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Knighthunter862 -> New submissives (1/6/2010 7:17:19 AM)

Recently as in three weeks ago i tookon a young 21 year old submissive comepletely new to the lifestyle and agreed to mentor and guide her.I felt that collar me would be a good place for her to speak with others Doms and subs alike to help further her knowledge in the lifestyle.recntly a Dom who i wont mention became angry and stated that basically i was whoring her out and that she didnt belong here.Now i know opinions are like assholes and everyone has one.So guys id like to hear yours.



StephanMia -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:25:19 AM)

IMO: Coming here and to similar sites is a great way to learn and meet new people. I don't see this as "whoring her out" so long as you're not actually suggesting or making her sleep with a bunch of people.



Jeffff -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:26:38 AM)

If you need the approval of others, perhaps you should reconsider your actions.

There is more crap posted here per volume than can be reasonably believed.

If I were you I would listen to the other Dom. He is obviously more knowledgeable than you of your situation.

We all know there is only one real way to do things.


Jeff
The Final Arbiter of What is Right!
Feel free to contact me for ALL your BDSM advice.



lally2 -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:28:47 AM)


all a bit sketchy...,

why would a stranger get so uptight about you using this place for info



osf -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:32:36 AM)

if you're in charge , you're the one in charge



Aileen1968 -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:37:49 AM)

Personally, I hate the concept of mentoring, but if someone is going to go and do that she should be mentored by a female submissive. Not a male dominant. It always makes me suspicious of the mentor.

edited to clarify....female submissives mentored by female submissives, male submissives mentored by male submissives, etc. etc. etc.



Knighthunter862 -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:40:00 AM)

Thanks jefff i knew i could count on you...lmao



osf -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:42:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Personally, I hate the concept of mentoring, but if someone is going to go and do that she should be mentored by a female submissive. Not a male dominant. It always makes me suspicious of the mentor.

edited to clarify....female submissives mentored by female submissives, male submissives mentored by male submissives, etc. etc. etc.


i'm against mentoring unless it's mentoring with privileges

even females can have ulterior motives



mnottertail -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:43:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Personally, I hate the concept of mentoring, but if someone is going to go and do that she should be mentored by a female submissive. Not a male dominant. It always makes me suspicious of the mentor.

edited to clarify....female submissives mentored by female submissives, male submissives mentored by male submissives, etc. etc. etc.


Ja, fuck you Aileen, no cocks would ever get sucked the way you wanna go about it...........you're outta here; clown.

Ron



OsideGirl -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:43:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Knighthunter862

Now i know opinions are like assholes and everyone has one.So guys id like to hear yours.
My personal opinion is that mentors should be on the same side of the kneel and that there should be no sex or scening between mentor and mentoree.

Second part of this is: CollarMe is vapor and ether, why do you care? Is there going to be a cyber beat up?



Knighthunter862 -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:44:04 AM)

In a definition lally he felt that after speaking to her for 30 mins she should be kneeling and collared and when told hed have to soeak to me the insults begin.Hope that helps.



Aileen1968 -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:44:46 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Personally, I hate the concept of mentoring, but if someone is going to go and do that she should be mentored by a female submissive. Not a male dominant. It always makes me suspicious of the mentor.

edited to clarify....female submissives mentored by female submissives, male submissives mentored by male submissives, etc. etc. etc.


Ja, fuck you Aileen, no cocks would ever get sucked the way you wanna go about it...........you're outta here; clown.

Ron


Good morning Feisty Ron....I need no mentoring in that department.



Jeffff -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:51:07 AM)

I will trade you a Big Mac... AND a shake... for a blow job.



Love

Jeff



Knighthunter862 -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 7:54:25 AM)

and ill throw in some fries to help jefff,s case



LadyPact -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 8:38:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Personally, I hate the concept of mentoring, but if someone is going to go and do that she should be mentored by a female submissive. Not a male dominant. It always makes me suspicious of the mentor.

edited to clarify....female submissives mentored by female submissives, male submissives mentored by male submissives, etc. etc. etc.

This.


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
My personal opinion is that mentors should be on the same side of the kneel and that there should be no sex or scening between mentor and mentoree.

Second part of this is: CollarMe is vapor and ether, why do you care? Is there going to be a cyber beat up?

And this.



wisdomtogive -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 9:17:48 AM)

Hi knighthunter
3 years ago i really was a newbee and very vanilla when I first heard of BDSM. A friend recommended the cm boards to me, and fortunately for me i made friends with a few submissives. There were a few Doms as well on here that i grew to respect in their knowledge and the way they carried themselves. So i read what they posted, lived on the search button and became mentor by other submissives. I still do not know a lot, but with my experiences I know what for me is acceptable in a Dom and what isnt and i had started my own journey into submission.

I highly recommend to be mentor by those on the same side of the kneel, which my first Dom insisted on. I do applaud you to asking other Doms their view on this, since imho it shows good grace that a Dom doesn't know all the 'truths' and is willing to comtemplate others views. 

blessings,
wisdom



Knighthunter862 -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 9:32:58 AM)

ty wisdom to give..by far the best answer according to what i wanted to hear anyway.when i stop learning is when i stop period.Thanks to you A/all.



wisdomtogive -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 9:46:20 AM)

My pleasure Knighthunter. Something i always lived by and seen the many fools throughout my life who claim to know it all.



PrimalConsonance -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 9:56:21 AM)

(CNJDom says:)  Utilizing what sort of people and information you can get from CM is not a bad idea.  You get the broad spectrum of attitudes and viewpoints, and you also get a wide range of kink/fetish awareness.  It doesn't have to be nefarious, and with a decent bullshit detector...not a bad place to get a taste of things.  Use this site and combine with other sites, books, munches, and the like; and you'll get a good picture of likes, dislikes, and avoidance material. 



gift4mistress -> RE: New submissives (1/6/2010 10:01:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

male submissives mentored by male submissives, etc. etc. etc.



I wouldn't let a dude mentor me though I wouldn't mind getting advice from one.



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