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Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 2:34:51 AM   
DaddyinNeed


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Status: offline 		There are a few fakes on here that contantly 'pretent' to be what they are not. This is bad for all our reputations and by ignoring it we acrually condone it which will in time kill the rooms off. What can we do about it?
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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 3:23:44 AM   
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faker, faker, dirty knock knee'd son of a baker
put some stuffin' in a muffin
and still didn't get no lovin'
faker, faker, foo

then they will explode, and bother ye no more.

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 3:50:46 AM   
Lucienne


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Status: offline 		Is this like having the first baby of the new year? Do you get a prize for being the first poster of the year, hell... decade!, to complain about fakes?

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 4:04:42 AM   
wisdomtogive


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Status: offline 		I personally do not have to do anything about it. To condone someone who wanted to do something about it sends out warning signs in me..................who next will be consider a fake and be banned by you?


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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 4:08:10 AM   
Loki45


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddyinNeed
There are a few fakes on here that contantly 'pretent' to be what they are not.


Do you mean 'pretend?'


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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 4:17:45 AM   
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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 4:37:14 AM   
Elisabella


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddyinNeed

There are a few fakes on here that contantly 'pretent' to be what they are not. This is bad for all our reputations and by ignoring it we acrually condone it which will in time kill the rooms off. What can we do about it?


I know, right! I really hate that there are so many whiners on CM, it gives this awful reputation that people who are into BDSM are just a bunch of weirdos who worry that their chat room reputation is ruined if the hot girl they were jerking off to cyber dominating turned out to be a dude.

As someone who makes it a policy to only have sex, real or imagined, with people whose a/s/l is verifiable, I feel something must be done about this. What should we do to start?

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 4:39:19 AM   
MadameMarque


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Status: offline 		Level, that is so totally an old wives' tale.  And like all old wives' tale, it is derived from an element of truth.  Because, of course, old wives are known to be wise and practical.

So, carry on.

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 4:49:22 AM   
MadameMarque


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Status: offline 		...of course, you realize that the tricky part is staring the fake "squarely in the eye."  Only a Who's Who of hoodoo could manage to command a fake to appear before them.  And at that moment, their spell of enchantment over you would be broken, the veil lifted from your eyes, and you could clearly see that a 5' 2", 110 lb redhead with 36DD breasts and a proclivity for double-jointedness, could not possibly look like the person who played "Buffalo Bill," in Silence of the Lambs.


(edited for typo)

< Message edited by MadameMarque -- 1/1/2010 5:11:32 AM >

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 5:06:52 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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Status: offline 		As far as I can tell, the fakes haven't affected my rep in the least....or anybody's rep aside from those of the fakes.

OP there are thousands of threads, on this subject, why don't you contact the people who started them and band together to rid CM  of these fakes?


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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 5:23:21 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameMarque

...of course, you realize that the tricky part is staring the fake "squarely in the eye."  Only a Who's Who of hoodoo could manage to command a fake to appear before them.  And at that moment, their spell of enchantment over you would be broken, the veil lifted from your eyes, and you could clearly see that a 5' 2", 110 lb redhead with 36DD breasts and a proclivity for double-jointedness, could not possibly look like the person who played "Buffalo Bill," in Silence of the Lambs.


(edited for typo)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDgS6qLsVM4&feature=related



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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 5:50:45 AM   
lally2


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ive been to the chat rooms twice. i have no idea who im talking to, why im talking to them or what theyre angle is. both times i came away feeling that it was five minutes of my life ill never get back.

i dont believe fakers exist all over the place or any more than anywhere else, but i certainly dont rate the chat rooms much.



< Message edited by lally2 -- 1/1/2010 5:52:38 AM >

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 5:53:33 AM   
stella41b


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There's a good tradition of trolls and fakes
On all these kinky sites
There's a good tradition of trolls and fakes
On all these kinky sites
You're scratching your balls
This woman's calling you
You still feel domly pride
The female sub who's local
Is there ignoring you
You still feel what right is right

Was it just now?
Was this yesterday?
To discover this truth for you?
Because while all the rest have known for years
It's taken so long for you

And these sites are full of forgeries
Some things are not what they seem to be
Some women have balls, some men are gay
But you think all the dramas happen miles away
And some telling porkies doesn't reach you
You get upset while we all gaze at you
Oh call the police! Call the people!
They should all really know
And while all of us know the bullshit lines
You weren't in the know

There's a good tradition of trolls and fakes
On all these kinky sites
There's a good tradition of trolls and fakes
On all these kinky sites
Yes some women have balls, and some are scamming you
You still feel safe inside
While someone is telling lies, a woman's ignoring you
You still feel safe inside
Was this just now, was this yesterday
When this became true for you
Because while we have all known for years
Why has it taken so long for you?

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 5:59:45 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		You've met them all in person and know they aren't what they seem? Or you're just assuming they're men pretending to be women because they turned you down?

And who are you to say that a male with a female persona isn't someone with gender dysmorphia acting out their true self, which may well not be what their outward sexual characteristics show them as?

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 6:08:47 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		im uncomfortable with the word fake. Because some might regard me and others as fakes but we are not. its just the geographical practicality of serving Women or Dommes in the US and Britain while living hundreds and thousands of miles away makes it impossible for me and others to serve. thats not fake thats reality. also the financial problem which many people are experiencing at the moment makes it difficult even to serve a local Domme
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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 6:12:13 AM   
Acer49


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddyinNeed

There are a few fakes on here that contantly 'pretent' to be what they are not. This is bad for all our reputations and by ignoring it we acrually condone it which will in time kill the rooms off. What can we do about it?


There is nothing that can about it. It is a sad fact that some people are so desperate for attention that they must assume a different persona. What do these people ultimately hope to gain as they can never meet? this type of fantasy can be harmless or really devastating depending on how it is played. As far as hurting the chat rooms? and how can they do that? I think you may be being al little bit a alarmist. just simply ignore it and move on

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 7:02:12 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

im uncomfortable with the word fake. Because some might regard me and others as fakes but we are not. its just the geographical practicality of serving Women or Dommes in the US and Britain while living hundreds and thousands of miles away makes it impossible for me and others to serve. thats not fake thats reality. also the financial problem which many people are experiencing at the moment makes it difficult even to serve a local Domme
kevin



I don't think fake is the first word that comes to mind lobodomslavery




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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 7:05:28 AM   
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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 7:06:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddyinNeed

There are a few fakes on here that contantly 'pretent' to be what they are not. This is bad for all our reputations and by ignoring it we acrually condone it which will in time kill the rooms off. What can we do about it?


Super easy. Get offline and get thee to a local munch group. If there isn't one in your area, start one. Meet people face to face and screennames won't mean a thing to you because you will have some fleshy contacts!

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RE: Faking being a woman or man - 1/1/2010 7:10:58 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		The problem with that is that someone might see he is a fake...

Not saying that is the case at all. I just have to wonder about the people that create threads like this. Something about that old saying that goes something like "methinks he protests too much..."

Then again...........I am just a figment of my own imagination. My reputation feels so........sullied.

June

(or that of some television writer about sixty years ago....)

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