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Aynne88 -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/5/2010 12:04:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf
I never figured you were gone, just hid your profile, and pulled a dramatic flounce. Your communication skills still need some work, because if you are in a medium, that you are supposedly a professional at (writer), you are failing to convey what you actually mean.
I find that a very useless criticism. I don't think anyone is really making any effort to understand what I mean, and I think many people are very intentionally reading my posts with malign intent, seeking to distort, twist and ridicule everything I say.
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BTW, you are failing as a psychonaut as well, because you are creating an internal image, rather than discovering what is there. You seem to cast no "shadow", but in fact we all do. You have created the "Wise Old Man", when in fact the "Fox" is prevelant within the Wise Old Man's guise. This is at least what I am seeing from your posts, which sometimes is not a true measure of a person, but often it is what they really are without filters. If you are truly interested in being a soul sailor, might I suggest a bit of ego death to assist you. Some may not understand what I have said in this last paragraph, but if you are as educated as you portray yourself to be, you will know exactly what is being said.
I do understand what you're saying, but I think you're entirely out of line. You don't know me, and to assume you have the sort of deep insight into me that you would need to tell me that I'm "failing as a psychonaut" from internet posts that you are reading with a fair amount of prejudice is an act both condescending and pompous.
The problem is that if I act from an egoless space on an online forum, you know what happens? It's called lurking. Forever. Everyone here has some bit of their ego on the line, and not a single one of you would enjoy being treated like I'm being treated. And I'll believe you'd deal with it better when I see it happen to you. I'm really not any more pompous than anyone else here, Mr. I Can See Into Your Soul Through The Internet. I'm not any more sexist or crass that Aynne and her lovely "Psychotwat" monkier. I'm not any more long winded or a posuer than Anwar. I haven't done anything extraordinary to deserve to be ganged up on and given the treatment.
You know what I think I did wrong? I think I'm guilty of being new and not wanting to play forum bitch for the amusement of this small group of extra nasty collered subs who seem to think they have to prove they are only submitting to one man by attacking any self-proclaimed dominant male who doesn't treat them like Dommes.
And I think there's a lot of dickheads here, like Ebony Wood, that know they can look dominant by attacking once the forum hags have selected a target. It's whole lot of very obvious social politics and monkey-mob mentality. And the people who got caught up in it should be far, far more embarassed and ashamed at joing in with a mob frenzy than I should be (and am) at getting defensive when I'm actually being attacked by a mob.
I want to be able to use this site for what its intended, and I want to be able to participate in the forums -- and be just as snarky, stupid, and often wrong as anyone else -- so that I have an increased chance of meeting someone.
But I'm just a human being. If people here are going to choose to make me the forum bitch and start mocking me all the time over every piddly thing I say just because it's "funny" to make someone a pariah, then I'm pretty much fucked, aren't I? I can't compete against a dozen people determined to make me look like a fool. Just the fact that they agree with each as part of the process makes it appear true, and often the appearance of truth has more effect than what is true.
I just wish people would be aware of how they are acting collectively. Not organized, but still collectively. How would any of you feel being treated like this?
And fuck the first person who tries to say that a mob ganging up on one person for utterly piddly shit is fair or right. You're a fucking creep if you think that.
Well, you did call me an unethical dumb bunny just for starters. Crass? Sure can be. Especially in the face of your bullshit. Hag? Please. That one I can't take, I am far from hag. I am also not a "collared sub" You insulated every woman on here by implying we were intellectually inferior and then you cry? Not a fucking chance that's going to fly. Nor is calling EbonyWood a dickhead trust me he just went out on you because you had it coming, not to impress "the forum hags." We already are with him because unlike you, he likes women. A lot[;)].
Perfect night for insomnia, I log back on and you are talking about how you only do breathplay by special request. I'll never sleep now.
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