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Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:13:38 AM

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Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship

It dawned on me that the d/s m/s relationship is an organization in that it has hierarchy, rules, obligations and expectations for and by it’s participants.

As such it is doctrinaire in nature. The purpose of this thread is to share and contribute ideas about doctrine and how it affects your relationships or relationships you hope to establish.

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:16:46 AM

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I have always been a big fan of the Monroe Doctrine. Followed closely by the Marshall Doctrine.

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:24:43 AM

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I have always been a big fan of the Monroe Doctrine. Followed closely by the Marshall Doctrine.

Jeff

But the Truman Doctrine is more fun to read and debate about.

Anne

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:26:09 AM

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Doesn't doctrine mean also you don't let outside ideas influence your ideas?
If so..then I don't have a doctrine in my Ds relations.

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:28:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: QuirkyAnne

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I have always been a big fan of the Monroe Doctrine. Followed closely by the Marshall Doctrine.

Jeff

But the Truman Doctrine is more fun to read and debate about.

Anne

Truman was an asshole!

J.RobertOppenhiemerDom

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:30:07 AM

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The anagram of doctrine is centroid.

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:31:04 AM

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I suck at anagrams.

Kudos!

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:32:43 AM

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doctrine establishes hierarchy, rules, obligations and expectations for and by it’s participants.

sounds like d/s to me

thats not io mean it can't adapt

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:33:06 AM

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Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship

It dawned on me that the d/s m/s relationship is an organization in that it has hierarchy, rules, obligations and expectations for and by it’s participants.

As such it is doctrinaire in nature. The purpose of this thread is to share and contribute ideas about doctrine and how it affects your relationships or relationships you hope to establish.

OSF, did you mean "doctinaire" or "doctrinal?"

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:34:14 AM

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Truman was an asshole!

J.RobertOppenhiemerDom

That's why I said it's more fun to 'read about and debate.'

Anne

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:37:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: osf

Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship

It dawned on me that the d/s m/s relationship is an organization in that it has hierarchy, rules, obligations and expectations for and by it’s participants.

As such it is doctrinaire in nature. The purpose of this thread is to share and contribute ideas about doctrine and how it affects your relationships or relationships you hope to establish.

OSF, did you mean "doctinaire" or "doctrinal?"

i'll concede the point

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:42:00 AM

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i'll concede the point

You're giving up on your own argument... Why?
Anne

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:46:20 AM

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i'll concede the point

You're giving up on your own argument... Why?
Anne

not my argument, my misuse of the word, my argument still stands

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:48:40 AM

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For me, it's all about the Lady Angelika Doctrine. ;-)

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:50:51 AM

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and here i thought people like to think about and understand what they do but i was wrong again apparently

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 7:50:59 AM

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Ofcourse it is...:)

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 8:22:15 AM

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and here i thought people like to think about and understand what they do but i was wrong again apparently

No, you got honest answers. What most answered you is that contrary to popular belief, most of us don't work with a script.

Of course there are groups and societies such a Other World Kingdom or Old Guard and others with their set of rules. What you'll realise however is that they represent a smaller percentage of the kink population, at least it is here.

- LA

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 8:26:47 AM

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and here i thought people like to think about and understand what they do but i was wrong again apparently

While it is true that an unexamined life is not worth living, it is eaualy true the too much navel gazing can lead to paralysis.

Since so much of wiitwd is emotional, trying to codify it seems counter productive.

Jeff

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 8:27:55 AM

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quote:

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and here i thought people like to think about and understand what they do but i was wrong again apparently

No, you got honest answers. What most answered you is that contrary to popular belief, most of us don't work with a script.

Of course there are groups and societies such a Other World Kingdom or Old Guard and others with their set of rules. What you'll realise however is that they represent a smaller percentage of the kink population, at least it is here.

- LA

doctrine isn't a script, it's a structure, in this case it defines the d/s structure

it's a simple concept, you make rules you're making doctrine, you're in charge, she isn't, thats doctrine and so on and so on

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RE: Doctrine and the d/s m/s relationship - 12/28/2009 8:28:15 AM

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what was the name of that song by the Doctrinaires?

Springtime for Hitler, or............

Ron

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