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How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/23/2006 3:51:43 PM

brightspot

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This has been a thought running though my mind for the last few days, so I thought I would just come here and ask.

How many Pro-Dommes here or maybe even relationship Dommes (not that some can't be both) have a history with
being a Stripper, Erotic Dancer, Escort(sexual), and or have been involved with Pornography in any way such as pictures or film?

Just non-jugdementally curious

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*Brightspot
(edited, because the words were too tiny to read

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/23/2006 4:24:46 PM

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Not a pro, was once, also worked in sex industry as a escort. I dont regret my choice at all but I sure wish I had saved some of that money!

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/23/2006 4:33:46 PM

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I guess that would be me. No longer do professional domination but work in the sex industry via fetish web sites.
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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/23/2006 4:40:24 PM

LadySacredRain

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Yes, I am a Pro Domme. Interesting site, havent used it much - still finding my way around it.

SR X

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/23/2006 7:14:40 PM

MichMasochist

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Well I know two ladies who are strippers, with domme as a side line. They do have an interesting collection of whips, paddles, and crops. Just not the dungeon like play space a pro would have. And one said she has done some modeling.

The only real problem is that they are cautious almost to the point of being peranoid when it comes to who they top.

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/23/2006 7:53:31 PM

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::Raises hand::

Search "Mistress Persephone" on google.

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/24/2006 8:31:10 AM

QueenKimberlie

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Im a pro domme I work in the porn industry online (other domme sites) and years ago I was a dancer.... 10 years ago to be exaxt....

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/24/2006 2:11:31 PM

DianeB

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Retired

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/24/2006 2:54:07 PM

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Hmmm...define pro.

Pro-domination - I haven't taken a new client in about 5 years and haven't got much interest in doing so. I have ongoing situations with others in my life who some might call 'clients' but I don't rely on income from sessions for my living. Some would call me still a pro, others would say I am semi-retired; someone who does rely on sessions for their living might say I'm not really pro. I keep a well stocked dungeon.

Haven't been a stripper for 20 years, but spent a few years intermittantly putting food on the table from a strip club between construction jobs (welding and pipefitting) and full time student status. I haven't struck an arc on someone's payroll in perhaps 17 to 20 years (and would probably bust out on a test without some serious practice). I don't have much interest in stripping, welding or pipefitting anymore either, although it's probable I'll be a student again before I die.

I was never an escort and the only 'porn' I've ever done is the BDSM pics I've published to my own domain, none of which involved penile penetration of any form (what's a fist between friends?)

So there you have it.

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/25/2006 2:41:32 AM

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Thank you Ladies for answering my question.
I was just curious to see what percent of Pro-Dommes
maybe started out stripping or participating in a form of porn.

MizSuz, I guess what I meant by "Pro" was Dommes who have clients who pay for the service of experiencing Female-Domination.

I must say I thought there would be a higher percentage here in the community to have had such history, or maybe you Ladies were just okay with sharing. I was curious of how some women come to the place of becoming a Pro-Domme, like if there is some history that brings them to that place or it is something that women who are naturally dominant can easily move into.
I tend to be a very shy person in person and it amazes me sometimes how powerful and out there some women can be and it peaks my interest.

I personally find nothing wrong with Pro's, prostitution or someone being involved in porn. That is one of the one thing that I find helpful from the women's movement is that women can chose what lifestyle they want to engage in including a stay at home mom to high profile bussiness women.
Infact I find it unjust and wish that prostitution would be legalized a woman should have a right to do as she wishes with her body including making money off it whether that be as a fashion model or a giving sexual services for money. But I am afraid with this adminastration we may face taking a hundred steps backwards beginning with over-turning Roe vs Wade.

Anybody out there wish to share their beginings into Pro-Domination? Or comment on anything I have said please join the conversation. If not thanks again Ladies for your time.

*Brightspot

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/25/2006 8:03:18 AM

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I've worked on and off for PEP (currently on) since I came into this lifestyle as a submissive. Interestingly, it was the Domme's at PEP that helped me discover my Dominant nature, even though I held out for 2 years, insisting I was submissive and unable to figure out why I couldn't find just the right Master to submit to. DUHHH! <rolling eyes> Looking back, I think it all had to do with the Northridge Quake, but that's a long story. Anyway, I'm a Dominant lady working with PEP, although I do not do in-person sessions.

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/25/2006 12:15:42 PM

MsSimone

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Not me. I went straight to being a domme. Was recruited by a well established pro in my area who thought I would enjoy it. She was definitely dead on!

Ms Simone

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/25/2006 5:11:58 PM

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Yada Yada yada...(sorry..I fell asleep).

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/25/2006 10:28:28 PM

brightspot

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuvSponge

Yada Yada yada...(sorry..I fell asleep).

Now that is a talent I find interesting.....Sleep typing

I didn't bring this subject up to entertain you, so it's fine for you to just keep right on snoring, I am surprised to see you have 104 post's, I don't recall your nic at all, hummmmm....Must be you haven't added much to the mix, or at least anything that is memorable?

*Brightspot

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/26/2006 10:15:53 AM

TexasMaam

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Not a pro. Have been asked to be many times. No history w/porn, escort services, stripping, exotic dancing or massage parlors, either.

I do, however, engage the services of a female Registered Massage Therapist who's simply wonderful.

; )

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/26/2006 6:30:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: brightspot

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuvSponge

Yada Yada yada...(sorry..I fell asleep).

Now that is a talent I find interesting.....Sleep typing
I didn't bring this subject up to entertain you, so it's fine for you to just keep right on snoring, I am surprised to see you have 104 post's, I don't recall your nic at all, hummmmm....Must be you haven't added much to the mix, or at least anything that is memorable?

*Brightspot

Actually he's someone who follows me around quite a bit. He tries to be funny but it usually comes across as just annoying. His only saving grace in this regard is that he is truly, blithely ignorant of how offensive he often is while trying to be funny (and how most people just don't get it). If I were a betting woman I'd say he'd had a few drinks before he wrote the above and at the time it probably made perfect sense to him.

In his defense he can also be a fierce friend, but yes, he's a misunderstood pain in the ass most often. This is why I will never travel out of country with him again - he's too stupid to know when he's offending (and it's usually when he thinks he's being brilliant). He means well, but you have to get to know him to realize it and for many people it's not worth the trouble.

He's my shadow.

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/26/2006 6:54:07 PM

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The closest I came to the porn industry was working as a sex phone operator. I was already a lifestyle Domme and figured it would be easy to role play with men over the phone. I did it in real life, right? Well, contrary to what people think, the pay is terrible. Friends had been encouraging me to "go Pro" for months and when we were facing double mortgage payments, I decided to go for it. We are no longer looking at double payments and I don't rely on the income I make, but it sure helps out and I enjoy my "job" very much.
Mistress Scarlet
(who's hoping like hell this wasn't posted in an effort to rid the site of all the Pro Dommes cause she really likes it here)

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/26/2006 6:54:13 PM

MizSuz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: brightspot

MizSuz, I guess what I meant by "Pro" was Dommes who have clients who pay for the service of experiencing Female-Domination.

I'm still not sure if it fits me anymore. I have submissives in my life who often improve my life in a monetary way. That doesn't necessarily mean that I play or scene with them. But then, it is possible to dominate someone without all the fetish trappings and protocols.

quote:

ORIGINAL: brightspot
I was curious of how some women come to the place of becoming a Pro-Domme, like if there is some history that brings them to that place or it is something that women who are naturally dominant can easily move into.

I'd been playing and being dominant in my relationships for a long time so when I started I already had a good deal of lifestyle and life experience to draw from. I moved to a significantly more populated area and, after letting my presence be known, found that I was spending literally hours a day just trying to respond politely to people who were inquiring to serve. Most of them were quite happy to establish a professional relationship. I reached a point where I said to myself "why am I spending hours a day saying no and then going to a job I hate to eek out a living?" and decided to give sessioning for pay a try. It went VERY well and I stayed with it exclusively for a number of years. Eventually I reached a point where I was no longer happy needing the money these people were approaching me with. I didn't like the way needing the money effected the dynamic (and frankly, I turned most people down - not exactly a good business decision). In short, I got sick of sitting across a table from some butthead with an "I"m not going to get taken for a ride" chip on his shoulder who wanted to dictate the terms. It wasn't worth wading through the people with issues to find the gem and I wasn't willing to approach it as a service provider, so I was often in a catch 22. In fairness, though, the people that I clicked with became very dear to me and enriched my life in ways that far exceeded session fees.

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/26/2006 7:08:43 PM

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I've had the same experiences you're referring to. Submissives who have been to Pro Dommes who are either doing it solely for the money or are experiencing burn out. By the time they come to me, they're very wary of whether I can make their experience worth it or not. They want their "money's worth". I knew when I got into this that Pro Dommes on the whole are not well thought of and hesitated to do it for that one reason. I finally decided that I would let my "work" stand on it's own merit and eventually I would have to establish a reputation of my own. So far it's been very rewarding. When I start to feel as you do, it will be time for me to give it up as well.
Mistress Scarlet

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RE: How Many Pro-Dommes Here... - 3/26/2006 8:01:18 PM

brightspot

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MisSuz,
there is no extreme offense taken by what Luvsponge wrote. It is just really too damn easy for me when I feel biten to bite back, I respect your opinion

.
I also thank you for your imput, like MstrssScarlet wrote she hopes that this wasn't brought up to rid the boards of Pro's, to the contrary I asked out of curiousity for myself and maybe possibly now for others as I think the Pro-Dommes may be mis-understood by people here.
Perhaps this thread can turn to a place for the Pro-Dommes to share a bit of themselves, maybe better understanding would persue?

*Brightspot

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