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osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:36:54 PM)
quote: why are you always around here?? retired and not retread yet?? ooooooohhhhhhhhhhh ~~~~ that is what you are doing getting retread ! now why didn't i see the humor in that? i've been called too old for this by a lady in her mid 50' for christs sake lol

WyldHrt -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:38:02 PM)
quote: I know Christmas is over and all, but if anybody out there can't see where Dickens mocked Scrooge when the ghost of Christmas past used his own words against him, showing him exactly his own regrets, well..... I just give up. Well said, and I LOLed at your little rewrite! OP- As lady Pact pointed out, that goes both ways. You can bet that the subs here judge the Dom(mes) by their posts, too.

osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:39:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: I know Christmas is over and all, but if anybody out there can't see where Dickens mocked Scrooge when the ghost of Christmas past used his own words against him, showing him exactly his own regrets, well..... I just give up. Well said! OP- that goes both ways. You can bet that the subs here judge the Dom(mes) by their posts, too. and in this thread what posts did i make to warrant this?

WyldHrt -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:42:06 PM)
Umm... you don't become a new user with every thread, osf. If you show poor behaviour in one thread, don't be surprised if it bites you in the ass on another.

osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:45:44 PM)
oh for gods sake let it go, i've not initiated any attacks on anybody only in defense if you don't like my ideas ignore them and ignore the threads i start, that's what i do

UniqueRaven -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:47:41 PM)
This thread jumps the shark in 3.....2......1......

sweetsub1957 -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:47:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact what i don't understand is how males who call themselves dominant can act this way to somebody they do not know. don't they realize females are reading this and judging them on their words a little more politeness goes a long way in projecting a desirable appearance what kind of submissive female do they think wants a male that acts like that, one wonders I know Christmas is over and all, but if anybody out there can't see where Dickens mocked Scrooge when the ghost of Christmas past used his own words against him, showing him exactly his own regrets, well..... I just give up. [sm=applause.gif] [sm=goodpost.gif] That being said, my biggest mistake was not getting the hell rid of my sub-frenzy induced insanity and bad judgement sooner than I did. It was pretty embarrassing & humiliating when I realized I'd fallen prey to it and looked back on what a dumbass I was & the things I'd done for People I should never have done them for. At that point I snapped out of it immediately. ~crawling away all red-faced and stuff~

osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:48:30 PM)
there are those , believe it or not that think as i do and we deserve our say too or do any of you have anything against that?

UniqueRaven -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:50:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 That being said, my biggest mistake was not getting the hell rid of my sub-frenzy induced insanity and bad judgement sooner than I did. It was pretty embarrassing & humiliating when I realized I'd fallen prey to it and looked back on what a dumbass I was & the things I'd done for People I should never have done them for. At that point I snapped out of it immediately. ~crawling away all red-faced and stuff~ Oh don't be all red-faced, we've all done it. [;)] i submitted for a month online to a guy on cam, naked, typing on my knees, the whole bit, before i found out he wasn't the blonde blue-eyed caucasian guy he advertised himself to be - he was short, pimply, dark-haired, and Asian. Boy was that stupid.

WyldHrt -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:51:04 PM)
quote: if you don't like my ideas ignore them and ignore the threads i start, that's what i do The way you ignored that post on page 1 you didn't like? Got it.

osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:51:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact what i don't understand is how males who call themselves dominant can act this way to somebody they do not know. don't they realize females are reading this and judging them on their words a little more politeness goes a long way in projecting a desirable appearance what kind of submissive female do they think wants a male that acts like that, one wonders I know Christmas is over and all, but if anybody out there can't see where Dickens mocked Scrooge when the ghost of Christmas past used his own words against him, showing him exactly his own regrets, well..... I just give up. yes i do, and i get positive feedback from those that agree with me, why the hell do you think i persist in what i say, it's not to please you, so get over yourself not every one shares your way

Aileen1968 -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:52:23 PM)
ignoring the fact that the OP is once again hijacking and derailing his own thread... The biggest early mistake I made was by purposely placing myself in dangerous situations by meeting men who I only knew by first name at hotels and allowing them to bind me.

osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:52:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: if you don't like my ideas ignore them and ignore the threads i start, that's what i do The way you ignored that post on page 1 you didn't like? Got it. what post?

sweetsub1957 -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:53:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: I know Christmas is over and all, but if anybody out there can't see where Dickens mocked Scrooge when the ghost of Christmas past used his own words against him, showing him exactly his own regrets, well..... I just give up. Well said, and I LOLed at your little rewrite! OP- As lady Pact pointed out, that goes both ways. You can bet that the subs here judge the Dom(mes) by their posts, too. Indeed there are, myself included. quote: ORIGINAL: osf and in this thread what posts did i make to warrant this? I'm a resourceful sub and get all over these boards. I read all the posts, no matter where they are. Why try to form an opinion based on a single post.....

wisdomtogive -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:53:55 PM)
Turning red flags around and making excuses for someone. Was one mistake. Assuming someone who has been in this lifestyle for many decades, and a little older then me, was right, another mistake i made. What i learned was to follow my instinct..never led me astray before. Do not ever give anyone due credit just because they been 1. in this lifestyle a long time, or 2 they post a lot on here. Doesn't mean crap in my mind. Because of my last experience, i have become very skeptical of professed Doms. who claim they been in this lifestyle for 40 years or so. It doesn't exclude them for being a player. They are just more polished. I now am not as naive anymore, which is good thing. p.s. i do not any more look up towards anyone with a lot of posts under their s/n.. for guidance. It is sad, and now makes me extremely skeptical. I am grateful though that when i started on CM 2 years ago, those who had a lot of posts were knowledgeable. Though i might not agree with what they said, they had my respect. P.s.s HAPPY NEW YEARS TO EVERYONE

osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:57:17 PM)
i was here 2 years or more ago and this didn't happen all that much people were more civil and contributed to the conversation i'm kinda shocked at the change

sweetsub1957 -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:59:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 That being said, my biggest mistake was not getting the hell rid of my sub-frenzy induced insanity and bad judgement sooner than I did. It was pretty embarrassing & humiliating when I realized I'd fallen prey to it and looked back on what a dumbass I was & the things I'd done for People I should never have done them for. At that point I snapped out of it immediately. ~crawling away all red-faced and stuff~ Oh don't be all red-faced, we've all done it. [;)] i submitted for a month online to a guy on cam, naked, typing on my knees, the whole bit, before i found out he wasn't the blonde blue-eyed caucasian guy he advertised himself to be - he was short, pimply, dark-haired, and Asian. Boy was that stupid. Gulp. Now I don't feel quite so bad, knowing that I'm not the only one. [;)]

LadyPact -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 7:59:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf yes i do, and i get positive feedback from those that agree with me, why the hell do you think i persist in what i say, it's not to please you, so get over yourself not every one shares your way Darn. I must have missed that. Could you put the links up here where I missed people agreeing with you? ETA..... Btw, there really is a difference between learning to accept service and learning to do it with grace. Think about it.

osf -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 8:00:51 PM)
i sincerely appreciate those that are trying to contribute

wandersalone -> RE: early mistakes (12/31/2009 8:02:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf oh for gods sake let it go, i've not initiated any attacks on anybody only in defense if you don't like my ideas ignore them and ignore the threads i start, that's what i do OSF if I may make a gentle observation, I have bolded the part which I feel is important in your post above. Whether you are attacking people as the initiator or in self-defence it reflects extremely poorly on you as a person as all we have to judge you on is what you write. I feel many of the questions you ask are interesting except it seems that each of your threads degenerates into a sniping festival and it also feels as if the one line responses from you to some thoughtful posts do not encourage actual dialogue. If a person makes a sarcastic comment ignore them rather than responding and seeing it escalate, dig deeper into these topics, open up the conversation and allow people to open up more though more skilled over-seeing by you of the threads you post. Maybe read some other threads and see how the OP's respond to posts and encourage discussion and also are able to refocus the poster's when they are getting side-tracked, all without having to snipe. Act honourably and with grace (in my opinion that is good advice for people on either side of the slash) in your replies and see if this improves the quality of the discussions on your threads. In answer to this particular OP - not mistakes so much as me not having enough knowledge about bdsm and my own limits so that I found out about some hard limits through passing out from the pain.

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