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Drifa -> RE: can someone help me with this Mistress (12/29/2009 7:59:32 AM)
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ORIGINAL: vincentML
I wish you would change your picture. Really don't need to see male arse.
In general, the ladies feel this way also. I think it's Ms. Lockit that has the sig line about not wanting to see a guy's cock before she even knows his real name. That being said, at least this nude is fairly tastefully done.
OP, if I may, your profile is all about your kinks. You will tend to get more real women and fewer scammers if you present yourself as a person outside of your kinks. Women can get sex, even kinky sex, anywhere, there are tons of fellows wanting to provide it. You need to present whatever it is about you that would make a dominant woman choose you above all the teeming throng.
Women don't have the direct "eyes to groin" wiring that men do in general, so naked guy pics are not as good an advertisement. I think most dommes would prefer a pic that reflects something about how you might serve them. Also, think about what women find ROMANTIC. Because before you get to have sex or kink, you have to get to know and seduce the lady into choosing you, you know!
Speaking as a artist myself, now, some ideas sub men might consider when selecting their photos...
A man in an elegant suit is usually very nice - you can add a subtle bit of kink by having a pair of BDSM triskelion cufflinks, or a leather restraint cuff just peeking out of your sleeve, or an artful arrangement with a rose and its thorns.
If you're the handy sort, a "sexy construction worker" pic with a hard hat and toolbelt and bare chest would be one idea. Or get a pic that shows you grinning while you are exposing some forearm muscle turning a wrench on a stubborn pipe.
If you are into domestic service, rent a tux and do the formal butler picture. Or go back to the suit and get a pic of you on one knee presenting a silver platter with a bottle of wine and a glass to an unseen person out of frame. Or consider a pic using a vacuum cleaner, bare chest, bare feet, nicely pressed denim jeans, and an apron, topped with a sassy smile.
Since you're an artist and I see painting and drawing in your list of skills, consider doing a canvas on an easel with a nice drawing/painting of your dream domme in progress, and having a friend photograph you working on it. That might be one way to serve a domme -- giving of yourself via art is very sexy. I could also see a more playful pic of you in jeans, barechested, with colorful paint streaks here and there and a sassy grin.
The nude you present would probably be very attractive to a gay male dominant. And if that's the partner you want, then your hook is correctly baited. If you want a dominant female, though, as any good artist should, consider your audience in crafting your image.
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