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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:10:03 PM   
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For every hostile post there are others that blow me away with optimism and good wishes.


i try never to direct anger


I don't either, however I seem to come off. I'm just rather a smart ass. Keeps things from being personal.

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:12:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtee


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ORIGINAL: subtee

For every hostile post there are others that blow me away with optimism and good wishes.


i try never to direct anger


I don't either, however I seem to come off. I'm just rather a smart ass. Keeps things from being personal.


ok

anyway most all my thinking is in my journal, written a few years ago but mostly up to date as far as my thinking goes

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:15:15 PM   
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Yes, I've read it.

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:15:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtee

~FR

There is a lot of anger in the profiles. Also in the journals. However, there are very cool people yanging to that yin too. I been reading.

Just the other day, I went back through my entire journal and deleted any and all of the bitchy, assy attitude entries that I made and decided to not make entries like that anymore.  Why be that way in my journal if I'm not like that in real life.....

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:16:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtee

Yes, I've read it.


well thats basically what im about

i have no secrets

< Message edited by osf -- 12/28/2009 8:17:03 PM >


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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:21:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

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ORIGINAL: subtee

~FR

There is a lot of anger in the profiles. Also in the journals. However, there are very cool people yanging to that yin too. I been reading.

Just the other day, I went back through my entire journal and deleted any and all of the bitchy, assy attitude entries that I made and decided to not make entries like that anymore.  Why be that way in my journal if I'm not like that in real life.....


I think it's easy to get frustrated and a journal is a posting of emotions. But I agree you're not like that, it seems to me.

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:27:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: osf

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It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.



a real dom is some fucking bastard that enjoys controlling women, he may be your neighborhood serial killer or the paster of your church

and either way he understands his prey

your confusing real dom with saint dom


You really have no clue, do you?

- LA


i could say that about you


But you would be wrong ;-)

- LA

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 8:37:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.



a real dom is some fucking bastard that enjoys controlling women, he may be your neighborhood serial killer or the paster of your church

and either way he understands his prey

your confusing real dom with saint dom


You really have no clue, do you?

- LA


i could say that about you


But you would be wrong ;-)

- LA


this could get circular

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:05:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

You really have no clue, do you?

- LA


i could say that about you


But you would be wrong ;-)

- LA


this could get circular


No because at one point, the rest of my life resumes.

You, on the other hand, seem like you have no other modus operandi that to start threads and argue with everyone who gives you responses.

- LA

< Message edited by LadyAngelika -- 12/28/2009 9:06:01 PM >


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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:07:12 PM   
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LA, could you please trim your quotes? The back and forth is getting a bit hard to read 

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:07:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

LA, could you please trim your quotes? The back and forth is getting a bit hard to read 


I did moments before you asked. Look up.

- LA

< Message edited by LadyAngelika -- 12/28/2009 9:08:21 PM >


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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:10:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: lally2


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ORIGINAL: MrVince2010

I have noticed in the personals section. a lot of subs post very negative profiles. The complain about the Doms that are contacting them or otherwise just bitch about the quality of available men.. Further, When you do contact them they seem to reply in a rather matter of fact way. Not addressing the Dom as Sir or by his listed name. Just general disrespect. Often these are the same so called subs that complain of the treatment they receive from Doms. I see a lot of ladies that post in Collar that are not subs at all but rather ladies that are angry and have very negative attitudes.. No amout of discipine and correction will help them.. When you are all done You would still have to Run!!



a small suggestion:

# if you approach a complete stranger with the supposition that she should defer to a complete stranger then youre in for some dissappointment





often disapointed


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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:11:06 PM   
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You, on the other hand, seem like you have no other modus operandi that to start threads and argue with everyone who gives you responses.


is disagreement argumentative?

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:11:13 PM   
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I did moments before you asked. Look up.

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:12:23 PM   
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I imagine Mr Vince you were expecting some agreement and sympathy. omg, were you wrong. This is not the place to come with complaints about ladies. These lovelies will punish you. Gal gang bang!


And you the voyeur just sit on your ledge and watch.

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:20:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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I did moments before you asked. Look up.

Thankies



Welcomies

- LA

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:23:37 PM   
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I'm sorry, OP, but I'm afraid I disagree with at least part of your post.

I'm not big on profile reading. I'm sure there are negative profiles out there just as there are positive ones. I know that quite a few females on the site, regardless of role, have changed their profile around since being here. (You'd be amazed at some of the crap that hits the good, ole inbox on the other side at times.)

I will tell you without hesitation that I don't receive any discourtesy or disrespect from the submissive females here. In those times that I am exchanging emails with them, more often than not, they will call Me Lady Pact or Ma'am. Some call Me by My real name and a few out there prefer My scene name. LP works just fine, too, for those who want to save the keystrokes. All in all, I have nothing but the highest praises for the manners of darn near every female submissive who has ever written Me on this site and it's rare that they do anything but brighten My day.

In fact, I'll thank you, OP, for an additional opportunity to say once again how much I enjoy the gals around here. As you get to know them better through these boards, I think you'll tend to agree with Me.




Thats caused you are lovable and sweet and knowlegable and smart and helpful and an all around nice person. We respect you because we got to know you here on the forums and not ONCE have you ever said,"on your knees bitch and call me Queen Mistress of all the World"

But at this point, with my admiration and respect for you, By golly, I would!!!!!

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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:25:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MrVince2010

The complain about the Doms that are contacting them or otherwise just bitch about the quality of available men.. Further, When you do contact them they seem to reply in a rather matter of fact way.


I'm trying to wrap my brain around the logic of reading a bitchy profile, and then going ahead and contacting them anyway.  They've put it right out there what type of person they are... why on earth would you expect anything different???



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Tell June to knock off with that generic detergent.  If she uses Tide, then that stickyness will be washed outta yer shorts.


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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:27:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun

It seems to me that a real Dom wouldn't expect strange women or men who call themselves subs to simply blindly show respect. A real Dom would understand that respect is earned, not necessarily given without even knowing the person.

I see many profiles that ask to please not contact them, so, if you contact them even with that in the profile you deserve disrespect.



a real dom is some fucking bastard that enjoys controlling women, he may be your neighborhood serial killer or the paster of your church

and either way he understands his prey

your confusing real dom with saint dom


I disagree OSF.
I think you are confusing abuser, or sociopath with dominant.

Like there are all different kinds of bosses. There are the screaming kind, the jerky kind, the kind who tell you what to do in a soft spoken manner and the one who can inspire you. Some bosses are way more effective than others. The screaming kind get the less of the best from their coworkers.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 12/28/2009 9:29:23 PM >


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RE: Angry subs. - 12/28/2009 9:29:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm sorry, OP, but I'm afraid I disagree with at least part of your post.

I'm not big on profile reading. I'm sure there are negative profiles out there just as there are positive ones. I know that quite a few females on the site, regardless of role, have changed their profile around since being here. (You'd be amazed at some of the crap that hits the good, ole inbox on the other side at times.)

I will tell you without hesitation that I don't receive any discourtesy or disrespect from the submissive females here. In those times that I am exchanging emails with them, more often than not, they will call Me Lady Pact or Ma'am. Some call Me by My real name and a few out there prefer My scene name. LP works just fine, too, for those who want to save the keystrokes. All in all, I have nothing but the highest praises for the manners of darn near every female submissive who has ever written Me on this site and it's rare that they do anything but brighten My day.

In fact, I'll thank you, OP, for an additional opportunity to say once again how much I enjoy the gals around here. As you get to know them better through these boards, I think you'll tend to agree with Me.




Thats caused you are lovable and sweet and knowlegable and smart and helpful and an all around nice person. We respect you because we got to know you here on the forums and not ONCE have you ever said,"on your knees bitch and call me Queen Mistress of all the World"

But at this point, with my admiration and respect for you, By golly, I would!!!!!


I'll second that! 

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In lowering yourself to talking behind my back, you're perfectly positioned to kiss my ass.

An it harm none, do what ye wilt.

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