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DesFIP -> RE: whims (1/9/2010 7:08:17 AM)
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We have tiered rules that say what comes first. So I'm not going to miss my kid's guidance appointment to discuss next year's classes in order to pick him up a copy of the racing form. If it isn't of any importance to him, it isn't that important to me, nor should it be. That's in his rules. So it will get done later that day or the next without disrupting my entire life. Because if he goes around disrupting everything just to prove he's the boss, guess what? Sooner or later, and probably sooner, she'll find a better boss to work for.
You know osf, I've finally figured out your problem. You keep wanting a woman to prove she really does want to be with you. But since you don't really believe anyone would, you keep throwing roadblocks in her way. And eventually when she gets tired of being afraid and hurt and having her life ruined and moves on, then you can pat yourself on the back and tell yourself you were right all along, she didn't really love you. Of course you aren't recognizing that you keep killing her love. This is an issue of yours that predates the new woman, and it isn't fair to make her deal with your overwhelming baggage. Get it dealt with through the help of a good professional and only then go look for a relationship. Otherwise you will keep making perfectly fine women bitter about ever finding a good dominant. Because this enormous insecurity of yours will always prevent you from being one.
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