Any tips on how to fix it if I do?


You are you - and constantly changing your profile because something says someone makes you look very insecure. As I said, you are you. Just be yourself, express yourself the way you want to, anybody worth their salt will manage to communicate with you, the rest you don't need.



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