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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

Pet-  I view OSF as dangerous.

Maybe I do not understand the lifestyle-  and that could be.  But based on the posts that I read- and his profile- this guy creeps me out.

I know it is a free country- and all- and this is a kink site- so possibly I am off.  But particularly if I was a woman- this guy comes off as dangerous.

His manner seems to suggest permanent harm.



It might be easier to hire out for the sex he wants.

The dude needs a different approach if he wants to score real time.

Whether I agree with you or not, he does have the right to post here. He also has the automatic responsibility to own the consequences for what he posts. By the tos, I can't pass judgement on him or any other poster, but the moderators and administrators can do as they please based on what he writes. What we can all do is report a poster if we believe something along the lines of what you posted above. That is a personal decision and one I have made of my own accord and each will do the same. All I did was answer his OP in an ontopic fashion. I doubt it will be well received, but my posts aren't always for the benefit of the person whose thread I am posting on, but for others who may stumble upon it and find what I had to say useful. I could care less what anyone does with what I say. I just do my best to guide in a way that I feel good about and believe is both helpful and not harmful to others who view it. The rest is upon the reader.

lovingpet

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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

Pet-  I view OSF as dangerous.

Maybe I do not understand the lifestyle-  and that could be.  But based on the posts that I read- and his profile- this guy creeps me out.

I know it is a free country- and all- and this is a kink site- so possibly I am off.  But particularly if I was a woman- this guy comes off as dangerous.

His manner seems to suggest permanent harm.



It might be easier to hire out for the sex he wants.

The dude needs a different approach if he wants to score real time.

Whether I agree with you or not, he does have the right to post here. He also has the automatic responsibility to own the consequences for what he posts. By the tos, I can't pass judgement on him or any other poster, but the moderators and administrators can do as they please based on what he writes. What we can all do is report a poster if we believe something along the lines of what you posted above. That is a personal decision and one I have made of my own accord and each will do the same. All I did was answer his OP in an ontopic fashion. I doubt it will be well received, but my posts aren't always for the benefit of the person whose thread I am posting on, but for others who may stumble upon it and find what I had to say useful. I could care less what anyone does with what I say. I just do my best to guide in a way that I feel good about and believe is both helpful and not harmful to others who view it. The rest is upon the reader.

lovingpet

As always a classy lady.  One I am honored to know.   Big HUGS to you.

:-)

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ORIGINAL: persephonee

Honestly, i dont think hes dangerous...in the sense of permanent harm.

i do think hes stunted in a lot of ways.

Broken Sparrow really only works if the submissive does it....i dont know very many emotionally healthy White Knight submissives. Frankly, i dont think the broken sparrow subs are that healthy either but we all have our little hurdles.....

He said in other posts that he has rejected the community due to flaws within it...yet he posts here on a community board.

i love the ones that do that....they get all the girls.

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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

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ORIGINAL: persephonee

Honestly, i dont think hes dangerous...in the sense of permanent harm.

i do think hes stunted in a lot of ways.

Broken Sparrow really only works if the submissive does it....i dont know very many emotionally healthy White Knight submissives. Frankly, i dont think the broken sparrow subs are that healthy either but we all have our little hurdles.....

He said in other posts that he has rejected the community due to flaws within it...yet he posts here on a community board.

i love the ones that do that....they get all the girls.

Re-write this post- but on the premise that he is in your home- has handcuffed you- co-erced power of attorney, has the key to your safe and valuables- and knows your account numbers.

Handcuffed, blind folded, immobilized.

....if anyone gets that far--- I dread the outcome.

The kicker is there is plenty of opportunity to grow and learn right here on this board.  One only needs to try for it.

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ORIGINAL: osf

has any one been harrased by other members of cm in threads they have started or contributed too

tos, As with the rest of the Forum, it is asked that participants refrain from insults, flames, and generally offensive behavior.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

pahunkboy, I agree with you. In fact, that is how I got in trouble on that Misogyny thread because some moron was attacking a friend of mine and women in general.

I have spoken to osf privately and he sadly, does not get it. He will only continue, and like the previously mentioned poster, just continue to dig a deeper hole. I mean, seriously, the dude on the other thread just insulted special needs children and their parents all in the name of a "joke". Some joke.

Can you believe it? It is sad really, but overall, there are great people here to interact with.

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ORIGINAL: persephonee

The community seems to be able to self police on its own....ive seen men who talk like he does end up being frozen out of whatever club, simply because everyone found him to be not a viable candidate for friendship or relationship. im fairly certain that this is what may have happened to him in his local community and now hes bitter and typing away at home....c'est la vie.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Oy, I wake up and see this....shakes head.

osf: I am actually concerned about you. You appear unable to comprehend the results of your own actions. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many people have written to you both on and off the boards. Your responses suggest a narcissistic personality and no one here is qualified to help with that.

There is no harassment; everyone here got or gets snarked at at some point. Hell, when I started, I got into some doozies of flames; got modded, went away for a while and now that I am back, I am trying to post more maturely. Not that I will be successfull all the time, but I am trying. I know a recent thread I participated in degenerated into flames, but that guy....well, another story.

I have suggested to you that your many postings are being designed to get women to view your profile, read your journal and become interested in the Man Behind Osf. That would be cool, if in fact, this tactic was working.

As others have said before me, the definition of insanity is repeating the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. It is also clear that the one being defensive against so many, is usually the one who has to analyze their own posting behavior.

It is cool to be smart, funny, provocative, like to debate, even derail threads, but osf, your postings are not being taken in the way you intend them, unless that is what you want.

You cannot complain about others harassing you if your posts seem to be harassing women. People will not tolerate that and they will not be silent. If the same people keep posting on your threads, how is that different than you starting numerous threads? You seem to want opinions from "others", which I think means people who don't frequent the forums. Not going to happen unless someone drifts over here.

When I have posted to you, you said I did not like you because I disagreed with you. How silly. It is not a matter of like/dislike, I don't know you, don't particularly want to know you, but I stated both publically and privately that replying to a post of yours in disagreement has nothing to do with "like". It has to do with freedom of speech.

You have freedom of speech as well, but do not complain about vultures circling you when you are providing such a tasty carcass.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Oy, I wake up and see this....shakes head.

osf: I am actually concerned about you. You appear unable to comprehend the results of your own actions. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many people have written to you both on and off the boards. Your responses suggest a narcissistic personality and no one here is qualified to help with that.

There is no harassment; everyone here got or gets snarked at at some point. Hell, when I started, I got into some doozies of flames; got modded, went away for a while and now that I am back, I am trying to post more maturely. Not that I will be successfull all the time, but I am trying. I know a recent thread I participated in degenerated into flames, but that guy....well, another story.

I have suggested to you that your many postings are being designed to get women to view your profile, read your journal and become interested in the Man Behind Osf. That would be cool, if in fact, this tactic was working.

As others have said before me, the definition of insanity is repeating the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. It is also clear that the one being defensive against so many, is usually the one who has to analyze their own posting behavior.

It is cool to be smart, funny, provocative, like to debate, even derail threads, but osf, your postings are not being taken in the way you intend them, unless that is what you want.

You cannot complain about others harassing you if your posts seem to be harassing women. People will not tolerate that and they will not be silent. If the same people keep posting on your threads, how is that different than you starting numerous threads? You seem to want opinions from "others", which I think means people who don't frequent the forums. Not going to happen unless someone drifts over here.

When I have posted to you, you said I did not like you because I disagreed with you. How silly. It is not a matter of like/dislike, I don't know you, don't particularly want to know you, but I stated both publically and privately that replying to a post of yours in disagreement has nothing to do with "like". It has to do with freedom of speech.

You have freedom of speech as well, but do not complain about vultures circling you when you are providing such a tasty carcass.

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Oy, I wake up and see this....shakes head.

osf: I am actually concerned about you. You appear unable to comprehend the results of your own actions. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many people have written to you both on and off the boards. Your responses suggest a narcissistic personality and no one here is qualified to help with that.

There is no harassment; everyone here got or gets snarked at at some point. Hell, when I started, I got into some doozies of flames; got modded, went away for a while and now that I am back, I am trying to post more maturely. Not that I will be successfull all the time, but I am trying. I know a recent thread I participated in degenerated into flames, but that guy....well, another story.

I have suggested to you that your many postings are being designed to get women to view your profile, read your journal and become interested in the Man Behind Osf. That would be cool, if in fact, this tactic was working.

As others have said before me, the definition of insanity is repeating the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. It is also clear that the one being defensive against so many, is usually the one who has to analyze their own posting behavior.

It is cool to be smart, funny, provocative, like to debate, even derail threads, but osf, your postings are not being taken in the way you intend them, unless that is what you want.

You cannot complain about others harassing you if your posts seem to be harassing women. People will not tolerate that and they will not be silent. If the same people keep posting on your threads, how is that different than you starting numerous threads? You seem to want opinions from "others", which I think means people who don't frequent the forums. Not going to happen unless someone drifts over here.

When I have posted to you, you said I did not like you because I disagreed with you. How silly. It is not a matter of like/dislike, I don't know you, don't particularly want to know you, but I stated both publically and privately that replying to a post of yours in disagreement has nothing to do with "like". It has to do with freedom of speech.

You have freedom of speech as well, but do not complain about vultures circling you when you are providing such a tasty carcass.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

LP... I don't care for the local community. I have been to a few events. I stopped going. That doesn't make me dangerous.

So I suppose it works both ways. If someone insists on involvement in the community, it would disqualify her as well as me.

On the other hand..... I may be a dick, but I am a non threatening dick..:)


Jeff