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Aynne88 -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:11:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I have to say one thing, I absolutely feel like an ass for my prior stance on the Gorean mentality I had, Aswad and especially Orion, thank you for your words and your opinions here, please accept my huge apologies. Elisabella as well. Mea Culpa. It's an ignorant person that cannot learn from their mistakes, no? Oh and sorry, Kimveri too.


Gorenas are people too after all. Good and bad just like the rest.



Icarys I believe I just said that and apologized. By the way, you might have misspelled Goreans. [;)]. I can admit my mistakes and believe me they are numerous. Hey I still think you and I can even get along, so don't prove me wrong.


So I did and don't tempt me.[:D]





Oh I'll tempt you but it won't be with spelling corrections, trust me.[;)]. Remember, I am an unethical flirt. Kumbaya sexy.




Icarys -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:14:30 PM)

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Oh I'll tempt you but it won't be with spelling corrections, trust me.. Remember, I am an unethical flirt. Kumbaya sexy.


Let's hope not..That's no way to turn a man on...[:D]

Ethics..Smethics...I'll be eating lobster!




Elisabella -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:19:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
I just find it amusing to bring it up and watch out people scurry and shriek in protest.  It entertains me.


I guess we lost our entertainment value.




thornhappy -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:21:25 PM)

Man, I just figured he would go cool off for a time.




Aynne88 -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:22:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Elisabella

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

Damn I blocked him but I can still see the quotes....tasteful and refined? Not quite.

[image]local://upfiles/665674/D46D2061E71B44C3867F7C4009AB8D73.jpg[/image]


Very nice. I can so see you living there, and I mean that as a compliment.

Seriously there's nothing wrong with making do with what space you have while you're saving up for better, but like...recognize it. Talking about your "tasteful and refined parlour with its lazyboy recliner and haphazard bookshelves" just looks ridiculous.

Seriously. I'm chilling in a former bachelor pad right now (truestory: we were talking about how saving for a house is our primary goal and his first thought was "being able to play without worrying about neighbours" and mine was "omg I finally get to paint the walls!") but like...I know it's a bachelor pad. I do my best to make it look cute in a boho way but it is what it is.

If your sense of superiority comes from overinflating and exaggerating things, you need to rethink it.


Thanks Elisabella but that was the home I lived in with the ex-husband, I am not going to post the home I now live in with my Master, per his instructions, and although it is very nice, it isn't mine at least until we get married, I am funny that way. He is 58 and worked hard to get where he is, even the picture I posted with the ex we didn't have until our late 30's, so I totally get the concept of working hard to get anything unless you have a trust fund ( I don't! ) and I have no issue with living within your means until you can afford otherwise, I just didn't like PN's superior attitude re: his parlor. Please....enough already.    




mnottertail -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:22:14 PM)

remember he hates humanity. Hes had his gutful of it for the week.

Ron




Icarys -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:23:01 PM)

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Since when is Wilde an insult?


This isn't a jab at Him but evidently He thinks Wilde is an idiot as well.




Aynne88 -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:23:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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Oh I'll tempt you but it won't be with spelling corrections, trust me.. Remember, I am an unethical flirt. Kumbaya sexy.


Let's hope not..That's no way to turn a man on...[:D]

Ethics..Smethics...I'll be eating lobster!



Damn I told you tail man, tail! [;)].




Icarys -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:25:31 PM)

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Damn I told you tail man, tail! .


Why yes..I am a tail man[:D]




Aynne88 -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:27:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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Since when is Wilde an insult?


This isn't a jab at Him but evidently He thinks Wilde is an idiot as well.



Oh my, anyone that said this is alright in my book.


It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.Guess where he belongs?





Lucienne -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:35:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

Actually, fuck that.

I don't even want a fucking thing to do with this forum anymore.



Sweet dreams, Cabbage Head. You'll be missed!




Aynne88 -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:41:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

Actually, fuck that.

I don't even want a fucking thing to do with this forum anymore.



Sweet dreams, Cabbage Head. You'll be missed!



Here in Maine we have what is called skunk cabbage it smells and it useless, hmmmm. I know Lucienne you are more of an intellectual insulter than I, but damn, it just seemed to fit! [;)].




Icarys -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:55:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

Actually, fuck that.

I don't even want a fucking thing to do with this forum anymore.



Sweet dreams, Cabbage Head. You'll be missed!



Here in Maine we have what is called skunk cabbage it smells and it useless, hmmmm. I know Lucienne you are more of an intellectual insulter than I, but damn, it just seemed to fit! [;)].


I couldn't help but laugh at the irony in that [:D]




Lucienne -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 5:58:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

Actually, fuck that.

I don't even want a fucking thing to do with this forum anymore.



Sweet dreams, Cabbage Head. You'll be missed!



Here in Maine we have what is called skunk cabbage it smells and it useless, hmmmm. I know Lucienne you are more of an intellectual insulter than I, but damn, it just seemed to fit! [;)].


I couldn't help but laugh at the irony in that [:D]



I'm sure that somewhere in the world it's possible to at least minor in Kids in the Hall studies.

In England They Only Have One Spoon: The Categorical Imperative of Bruce McCulloch




mnottertail -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 6:00:33 PM)

Symplocarpus foetidus





Icarys -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 6:07:18 PM)

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I'm sure that somewhere in the world it's possible to at least minor in Kids in the Hall studies.

In England They Only Have One Spoon: The Categorical Imperative of Bruce McCulloch


It was a joke..No need to prove anything.[:D]




InvisibleBlack -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 6:08:31 PM)

This thread was a complete trainwreck but I have to admit I did find parts of it amusing. It's amazing how much you can tell about someone just based on the manner in which they disagree about something with someone else. In any event, a couple of comments:

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ORIGINAL: Icarys
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ORIGINAL: Kimveri
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ORIGINAL: Elisabella
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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
It's my 154 IQ that makes me a genius. ;)

When mine was tested as a child it was 174.

That's all??

...& people say
I am not intelligent!....geeeez...

;-P

I is only 137  an at a edumacation lebel of ate grwade..but I did stay at a holiday inn once.[:D]


In general, when someone's starts throwing their IQ around in the midst of a debate, I take it as a sign that they're out of anything relevant to say. A valid point is a valid point no matter who makes it. A concept is valid no matter where it comes from. If my IQ is higher than everyone else's who posted here, it does not necessarily follow that my beliefs are more right nor that my thesis is somehow more logically correct. I've known any number of brilliant people who believed all sorts of utter tripe.

Whipping your dick out and grabbing a ruler is only a valid debating tactic if you're arguing over who has the bigger dick. Then again ... maybe that's what this was all about anyway.

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
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Why don't you go back and read Invisible Black's post about definitions and reconsider your refusal to entertain them?


I read his post.  While I think "mores" or "values" are better terms or what he calls "socialital ethics," I thought his post was pretty spot on.


You're gone now, dude, but just to say - I agree with you - "mores" is a better term for a culture's or a society's shared value system. I would use "values" as a term relating to someone's personall code of conduct ... but that's me. Before I started fighting over whose view of morality is superior, I would make certain we both agree on what "morals" and "morality" meant.

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ORIGINAL: Elisabella
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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
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ORIGINAL: Elisabella
What the police do is necessary. I'm not sure what, specifically, is unethical about what they do.


They lie to, intimidate, assault, kidnap, enslave and murder people.  We just call it interrogation, arrest, imprisonment and capital punishment.  Essentially if you were to do what the police do, you would be a criminal.


That's why I disagree with your "ethics are the same for everyone" claim. Because I don't believe that police should be held to the same ethical standards as civilians. I don't think that policework is unethical.


See ... this is a perfect example of where working with your terms comes into play (pardon me for a moment, Elisabella whilst I dissect your comments). If you claim that the police, or the government, or whoever, must act unethically out of pragmatism - you are viewing ethics in a certain way - that not all pragmatic actions are ethical. I could look at the example and say that if a police officer refused to apprehend, arrest and incarcerate a felon, he would be acting unethically. It would then seem to me we're using very different definitions of ethics.

If you're saying that the government acts unethically, but that if it acted ethically it would result in harm to a larger number of people than it would if it continued to act in its current "unethical" fashion, then it would seem that there is some problem with your definition or application of "ethics".

Some of the best moral quandries result from pushing someone into a situation where they are confronted with the need to perform an action they have moral problems with in order to prevent a situation or a result that they have even bigger moral problems with. These situations force someone to confront their beliefs and make value judgements - and everyone faces these issues during their life.

Personal values evolve. Societal mores evolve and often come into conflict with each other. If there is a truly universal morality, then it has to allow for someone acting as best they can, with only the information they possess, attempting to derive the result they view as optimal for everyone and everything. If it cannot allow an honest, well-meaning police officer attempting to stop a murderer to be viewed as at least ethically equal to a civilian working to provide for their home and family (or whatever decent scenario you care to concoct) then I think it's not truly universal.

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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

I bet Kant had a real parlor.


Okay. I have to say, I laughed so hard I hurt myself.

Ow.


Lastly ... what did any of this have to do with misogyny? Wait. Nevermind.




Icarys -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 6:08:51 PM)

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Symplocarpus foetidus


I went to google like you did.[:D]




Icarys -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 6:12:14 PM)

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In general, when someone's starts throwing their IQ around in the midst of a debate, I take it as a sign that they're out of anything relevant to say. A valid point is a valid point no matter who makes it. A concept is valid no matter where it comes from. If my IQ is higher than everyone else's who posted here, it does not necessarily follow that my beliefs are more right nor that my thesis is somehow more logically correct. I've known any number of brilliant people who believed all sorts of utter tripe.

Whipping your dick out and grabbing a ruler is only a valid debating tactic if you're arguing over who has the bigger dick. Then again ... maybe that's what this was all about anyway.


Well for my part of it..It was just to show how silly that whole IQ thing was. I'm hoping you got that.




Lucienne -> RE: Misogyny and BDSM (1/4/2010 6:12:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I'm sure that somewhere in the world it's possible to at least minor in Kids in the Hall studies.

In England They Only Have One Spoon: The Categorical Imperative of Bruce McCulloch


It was a joke..No need to prove anything.[:D]



These kids at school... they smoke.




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