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RE: Seeking one,but seeing a few. - 4/4/2006 8:29:31 PM

Misstoyou

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When you are seeking (for those that are) either it be a Dom/me or a sub/slave. Do you meet one ... or a few.

I remember very well when I was first talking with my Lord. He encouraged me to continue to talk to others while I determined if he was the one I wanted to committ myself to...

I do the same...so much so that I would not allow my submissive to offer himself to me, even after we met, unless he went to a local munch to see and meet other real live Dommes in the area first.

Submissives have done the opposite, though. I was surprised and embarassed to find that a submissive I was talking to and interested in, though still hadn't met yet in real time, had changed his profile to one of those "under consideration by [specifically naming me], cannot talk without permission".

So not my style, and obviously wishful thinking. lol He quickly changed it back.

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RE: Seeking one,but seeing a few. - 4/4/2006 10:30:23 PM

truesub4u

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Misstoyou... you got me thinking.... what is worse... the Dom who demmands a profile be changed after 1 meet.. or the sub that changed the profile after 1 meet thinking everything was perfect when nothing of the sorts had been mentioned. Jumping the gun a little there... no, not my style either...

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