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ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.

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ORIGINAL: MrVince2010
I have noticed in the personals section. a lot of subs post very negative profiles. The complain about the Doms that are contacting them or otherwise just bitch about the quality of available men.. Further, When you do contact them they seem to reply in a rather matter of fact way. Not addressing the Dom as Sir or by his listed name. Just general disrespect.  Often these are the same so called subs that complain of the treatment they receive from Doms.   I see a lot of ladies that post in Collar that are not subs at all but rather ladies that are angry and have very negative attitudes.. No amout of discipine and correction will help them.. When you are all done You would still have to Run!!

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ORIGINAL: susie

Who wants to join the group "Action Against Whiney Complaining So Called Doms"

Or is it against the Domly rules for us subbie ladies to get together?

It might be seen as disrespectful after all.

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.

a real dom is some fucking bastard that enjoys controlling women, he may be your neighborhood serial killer or the paster of your church

and either way he understands his prey

your confusing real dom with saint dom

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ORIGINAL: MrVince2010

I have noticed in the personals section. a lot of subs post very negative profiles.The complain about the Doms that are contacting them or otherwise just bitch about the quality of available men..
(You would have a negative profile too if  every time you log on there is a message in your inbox that either ignored your profile or counts as harassment. If you want to scare away riff-raff, you make an angry profile. Also there are plenty of non-subs with negative profiles. I personally dislike the amount of angry profile pictures on cm.)

Further, When you do contact them they seem to reply in a rather matter of fact way. Not addressing the Dom as Sir or by his listed name. Just general disrespect.
((  I don't think it should matter if a sub that isn't yours and/or doesn't want to be yours calls you by a title.))

Often these are the same so called subs that complain of the treatment they receive from Doms.
((People have a right to complain about their experiences. Just because someone won't submit to you doesn't mean that person isn't submissive...))

I see a lot of ladies that post in Collar that are not subs at all but rather ladies that are angry and have very negative attitudes.
((I don't think you've talked to enough women on the site to understand the amount bull we deal with. I do understand that some women are just negative but they aren't the only ones. You act like people don't have the right to be angry.))

No amout of discipine and correction will help them..
((Being angry doesn't mean someone needs correction or lacks discipline it means they are angry. Why are you trying to police emotions?))

When you are all done You would still have to Run!!
((I'm not gonna go there...))

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.

a real dom is some fucking bastard that enjoys controlling women, he may be your neighborhood serial killer or the paster of your church

and either way he understands his prey

your confusing real dom with saint dom

You really have no clue, do you?

- LA

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Yea, lots of angry doms out there too. What's your point?

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Yea, lots of angry doms out there too. What's your point?

my point is that in many respects we're like anybody else no better and no worse, we just have this one little quirk that some women find attractive

and some subbies have every right to be angry

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ORIGINAL: osf

is there one woman out there not cought up in the romantic bs?

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ORIGINAL: MargueriteV

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ORIGINAL: osf

is there one woman out there not cought up in the romantic bs?

Last time I checked women weren't the only ones enamored with romance

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ORIGINAL: MargueriteV

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ORIGINAL: osf

is there one woman out there not cought up in the romantic bs?

Last time I checked women weren't the only ones enamored with romance

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.

a real dom is some fucking bastard that enjoys controlling women, he may be your neighborhood serial killer or the paster of your church

and either way he understands his prey

your confusing real dom with saint dom

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ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.

a real dom is some fucking bastard that enjoys controlling women, he may be your neighborhood serial killer or the paster of your church

and either way he understands his prey

your confusing real dom with saint dom

Well, i've read quite a few of your posts, and i doubt you would recognize a real Dom if he swam up and bit you in the ass.

IMO, you are just the kind of 'Dom' that all these subs are complaining about.

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ORIGINAL: subtee

~FR

There is a lot of anger in the profiles. Also in the journals. However, there are very cool people yanging to that yin too. I been reading.

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ORIGINAL: subtee

For every hostile post there are others that blow me away with optimism and good wishes.

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When you do contact them they seem to reply in a rather matter of fact way. Not addressing the Dom as Sir or by his listed name. Just general disrespect.