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Rhodes85 -> RE: Naughty Mistress!! (1/23/2010 12:32:29 PM)
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So you go to a Fem Domme club dressed as a school boy, you've obviously been to such places dressed in similar attire before. You're approached by a Mistress, whom orders you to your knees and you're response is; "I'm not into this kind of thing!" What else could the Mistress assume when she's surrounded by droves of sniveling wimps all falling over themselves to shower her with love, worship and money.
She could use common sense and leave it at that.
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That man had every right to defend himself especially after asking her not to and saying no. He didn't hit her right off the bat... he said no. A woman says no and someone doesn't listen... well.. guess what? It is the same for a man. His safeword was no...
She had no right to do what she did and to say a man cannot defend himself is rather silly. Doesn't fly with this bitch. She broke the law and rules of conduct for decent people and lifesyler's. No way do you blame the victim here and he was a victim.
I completely agree
That is a great point among many Lady Ellen! Just by entering there may be some consent of some sort, implied.
For some things perhaps. But you cannot legally consent to assault of any kind. So she has no defense there.
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The promoter didn't see the incident. All he saw was a woman with a bleeding nose and an old man looking rather baffled but unharmed. The promoter acted on his instincts at the time. He witnessed an injured woman and an unharmed man. He should however, of listened to the witnesses that saw the act and he should of further investigated it.
Exactly. The promoter jumped to conclusions without understanding the situation first. Aside from that I get the feeling he would have sided with the 'Domme' regardless.
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Her behaviour is of course completely out of line. His reaction, given the provocation, less so. Overall however the promoter/organiser is primarily at fault; not only for handling the consequent course of events badly, but also for permitting and enabling such a situation to arise at all. He should feel grateful indeed to not be facing at the least a civil suit.
Exactly. The promoter is VERY lucky not to be facing legal action. Though if this situation is any indication, I would think he will sooner or later for later 'misunderstandings.' If he would allow this kind of thing to go on, it just screams the level of 'safety' in this club.
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Hi LadyAngelica, I really don't believe this woman has anger issues. I think its more a case of wrongly believing that any man who is submissive is willing to kneel for her. I mean, if she had grabbed him by the ear and whispered 'who's been a naughty boy then?' he would probably been butter in her hands. She just got it wrong and couldn't face up to it.
While I still think it had something to do with anger on some level, if she can't face up to her actions and responds with assault, that is very indicative of some serious problems on her part. What else is she capable of doing if things don't go her way? I hope the woman she was training realizes her actions were absolutely unacceptable.
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A schoolboy at a Goddess party is never a good match!! Most of the guys in that club that night would of given their right arm to of been slapped down by that woman. Its just she got it wrong in his case and then wouldn't back down when told 'NO' because I guess she wanted to save face in front of her apprentice.
Thats still no excuse for her actions. No means NO. I don't care who anyone is, they should understand that above all else.
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I did actually speak to the promoter of this club. He's a really nice guy but because he is a genuine woman worshiper, he just couldn't see that she had done anything wrong and considered the boot and ban a warning to the other male subs.
Regardless of if he is nice or a woman worshipper, he still does not know how to properly handle clients or how to run a club, clearly. He could have ended up getting sued and losing that club over that situation. To say nothing of the fact that he set a VERY bad precedent that the Dommes can do just about anything in that club and if they f*ck up its the subs who get blamed and thrown out? That is no way to run a business and is not a good example to be setting.
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If you know the fellow, perhaps you could arrange for him and introduction to a club run by promoters with more sense. Indeed, the "Dumbinatrix" was entirely out of line. And hitting an old man that hard? without his prior knowledge or consent? I'd probably have thought long and hard about decking her, myself. I would have, at least, spoken with someone in the man's defense, relaying everything I had witnessed. I believe in defending underdogs. Perhaps it's not too late?
I agree. The first thing anyone should know about going to any club is you don't walk up to random people and hit them. Let alone an old man that was minding his own business. Sooner or later that will come back on her, big time... ('huh?! nobody told me he was an undercover health inspector!!' or 'he was a patched angel.....? uh oh....')
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I don't think that gives them blanket permission to show their ass (figuratively) in public or give them an excuse to act inappropriately. I most likely wouldn't attend a club that would condone that kind of behavior.
I agree completely.
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Based on the facts that you presented:
I think she's an idiot that doesn't know boundaries and seriously has anger management issues.
I think that meeting violence with violence is no better.
They are both at fault.
He has every right to defend himself. I would have had the same reaction in his place if someone randomly walked up and hit me. She can't expect a nice reaction to behavior like that. There are clubs where doing something like that would get you dragged out back and beaten with baseball bats. The smart thing to do is not hit people at random. Besides if thats her idea of showing off for her trainee, that says alot right there.
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Thats right LadyPact, it has to be about a year ago now that this happened and I have not been back to the club since, but I have recently heard that this same man has been banned permanently from 3 major London clubs because of that incident and personally I think that's unfair.
I agree, not just unfair but also illegal. It makes me wonder what the club promoter was saying about this guy behind his back.
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Personally, I find the behavior of the female deplorable. It's one thing to engage in face slapping with a bottom who has consented to the activity. It's assault if just approaching someone to haul off and hit them. Being at a club doesn't change that. In My opinion, it's no different than walking up to someone and doing it on the street.
I agree completely. I'd like to see what would happen if she walked up to some random person on the street and did that.
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